Gaining and lifting

Ex Jock:
I know it’s been discussed before, but who all still lifts or works out while they got into gaining? Has it helped or hindered progress?

I feel like I’ve stalled out the past couple months. Even lifts stalling out, which I guess means I’m not eating enough, so it’s fun having justification to bulk and gain even more. Going to re-double down on efforts and hopefully see some progress.

Anyone have similar experience?

Belly Builder:
I think we have had similar experiences. I found success doing a "zig zag" pattern....230 to 198 to 255 to 225 and now shooting for 275+ this time. I think lifting is important because it will ultimately let you carry more bodyweight in the long run. Plus higher weight = bigger lifts which is nice too.


Plus, that powerlifter body is sexy af.

Look at this physique:

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Super sexy.
1 year

Gettibg stuck at a weight

Fatbilly:
Thanks for the advice!


You're welcome, love.
1 year

Feeling groggy

Amijustcurious:
I know it seems like the opposite of what you want, but you might try some (mild) exercise. Even just walking a bit a day has been shown to increase energy levels, and it doesn't burn many calories, so even just a small snack can replace any you lose


Good advice. A lot of people in this community are anti-exercise. But light to moderate exercise is great for gainers and feedees. It increases the appetite, improves your health, and helps make gaining more comfortable.
1 year

Read

Renaissancebxtch:
Im looking for a serious relationship with a man that has little to no confidence, preferably with mental issues that is willing to do unreasonable and unfair things. You must dedicate yourself to me fully, worshipping me and only me. You must block and remove all females from your life, I am the alpha female and you need nothing else. If you're interested in this twisted dynamic add my snap . Renaissancebxtc


You are a toxic abuser and should not be around people. People like you are the lowest of the low.

You call yourself an alpha? An alpha has a fanny pack full of cheesy crackers and juice boxes. I don't see any cheesy crackers or juice boxes.

I'm a sadistic domme, and I wouldn't dare do any of the things you just mentioned. And I agree with Ace of Spadez. One day, your victim is going to snap, and you'll be lucky if you just end up in jail.
1 year

Gettibg stuck at a weight

Fatbilly:
I have been trying to gain for 3 months now and have gotten nowhere. (Look at my pics to see)😓

I have been trying to eat 3500 calories a day. I have also been living a very sednetry life style. Is there anything else I can do?


Some things to keep in mind:

Weight gain is a marathon, not a sprint. Sometimes, you have to be patient and not rush things.

Sometimes, light to moderate exercise can help you gain weight. It stimulates the appetite, and you cannot exercise enough to offset a bad diet.

A diet high in fat can, ironically, lead to weight loss. Let's not forget keto is a thing.

Ensure you eat enough calories to gain weight and not just maintain it.

Learn to have fun with your gains. Hedonism goes a long way when it comes to getting fat.
1 year

Feeling groggy

Morbidly A Beast:
I eat a multivitamin and drink a lot of water


Both are good things. Many feedees and gainers have abysmal diets, so multivitamins are a must. And most people don't drink enough water.
1 year

Conditioned to associate sex with food?

I have an update!

About a year ago, I posted this in the thread:

Did this with my feedee. It works really well. If my feedee starts feeling full or starts flagging, I just rile him up. He turns into an eating machine and will eat until he physically cannot eat anymore.

The dangerous part is that you risk being unable to cum without eating. Of course, any conditioning can be undone, but as someone said earlier, it's hard to want to stop.

Munchies:
My partner and I are on a gaining break. He's been getting in shape since January ~ February. Still, some things remain unchanged.

The other day, I decided to tease my partner for an entire day. Even though I didn't mention feedism, he couldn't help but stuff his greedy face with snacks. It was great.

MickRidem:
I am so fascinated by this. I feel like my questions would be too specific to answer unless people's approach was scientific and carefully tracking, but I'll ask anyway. LOL!

If I wanted to train my body to react to Boston Cream donuts, would I need to eat them every day and get myself off while eating them? Or would it work if I got off just when I decide to have those donuts no matter how far apart those instances were? Frequency vs specific connection?

If I wanted to train my body to react to eating in general, all food, would I need to rile myself up every time I ate? (That's inconvenient.) And if I did, approximately how long would it take if I went balls to the wall?

Or, if I want to train my body to get excited when stuffing, like your example, how is that done? Daily? For weeks? Months? Years? I have no concept of the frequency or time needed for this kind of conditioning.

Good to hear your guy's feeling good on this break, and yet not entirely losing some of that fun. 😉🤣


It's all about balance, baby.

As to the conditioning, it's more about consistency than it is frequency. But frequency does speed things up.

I have an extremely high libido. My partner's is more normal. We've figured out a system where I'm sexually satisfied, but he isn't pushing himself too hard. However, initially, he'd put out whenever I wanted. This was at least once a day but often two or three times a day. Add onto the fact that, initially, we only engaged in feedism and he wasn't used to being desired so intensely, the link formed within two weeks. (Looking back, I have no idea how he managed to keep up, lol.)


In your situation, assuming that you and your husband (partner?) have more normal libidos, it will probably take you longer than two weeks to form such a strong link. But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.
1 year

Nsfw morphs

GluttonyDemon:
Yes I know I'm hoping someone can use that well to make a morph 😁


That could be you if you learn how to use the program.
1 year

Does everyone here get turned on by fat or gaining?

Munchies:
Getting turned on? By fat?? On a fat fetish website???

What a novel idea.

Ace Of Spadez:
Lol, I think it was more along the lines of an obvious ice breaker. I think he knew the answer to his question before he asked us lol


Ask a silly question, get a silly answer.
1 year

Does everyone here get turned on by fat or gaining?

Getting turned on? By fat?? On a fat fetish website???

What a novel idea.
1 year