Wife and I are lucky, I guess. Neither of us has to deal with too much outward displeasure of our weight. I’ve put on about 40 pounds in the past five or six years. She’s about 330 these days, up about 50 since we met nine years ago, and quite comfy with it ;-)
2 years
I’d have to agree with you that my preferences have trended upwards since being on here. My ideal size in a woman was maybe 250 or so years ago. Since then, I’ve met and married a confident lady who’s quite happy being 330 pounds ;-)
2 years
Update: I’m closing in on a 30 while my wife is quite close to 60 :-)
2 years
CuriousKat98:
I think it has always been there with me. I used to tell everyone when I was younger that I wanted to get married have kids and get fat. I didn't see it as a kink per say then though. It was just what happened with my older sister and she was really happy, so I wanted that. I think I realized it was something more to me when I got pregnant with my daughter and gained a lot of weight. I had to quit smoking, so I used food to clam the cravings. I gained probably 60 pounds in those 9 months. My husband gain at least 20 too. It was just an amazing experience to me. Total surprise. Anyways, this is my first post here. I actually joined so I could reply to this. Kind of lurked on here for a while. Something freeing about openly admitting things that are taboo in everyday life in a public place...
Welcome to the site :-) Your bio is parallel to a lot of others on here, mine included!
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t understand why BMI is a worth while measure of anything of value, it is literally height divided by weight (or vice versa) there’s loads of very fit and muscley people who have similar BMI to me and I’m mostly fat. I understand BFP because that’s actually a measuring of the amount of fat on your body (maybe it wouldn’t be worth it to get BFP on someone who is visibly obese?) It seems like a way to categorize people and assign health or unhealth based on nothing being fat doesn’t make you necessarily unfit or unhealthy - and even if it did why would it matter
BFP is indeed more telling a stat than BMI by itself. I consider the latter simply to get excited about, especially when mine and my wife’s keeps going up :-)
2 years
Seeing my wife’s big, broad, luscious back fat and those gigantic boobs of hers are surely a daily turn-on :-) So are her tattoos…so sexy and inviting!
2 years
John78:
Thanks! Congrats on your gain too, have you found it easy or hard overall? I was finding it easier as my appetite kept going up and also I was fairly active before and then stopped to gain which probably helped.
It’s been slow overall, but going from 195 to 210 has been rather quick compared to being stuck at 195 for a few years there ;-) I’m even starting to get mini-moobs, which is quite exciting. My wife’s appetite stays pretty steady, as she’s been north of 300 pounds for several years now.
2 years
My wife and I didn’t think we could have any children of our own due to age and her weight, being more than 300 pounds. But then one day we did. As a friend told me later, it only needs to work once :-)
2 years
Impressive gain! I can relate, as I was stuck around 190 for a while before finally breaking 200 in the past year. My frame is medium overall and I’m probably incapable of getting up as high as you, so congrats indeed ;-)
2 years
Intriguing, as this would prompt people to show a little of their belly in public ;-) Maybe on the arm could accommodate folks who might not be confident enough to show too much in public, who badly want to get fatter and help others do the same!
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