ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.

Ex Jock:
Yeah another thing, at least that I’ve found, is it takes awhile to gain so not going to look noticeably fatter if a frequent poster. But waiting between posts until you do can be boring or take awhile

Mrman1980uk:
Who else finds that it's hard to be motivated with vanilla dating after speaking to or even meeting people here?

NYCBellyBlimp:
Apple/Orange Juice/Gatorade does it 4 me. Kickstart is good too, though I wouldn't drink it everyday as it's less effective as an energy drink over time.

Ex Jock:
Yeah only a matter of time and consistency is key. But dang if it isn’t fun and satisfying growing and seeing progress. Never thought I’d ‘let myself go’ like this let alone want even more and more

Munchies:
... But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
...But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥

Munchies:
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.

MickRidem:
🤔🤔🤔
I don't want to be seriously caught getting horny *every time* I eat, there are many situations, including at work, where this would not be ideal. LOL! If I could keep it to stuffing (and tbh that may have already started) and a specific food, that's more manageable and realistic for me. I still want a LITTLE control. 🤣 But yes, the game went very well. I'll have to have a chat with him soon about this kind of training. 🔥

Super sexy.

MickRidem:
Dear GODS if I could snap my fingers and be this...

Munchies:
All in good time, Mick. All in good time.

MickRidem:
🐖🏋‍♂️ I know this *logically*...
Lift big, eat big. Sigh... 🤣

I AM already much bigger than in 2019, so I have to keep that in mind. 👍

Munchies:
My partner and I are on a gaining break. He's been getting in shape since January ~ February. Still, some things remain unchanged.

The other day, I decided to tease my partner for an entire day. Even though I didn't mention feedism, he couldn't help but stuff his greedy face with snacks. It was great.

MickRidem:
...I have no concept of the frequency or time needed for this kind of conditioning.

Good to hear your guy's feeling good on this break, and yet not entirely losing some of that fun. 😉🤣

Munchies:
It's all about balance, baby.

As to the conditioning, it's more about consistency than it is frequency. But frequency does speed things up.

I have an extremely high libido. My partner's is more normal. We've figured out a system where I'm sexually satisfied, but he isn't pushing himself too hard. However, initially, he'd put out whenever I wanted. This was at least once a day but often two or three times a day. Add onto the fact that, initially, we only engaged in feedism and he wasn't used to being desired so intensely, the link formed within two weeks. (Looking back, I have no idea how he managed to keep up, lol.)


In your situation, assuming that you and your husband (partner?) have more normal libidos, it will probably take you longer than two weeks to form such a strong link. But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
I also have a very high libido, and my guy is more normal. Thankfully as a sub who enjoys edging and denial, this works out well for us. LOL!

But this is why I wonder what I can achieve on my own. Of course, work and life get in the way (pffft) so frequency/consistency can change.

An example might be... one Boston Cream donut a week when I *know* I can make a sexual link with some private time, vs the more occasional stuffing when he's involved. (We have more than occasional sex, but not Feedee related. 😁) But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥

Ex Jock:
I know it’s been discussed before, but who all still lifts or works out while they got into gaining? Has it helped or hindered progress?

I feel like I’ve stalled out the past couple months. Even lifts stalling out, which I guess means I’m not eating enough, so it’s fun having justification to bulk and gain even more. Going to re-double down on efforts and hopefully see some progress.

Anyone have similar experience?

Belly Builder:
I think we have had similar experiences. I found success doing a "zig zag" pattern....230 to 198 to 255 to 225 and now shooting for 275+ this time. I think lifting is important because it will ultimately let you carry more bodyweight in the long run. Plus higher weight = bigger lifts which is nice too.

Munchies:
Plus, that powerlifter body is sexy af.

Look at this physique:

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Super sexy.

MickRidem:
Dear GODS if I could snap my fingers and be this...

Ex Jock:
Yeah all good points. Thanks for the feedback. Will def have to up my liquid calories and start there while I work on stomach capacity