FF Team:
Hi all,

We are currently looking into improving the profile section. The current format allows members to answer general questions around hobbies and interests.

We want to improve this by adding a section so members can talk specifically about Feedism and their personal interests surrounding the kink.

At the moment the concept would be to add a section for the most dominant interest / identifier and then have specific questions that delve into this as well as a free text box to make this personable.

The five categories we have chosen are: Feeder, Gainer, Feedee, Foodee and FA / FFA.

Here are just a few examples of what could be included in each kink section. We would really like your input as to what you think should be included... What sort of things would you want to know about someone who identifies as a FFA for example, and what would you like to be able to express to other members about your interest and role as a Feeder? What questions can should we ask, what information is important for members to be able to easily express or find out about another member?

See below some basic ideas:


Feeder
• Experience Level: none, online only, real life novice, real life expert.
• Favorite feeding techniques: [i] funnel feeding, hand feeding, etc…
• Style: submissive, dominant, worshipper
• Favorite Foods to feed: home cooked, take out, restaurants,
• Desired body type / weight. curvy, bbw, ssbbw, immobile
• What do you love about feeding?

Gainer
• Weight Goals: start weight, current weight, goal weight
• Duration: When did you start gaining?
• Favorite Foods to stuff / binge:
• Daily Calorie intake:
• What do you love about gaining?


Feedee
• Favorite Foods:
• Weight limits / goals:
• Preferred feeding method: online, real life
• Feedee Style: submissive / dominant
• What do you love about being a feedee?


Foodee
• Favorite take out/ restaurant:
• Go to feel good meal:
• Gluttonous or hedonistic?
• Body positive?
*To be honest I found it difficult to come up with ideas for this one, so would be great to hear from some Foodees on the site!


FA / FFA
• What do you find attractive about fatness?
• Encourager or Admirer?
• Favorite body part: belly, bum, boobs, thighs

*Again would be great to hear from FFA’s and FA’s on the site and let us know what you would like to have included!


Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and suggestions. Thanks in advance your feedback is greatly appreciated!


c00kie
FF Team

Nok:
Whew, two cents: limiting blocking is probably a BAD pr decision at the least, bordering on being actively inhumane. And probably bad business in other ways, since people aren't likely to get a premium account just to block profiles that harass them, they'll just leave the site.

And if it's really community that you worried about, in addition to unlimited blocks keeping people here better, you could just implement a block renewal protocol of some kind, perhaps a list of profiles you've blocked or unblocked, with blocks expiring after a year and requiring renewal in the form of rechecking a box in that list. Or something.

Sumjohn:
Can't wait for another update from op.

Angy523:
I forgot to mention:
7. He gets tired much faster now.
8. He became lazier (even during sex, lately he just let me do most of the action)



But I'm still confused sometimes, he has some moments when he tells me he should lose weight because he got fatter. I started to think it's his way of teasing me because without me saying anything, he asked if we should make his belly smaller or bigger and I thought it would be safe to say it looks good as it is, but his answer was "I don't think so, I think we should make it bigger". Or he showed me a pic with a man with 6 packs and asked me if I want him to look like that. I said no and he said he's happy to hear that. Also, today he checked the scale, he told me he is too fat, but after that he came with me to eat some cake (I was the one who wanted it, but in the end he ate much more than me...basically he ate everything was left while I had 2-3 bites)

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.

Munchies:
It really does. I can't tell you how many times I've had some truly depraved people slither into my DMs. Some examples:

Men openly asking me to cheat on my partner with them.

Dom feeders thinking that I'm secretly a sub feedee and trying to "train me".

People treating me like a cum rag.

Emotionally manipulative scum bags.

Men moving way too fast.

Don't get me wrong. I do get DMs from very lovely people. I've even befriended a few. But man, are they in the minority.

Pluviophile:
I've had very similar experiences in my DMs. There are some metaphorical diamonds in the rough, but dang it's few and far between.

