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Doesn't matter. I've already reported them. The only reason why I am still responding is to preserve evidence.

Can't say they have. All these things are not inherently sexual to me. The intent has to be sexual to turn me on.

It's like dildos. Seeing a random dildo in the wild isn't inherently sexual. It can be funny or shocking, but it's not going to turn you on because it's not being sexual.

But if you are going to use the dildo, then it becomes sexy.

You are admitting to crimes.

As a side note, my partner isn't into humiliation. He's into exhibitionism and twisted praise. He knows I love showing off my greedy fat hog. As he puts it, knowing that I'm crazy for him removes the humiliation aspect of it all. Which is great for me because knowing he loves showing himself off makes it more enjoyable for me.

I understand. My first feedee got me into BDSM. Didn't vibe with it beforehand.

He was a masochistic sub, and he liked it rough. I was a normie with PTSD. We went slow for my sake so I could discover what I liked, hated, and ambivalent. There were times we had to stop scenes because things got too much for me.

I'm glad he went slow for me. If he hadn't, I'd have sworn off BDSM for all my days. It also helped me to work through some of trauma.

Nothing wrong with doing things out of your comfort zone to please your partner. But don't forget to take care of your needs too.

You're welcome.

Also, there are different ways you can go about things. My personal favorite is letting my partner work for his stuffings. For example, I'll get a bunch of food - sometimes more than I know he can eat - put it in front of him, and make him earn his stuffing. This usually means some explicitly sexual act, but you can choose something else.

Other times (and this is my partner's favorite thing to do) I'll have him do challenges. Calorie amount, time limits, making him eat everything, I've brought him, stuffing him until he can't move, etc. Sky's the limit. Something I love to do is stuffing him and then making him do something physical. Kneeling, making him touch his toes, walk up the stairs - whatever you like. But don't push too far. Last thing you want is for him to barf it back up.

Unless you're into that. But that would be a huge mess to clean.

I also enjoy teasing, name calling, and degradation. Of course, you'd need to establish boundaries with that. Last thing you want is to call him your greedy slut or piggy bitch and then he gets offended.

Sadistic domme feeder here.

Communication and trust is key. You two need to have boundaries and safewords/gestures established ahead of time. This is for his sake as well as yours.

You can also keep tabs on his fullness by feeling his stomach. If there's no give, there's no room. Belly rubs and massages help digestion and free up space. Feel free to take breaks. That way he can digest and have more room.

If she doesn't want to stay then that's her choice. There is a lot of sexism in this community. And leaving it is a perfectly valid choice. But those of us that choose to stay have a duty to push back against the isms we come across.

You're right. I don't like the idea of preventing people from losing weight just because you have a fetish. It's dehumanizing. Even the way he described these people (deflated beach balls) is gross.

That said, a lot of jobs offer health insurance. And you can get inexpensive health insurance plans on the Market Place thanks to the Affordable Care Act. So that's not a good indicator of class.