You hate to see it. I do know that FF takes fake accounts seriously. If you include proof that it's a fake or scam account, they take care of it quickly.
1 year
Kushandtush:
Well of course content creators would need to block more often. As the valuable models that get all the attention, it doesn't take data analyzing to discern why they would need to use this feature more than, say, me.
The decision of whether one person does not want to deal with someone anymore is their own. It's extremely strange that number of blocks would be limited to a small number like 15 because it would be "no fun". If someone feels the need to block someone, they are not interested in a third parties' definition of what fun is, they are interested in making the harassment stop.
I know, it would be be pretty tragic and un-fun if someone exercised their right to choose who to interact with and blocked someone who didn't deserve it. I'm really glad staff is making sure such an awful thing can never transpire.
It's like they say. My ability to swing my fist ends at the tip of your nose.
1 year
Nippy:
I’m thinking back to my teenage years, when people were beginning to show an interest in the opposite sex… the heart throbs, the leading men in every film, the posters other girls had on their walls…all lean and muscular. Even the boys people liked at school were of a certain build- chubby lads (and girls) didn’t really get a look in. It all felt so alienating to me, like ‘this is what I’m supposed to like?’ It just left me cold and I could barely even feign an interest. This was further complicated by the fact I was, and am, bisexual.
I knew what I liked but I neither felt I could say, like I wouldn’t even be taken seriously, nor would there be many people who I could even name. I think it’s a bit better now but there just weren’t really plus sizes singers or actors or anything then, or not ones who were marketed to young people anyway. No pin ups for me!
Sometimes I look back and wonder if there were other people who had broader tastes, so to speak, but also didn’t really say due to the teen need to conform. Either way, I’m so glad I’m an adult now and know it’s ok to like what I like and that I’m not the only one
HanSelo:
I felt exactly like this. Worse still is that, growing up in mostly-pre-internet '80s & '90s Britain, any deviation from the baseline expectation of what might have been considered "normal attractiveness" was stigmatised and attracted derision. The internet has been a liberalising force when it comes to sex and attraction. We're all much weirder than we knew. I can't wait for the day some hacker figures out how to publish everyone on Earth's search history and we get to learn just what a bunch of freaky kinksters we truly are.
As a person who has dealt with stalkers in the past and has had an abusive upbringing where my life was jeopardized over my search history, I find this truly horrifying.
1 year
Animus:
Yes, not a fan of this timeline. Punch your local capitalist.
As cathartic as that might be, this issues are systemic. Still, it would be nice to make a billionaire cry.
1 year
Greentrees8733:
Kind of. Genetics and hormones seem to be the biggest factors. Reduce stress as much as possible, as cortisol seems to preference visceral fat gain.
However, as others have said, dietary factors seem to have minor influence. Dairy fat seems to favor subcutaneous fat gain, while fructose seems to favor visceral fat.
This is true. I also want to add that drinking heavy cream (or any dairy product) does not convert visceral fat to subcutaneous fat like some people in the forum think. Only exercise can do that. Drinking things with a high fat content will not burn fat. That's like adding water to a wet blanket to dry it off.
1 year
Sorta. Sometimes I'll tease my partner for being out of shape, but only as part of sexy times. But not all that much.
Recently, he's been working out more. Not so much to lose weight as he's trying to be healthier and live and long life. I gotta say, I am more turned on by him working out and getting into shape than I am him being out of shape.
I don't know what it is about a fit fat guy, but it just gets me going.
1 year
Zorah:
No lost 10kg but this is still the only thing i find sexualy exciting. Idk how to get rid of this and be into something else more normal..
Why should you be ashamed of your fetish? You like what you like.
1 year
BellyandCurves:
Inflation is really out of control. Getting harder and harder to feed myself when most of my paycheck goes to groceries, purchasing smaller and smaller amounts as everything goes up in price. Totally out of control and frustrating. Most young people cannot even afford to buy a house.
As we supposedly progress as a society, things should be easier, not harder.
That's capitalism for ya. Some price increases are understandable, but a lot of people lately are just trying to make a buck. And that makes it even more expensive for everyone else.
1 year
Nofbar:
I need a practical book for fat couples, in particular one that addresses how fat couples can go from "How can we have sex when we're so fat?" to "We're fat and have very enjoyable sex and even kids.". Could I get some recommendations?
Why am I asking? I've always had a hard time being open about anything with anyone. That's not good in a marriage. So today I said that I was drawn to her confidence about being fat. That me being fat, her attitude made me feel at ease. That I wouldn't mind getting fatter. She said she's okay with me being fat and doesn't want me to lose weight if I don't want to, but she doesn't think she can accept me putting on more weight. She said that it would be more difficult or impossible for us to have sex and that's a big problem because we both want kids.
I remember hearing about books specifically for fat couples on dealing with the challenges of having sex while fat, but I have no idea how to search for them.
Do you only want a book? Or will websites/articles do too?
1 year
