How long until my appetite starts to grow?

Have you sought medical attention for this?

Amijustcurious:
Yes. We've ruled out anything serious, but haven't been able to find any particular cause


That's good. But I'd still bring up these options with your doctor. Fetish aside, you might find it helpful.

That said, what does a normal day of eating look like for you. That way we can see if there are small things you can tweak.
1 year

Ever wish you weren’t a fa?

Enas:
Im afraid to say that people don't know what they want.
They need to do a lot of thinking in order to figure this out. Otherwise what they dream is just a reflection of what the world tells them to desire.
It's better if you have somebody to help you in that thinking process tho! smiley


She knows what she wants. It's just she wants two different things. She wants to lose weight, but she also wants the comfort of not watching her weight.

It's extremely common.
1 year

Beer bellies

LuvsChub04:
read the link,honestly had no clue.thank you


No problem.
1 year

Everyone's losing weight

52Percent:
Everyone’s losing weight huh? Yeah I’ve been noticing that a lot too. Buckle up everyone, we’re about to witness the beginning of the end of an era. smiley

JN_TumLover56:
That is quite a bit excessive, but at the same time I can understand where you are coming from.

Munchies:
This is whole thread is a huge nothing burger. Fat people are going nowhere.

Now, there's a conversation to be had about fat positivity and such. But the fight against fatphobia is different from the unfounded fear that fat people will stop existing.

JN_TumLover56:
I hope you are right about this! Even if you and I don’t like each other, your opinion in this thread does make things sound more hopeful?? I’m not sure what the best word for it, but I do appreciate it (for me personally).


I feel neutral about you. I wasn't aware you had an opinion about me.
1 year

Everyone's losing weight

52Percent:
Everyone’s losing weight huh? Yeah I’ve been noticing that a lot too. Buckle up everyone, we’re about to witness the beginning of the end of an era. smiley

JN_TumLover56:
That is quite a bit excessive, but at the same time I can understand where you are coming from.


This is whole thread is a huge nothing burger. Fat people are going nowhere.

Now, there's a conversation to be had about fat positivity and such. But the fight against fatphobia is different from the unfounded fear that fat people will stop existing.
1 year

How long until my appetite starts to grow?

Amijustcurious:
I've always had an incredibly small appetite. I'll eat a fourth of a normal meal and be full for hours. This has resulted in me winding up nearly underweight. I'm tired of being boney and so thin clothes never fit right. I don't want to get super fat, just softer and chubby (maybe just over the 'overweight' bmi).
I've been trying to eat more in the last week since I decided to gain some, but it's so difficult for me to get enough calories, even just to cover my BMR. I'll have a moderately large breakfast and be full until dinner or eat a small snack and have to skip lunch. How long did it take for this to change for you? I'm so jealous of people who are able to just eat and eat.
I'm looking to gain fairly slowly, as when I've tried to go faster in the past it causes my IBS to flare up, so I'm not really interested in methods involving things like heavy cream right now.


Have you sought medical attention for this? There's a lot of different treatments for underweight people - including appetite boosters and weight gain supplements. Considering your IBS and poor appetite, this could also be indicative of something else.
1 year

Hard belly vs soft belly

Jacen1008:
I think I'm getting a hard belly but would prefer soft and jiggly

Is there a way to change it


The cool thing is that when you exercise, your body will burn visceral fat before you burn subcutaneous fat.

It's possible to manage your ratio of visceral to subcutaneous fat by exercising and eating a clean yet high calorie diet. However, this will only help so much as your genetics have the greatest influence.
1 year

Gaming

RandomAcc545:
Whats your favourite game? Mine is dead by daylight.


Oh boy! We have a three way tie!

Don't Starve: Together
Scarlett Hollow
Sims 4
1 year

Ever wish you weren’t a fa?

Milhause:
So I recently stumbled upon my wife’s reddit account and I noticed a comment she made a week ago.

She was asking advice on how to knit a specific type of sweater because “I’m really self-conscious about my belly, particularly the lower belly (apple shaped).”

She’s gained a little weight recently and despite all my verbal and physical affection, I know no matter what I do I can’t help her love herself. She’s amazing and sexy and gorgeous and it breaks my heart that she focuses on the things she doesn’t like about herself instead of the things she does.

I’m also bummed because it gives me secondhand shame. I think her belly is really cute and feminine. She knows I’m a FA, but she doesn’t see herself the way I do. And I hate that the thing I find really sexy is the part of her she’s most embarrassed about. That’s fucked up and it makes me feel bad.

Idk, sometimes I just wish I wasn’t a FA. I hate feeling powerless to help her love herself and I wish her being down about her body didnt make me feel like I’m indirectly part of the problem.


Can't make someone love parts of themselves if they aren't open to do so. All you can really do is offer love and support.

If she hates being fat so much, then maybe you two can work on that together. Make it fun quality time like going on walks or cooking healthy meals. All the while, continue to show her you find her sexy no matter what she looks like.

It will give her a sense of agency while reaffirming you love how she looks.

On that note, I've never regretted being an FA. I love fat men, and they love me. Currently dating a fat man who loves being fat but is losing weight for health reasons. Not sure if he's going to lose all his fluff, but I know I'll find him sexy even if he does.
1 year

Beer bellies

Munchies:
Nothing wrong with enjoying beer. But go too hard and some of that belly might end up being an enlarged liver.

LuvsChub04:
i know mines fatty,for sure


Gotta be careful with that. I'm sure you've heard the danger already from your doctor, so I won't nag you about that. But if it gets too bad, it can, ironically, lead to weight loss.

my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15831-fatty-liver-disease

Would be a shame to drink all that beer to gain weight only for it to be the reason you lose it all.
1 year