Feeling rather meh

Morbidly A Beast:
I was extremely sick this week and now that I’m starting to feel better I am concerned with how I am engaging with all this I am just feeling very meh toward it, and my appetite has been this low in a very long time. My concern isn’t with the coming and going I get that it happens but i am concerned with how high the highs were and how low the lows are. Binge eating food disorder or some sort of disordered eating? Looking back at it I sort of had it in the past with how much I would just not eat. Sorry just a meh moment. Hope eveyone is doing well


I'm sorry to hear you were sick. Glad you're feeling better.

I don't think it's binge eating disorder or some other disordered eating issue. Of course, I'm not your doctor. But considering your general attitude towards gluttony, I don't think it's something like that.

I think it's more likely you didn't eat much while you were sick, so your stretched-out stomach had a chance to shrink a bit.
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Struggling to motivate self to eat

MarshmallowMinotaur:
I’m facing the same challenge … eating enough to be gaining. I do love food but there are times I just don’t, can’t, or want to eat.

I make FatBoy Shakes: 1 cup whole milk, a Boost Plus, 1/2 cup heavy cream, a scoop of whey protein for almost 1,100 calories. I can add ice cream, pb, banana for more calories.

I work in a very busy supermarket deli, so I get to graze on the slicers for what we overcut … cheeses, salami, ham, turkey, etc. The cheeses and salami are the most caloric. I also have a couple of donuts or pastries from our bakery, or mac ‘n cheese and mashed potatoes on my breaks. I put butter in my coffee and eat plain butter with honey or orange marmalade. This constant snacking and grazing is finally making me gain faster.

Like someone else said, keep high calorie snacks handy.


The Fatboy shakes might be helpful to people who have a healthy appetite. Unfortunately, they would not work for him. The ingredients are high calorie, but they are also filling. Ironically, he's more likely to eat less with such shakes than more.

The challenge isn't getting him to eat a boatload of calories. The challenge is getting him to eat the daily recommended amount of calories. Once that's been conquered, he can try the other stuff.
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Gaming

J Kov:
The Mass Effect original trilogy is what I keep going back to. ME1 is my fav out of the three. I really want to play Baldur's Gate 3.

Itch.io has a bunch of indie WG games of various flavours. Decent place to check out.


DeviantArt has a collection of weight gain games too. Some are cross-posted on Itch.io.
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I don't care if i get banned.

findhelp.org/
211.org/
988lifeline.org/

If you are in America, depressed, and feeling suicidal, these organizations are far more helpful than anything an internet stranger can provide for you.
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Struggling to motivate self to eat

CB2004:
I’ve been trying to gain for a few years now, and every-time I begin to get into it i get distracted or end up loosing my motivation to eat.

Im looking for any advice on how to make food more desirable when it’s not really something i get joy from.

I know I want to get much much bigger it’s just been a struggle and i’d appreciate any feedback.



Always have snacks on hand. Get the good stuff, and get a variety of options. It's fun, it stimulates the brain (assuming you have ADHD or are neuro-divergent), and it's easier to eat a bunch of treats than it is to stuff yourself.
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Ever wish you weren’t a fa?

Enas:
Im afraid to say that people don't know what they want.
They need to do a lot of thinking in order to figure this out. Otherwise what they dream is just a reflection of what the world tells them to desire.
It's better if you have somebody to help you in that thinking process tho! smiley

Munchies:
She knows what she wants. It's just she wants two different things. She wants to lose weight, but she also wants the comfort of not watching her weight.

It's extremely common.

Enas:
Bad communication from my end i guess, i was talking about the OP, Also im trying to think but i cant understand, what is the second thing his girlfriend wants, apart from wanting herself to loose weight?


There are two things going on with OP. He thinks his wife is sexy, but she doesn't see herself that way. She doesn't like how she looks, and he he wishes he wasn't an FA as if being on stands in her way of her ideal body shape.

Honestly, it doesn't. Assuming OP isn't doing creepy toxic stuff to make discourage her from gaining weight. But he hasn't said anything to suggest that.

As for the girlfriend, I plainly stated what she wanted. Idk how to make it plainer.
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How long until my appetite starts to grow?

Have you sought medical attention for this?

Amijustcurious:
Yes. We've ruled out anything serious, but haven't been able to find any particular cause


That's good. But I'd still bring up these options with your doctor. Fetish aside, you might find it helpful.

That said, what does a normal day of eating look like for you. That way we can see if there are small things you can tweak.
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How long until my appetite starts to grow?

Have you sought medical attention for this?

Amijustcurious:
Yes. We've ruled out anything serious, but haven't been able to find any particular cause


That's good. But I'd still bring up these options with your doctor. Fetish aside, you might find it helpful.

That said, what does a normal day of eating look like for you. That way we can see if there are small things you can tweak.
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Ever wish you weren’t a fa?

Enas:
Im afraid to say that people don't know what they want.
They need to do a lot of thinking in order to figure this out. Otherwise what they dream is just a reflection of what the world tells them to desire.
It's better if you have somebody to help you in that thinking process tho! smiley


She knows what she wants. It's just she wants two different things. She wants to lose weight, but she also wants the comfort of not watching her weight.

It's extremely common.
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Beer bellies

LuvsChub04:
read the link,honestly had no clue.thank you


No problem.
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