Chunkadelicc:
Probably not many as they’re often the most pursued and harassed members of this community. This question alone proves my point, actively asking for a select group of members to fulfill a desire. Do people ask for male feeders? Non-binary feeders? Trans feeders?

Time and time again I witness women get hounded by horny, depraved, lonely men. I don’t know how they do it, it must take incredible strength.

StrykerDog:
I'm now at a weight where I believe I'll have to stuff myself to continue gaining, however, I don't find the process sexy. It's painful and uncomfortable. Is there any way I can continue gaining without really having to stuff myself? It's not really the food that I find out when it comes to weight, it's the end result.

Sumjohn:
Can't wait for another update from op.

Angy523:
I didn't know if I should update this because I realised that exposing this kind of details to strangers make some people think they know more about me and my partener than they actually know.

But I guess I can give some updates once in a while. Sooo:
1. Just as I expected, he didn't lose weight. He ate less for a few days, but it did't last. He gained a little weight again, but idk how much.
2. He is at his heaviest since I know him, which made me show much more appreciation for his body. Just seeing him naked was enough to make me horny. He saw that and because I kept saying that he is too sexy, he asked if I would prefer him to lose weight or to gain weight. I told him I wouldn't like him to lose weight and he told me that it would be too hard for him anyways. I asked him why and he just said he doesn't want to eat less.
3. One day he told me he got fatter and that he was thinking to lose a little weight, but he wants to know my opinion. I told him he should do what he feels is better for him and I would support that. But he insisted he wants to know what I think about his gain and I told him I think he looks good. He still wanted to hear a clear answer, if I would prefer him to lose weight or not so I told him I would prefer not...he just told me "You make me really fat, you know that?" and I saw he got hard.
4. He is literally addicted to me playing with his belly. He always asks me to do this or to kiss it. Also, during handjob he pulls my head to kiss his belly.
5. He doesn't skip meals anymore. Even if he doesn't have time to eat, he finds a way.
6. He doesn't let me play with his belly in public anymore because he tells me it makes him horny.

Chunkadelicc:
For me, it’s insecurity after numerous negative interactions. I would make accounts to try and appreciate my body and enjoy feedism. I was often met with creeps, or those who didn’t respect my boundaries. Being used for my slightly pudgy body, being an outlet to send unsolicited pictures to, being overshadowed and almost cast away by a community I held dear to my heart. I never knew why either.

I don’t plan on posting my body again anytime soon, all of my accounts surrounding it are long past inactive. There would be no support for a revival.

It’s insecurity after consistently feeling like you aren’t welcome, despite not knowing what you did.

FAMGM:
It’s virtually impossible to do by eye.

Assuming you’re of average muscle mass, your BMI is 42, and your “healthy” weight is around 189 lbs.

Therefore, you’re 123 lbs overweight, son!

On the basis that a “healthy” weight involves a BF% of no more than 19% (37.8 lbs of fat at 189 lbs), you’ve theoretically added an extra 125 lbs of fat (162.8 lbs total).

Assuming all of that is accurate, your body fat percentage is 51.59%.

BigTraffic6494:
Thanks! So pretty much could you tell by my gut if I have more or less abdominal fat than normal? And whether it’s severe obesity?

Raboot The Admirer:
I still have little experience on dating, but for what I have seen, most fat people don't even think they can be attractive to someone, not despite, but because of their size.
The two guys I have gone on dates with, (both "relationships" were extremely short, not-strings-attached), were so surprised that I found that aspect of them desirable. Maybe during a longer relationship you could turn a shy and insecure big guy into someone more confident, but I don't know.

I'm not suprised this is the case, unfortunately. Outside of spaces like these, being even a little chubby is still mostly being sold as the worst thing ever no matter what. I feel like most people around me have not even imagined that someone can be fat AND happy with their body.

This is why I would recommend any fat admirer, no matter their bodytype, to try and make the first step when they can. I would not wait for a chubby dude to flirt with me.