Catalinacataline:
The truth is, sometimes I feel distrustful of my body because of my mother, she always tells me that I am very fat and it depresses me that she says those things to me, so I get depressed and start to eat more. Sometimes I say that I am going to go to the gym but I never do. I do and well of the rest when I do not receive complaints from my mother I feel good with my body and I like it and I accept myself as The worst thing is that I'm like this because of my own mother. When I was little, I was very skinny, I didn't gain weight, I hardly ate. My mother started giving me vitamins, so now I wouldn't stop eating, I stopped the pills and I kept eating and didn't stop until now. ..
You are very fat. This is not a bad thing.
I'm sure your mother is saying this out of love. However, you need to decide what is right for you.
I'm not saying ignore your mother. Instead, decide how much, of any of what she is saying is worth listening too. Then, make sure you firmly establish your boundaries with her.
