MottiF:
What was the exact moment you realized you loved the power of making someone bigger for you? Not just the kink. Not just the play. But the raw, intoxicating thrill of control. of watching someone surrender, bite after bite, pound after pound. because you wanted it.
Was there a turning point? A moment that lit something up in you: dominance, nurture, lust, obsession, even love? What changed in you when feedism became more than just fantasy?
I’m not just asking about logistics, I’m asking about the fire behind it. If you’ve felt it, you know exactly what I mean.
Let’s talk about that.
Munchies:
I've been an FA for the longest time. I loved watching others gain, but I never took an active role in it. A few years ago, I met what became my first feedee. He wanted me to give it a try, so I did. I took to it so well - almost like I'd been doing it all my life.
MottiF:
cool!
how much did he gain weight with you?
About 50 lbs. Do not recommend gaining that fast.
3 months
This is a spam account. They pop up ever so often. Just report and move on. I doubt there's a person attached to the account.
3 months
Marco05:
Hey everyone i recently started dating a big girl but it doesn't seem to me that she's into federism any tip on how to know if she's into it or if i can convince her to imbrace it?
I mean, you are welcome to ask, but there's no promise she will want to get bigger.
If she does not want to gain, don't push it. It's her body. If you two break up and she only gains for your pleasure, she is going to hate herself later.
3 months
Jiggle Junkie:Had trouble deciding whether to post this here in Gaining, or over in Food and recipes, Lifestyle, or General.
New Research Claims Olive Oil Drives Obesity to Greater Extent Than Other FatsWarning: source of this article is fat-negative, so expect the usual focus on fat being a Horrible Thing to Avoid in the tone and word choice. Adjust mental filters accordingly.
Haven’t made the time to read the original study nor check any of the other references, and prolly won’t. I’ve not personally experienced noticeable fattening effects from generous consumption of olive oil, but then my body is stacked against fattening in many ways on many levels.
Anyone here ever noticed a fattening effect attributable to olive oil? Hope there’s something to it… really like the idea of something else relatively healthy really cranking up generation of new fat cells.
I'm unable to read it because it's stuck behind a paywall. I'm also skeptical because I can't seem to find the study. A quick Google pulls up numerous studies talking about the positive impact olive oil has on weight management as recently as this year.
3 months
Juliihs2:
I've started dating recently, and over the past five months, my boyfriend has gradually gained some weight about 2.2 lbs per month. He's mentioned it with some concern, but I actually find it charming. I like making sure he always has snacks and feels comforted, especially since he's been under a lot of stress lately. After a few days apart, I noticed his belly looks a bit rounder. I just want to support him and make sure he feels loved and well-fed even if that means his clothes start to feel a little tighter.
2.2 lbs a month is about 24.4 lbs a year. Not bad. But I would have a conversation with him about it - see where he stands. Just because he's gaining and you like it doesn't mean he's happy with the situation.
3 months
MottiF:
What was the exact moment you realized you loved the power of making someone bigger for you? Not just the kink. Not just the play. But the raw, intoxicating thrill of control. of watching someone surrender, bite after bite, pound after pound. because you wanted it.
Was there a turning point? A moment that lit something up in you: dominance, nurture, lust, obsession, even love? What changed in you when feedism became more than just fantasy?
I’m not just asking about logistics, I’m asking about the fire behind it. If you’ve felt it, you know exactly what I mean.
Let’s talk about that.
I've been an FA for the longest time. I loved watching others gain, but I never took an active role in it. A few years ago, I met what became my first feedee. He wanted me to give it a try, so I did. I took to it so well - almost like I'd been doing it all my life.
3 months
AskDrFeeder:
One reason for stuffing is to improve your capacity.
Any stories about this? How much can you stuff now compared to when you started? How much weight (if any) did you gain in that time?
My partner has a gastic bypass long before we met. He didn't have a very big capacity, but that didn't stop him from regaining all the weight he lost and then some.
Still, he wanted to be able to eat more. So I systematically stretched his stomach over 6 months. He did very well - got up to over 14kcal in a day at one point.
Of course, that's not sustainable, but the capacity was insane.
3 months
Hiccupx:
We're updated chat again with one bug fix and one new feature:
Chat leeks (bug fix)
There's been a problem for a while with user's private messages appearing in the General chat room. We think this was caused by the user's connection being temporarily broken. When this happens the underlying software automatically reconnects the user, however the chat application then reset the user's active room back to the default General chat room, as if they were entering chat for the first time. The user wouldn't necessarily notice until they sent a message, only to find it's been posted in the wrong room. This should now have been fixed, the application should remember the room you were in before the connection was lost, and return you to the same room on reconnection.
Online status indicators (new feature)
When you go into a chat room you should now see a little round 'online status' indicator on each user's avatar in the user list. When the indicator is green it means the user is 'present', if it turns amber it means they've not sent a message for over 5 minutes and are deemed to be 'away'. If the 'away' user then types a message, their indicator should immediately turn back to green.
Note: The 'View profile' link is now available again, if you open the drop down next to a user's name, you should see the link at the bottom of their user information.
FINALLY!!!!!!!!!
3 months
BigBallBellyGirl:
No doctor is going to give an outright blessing to obesity, but you do want someone who respects her as a person.
Very best of luck to the two of you.
Morbidly A Beast:
So true. This is very important. Make sure to check the reviews of the doctors. Avoid the fatphobic ones. It’s not a cop out, a lot of drs see weight loss as the only option and it’s simply not the case.
My issue with fatphobic doctors is not so much that they tell you to lose weight as it is they tend to think your weight is the source of all your suffering.
They also often have shit bedside manner.
So yeah, if you don't think your doctor is a good fit for you, get a different one. But do not swear off going to the doctor because you had a bad experience. Feedism is a risky kink the way a lot of people go about it. So you need to be under doctor supervision - even if all you are doing is getting a routine check up.
3 months
BittyDawg:
Let's just say I dated a girl with PCOS and it permanently rewired my brain 😵💫
LuvsChub04:
I looked up with a girl once who had pcos, I was always neutral on body hair on a women, yet after her, major turn on...
As a woman with PCOS that hates her body hair, this is nice to hear. My partner tells me not to feel bad about it, but no dice.
3 months
