Fivv:
Just going to drop this here since it’s something I sometimes mull over. How would people improve or change the human anatomy if they could. Me personally I feel like you could do a fair amount more if we had an extra pair of arms and the ability to be completely ambidextrous. Any other thought?

BakeryCreations:
Hi, I was curious about what men who gain weight or want to gain weight find particularly entrancing about it. Or what those that appreciate watching a man gain find entrancing about it.

As a man who has for some time liked the idea of woman gaining weight, I have always been curious about those who enjoy men getting bigger.

Dmal202121:
What do you lovely people think

Nippy:
I don’t know if I could call myself a feeder as I’ve only really had the opportunity to do it twice and it would probably best be described as stuffing because it didn’t involve that long term involvement of watching gaining progress.

I’ve always been attracted to chubby/fat people, male and female, though, and love to see people gaining weight, regardless of how active a role I personally play in that though

Hiccupx:
It may sometimes seem that we don't take abuse reports and disruptive members seriously, but to give you an idea of how hard the moderators work, here's our stats for the past week (from 29th Jan to now):

Notes: 3
Warnings: 5
1 day suspensions: 2
1 week suspensions: 1
Permanent bans: 7
IP address bans: 12

IP address bans are usually for trolls, scammers and spammers that have no interest in the site other than to cause disruption or to get what they can from it. We have very strict sign-up checks that stop most of these at the door but for those that do get through we usually pick these up in a day or two.

Permanent bans are for members that may have some interest but have repeatedly broken the rules, usually by scamming or harassing other members or by persistent begging and advertising. These bans prevent people from signing-up by they can still view the site in a limited way as a guest.

The notes, warnings and suspensions are just for members who do have an interest in the site but play up occasionally, for instance may need a day off to cool off after an argument in chat.

Overall, we try to be as tolerant as we can of everybody, because it's not good for the community to ban lots of people. This means having to put up with some minor grievances, arguments and disruptions from otherwise good people just as you would in 'real' off-line life.

However I take your point about improving the reporting feature. Adding the ability to upload screenshots would be really useful because so often it's just one person's word against another. Thanks for the suggestion.

ILuvChubbyChix:
I can't be entirely certain who the OP is referring to, but a lot of the difficulty involved is because a lot of the abuse reports received is a lot of "he said, she said" with little to no information otherwise provided.

We really do try, but sometimes it's a challenge. That said, the more details, the better. If more than one person complains, odds are they aren't all wrong, so there's that too.

And sometimes, they do get banned. One user who shall remain unnamed, earned a week long ban and it looks like I'm going to have to spend a good chunk of the afternoon removing the posted comments. I'll probably finish watching a feature length film and there will probably still be a lot of comments left. Anyway, time to keep chipping away at them.

Spike:
It is very confusing,
I miss my top bar :{ The side bar messes with my head so i log on less.

NocturnalDevotion:
Any time I’ve been trolled by nasty grey faces who contribute nothing to the website (no photo, no stories, no personal information) the most the mods do is delete the comment. I don’t get why bans aren’t given out more often to people who are just here to destroy the community. I have to say one time Cookie did give someone a week ban after they harassed me multiple times,but still. I think they should have been permanently banned, especially since I cancelled my upgrade due to it.

Why they want to drive out contributors and have people cancel premium memberships in favor of grey face trolls who are probably here for the sole reason of causing trouble is beyond me.

XxxYyy:
I feel a dedicated deep fryer in the home is usually unnecessary unless you’re going to be using it for large events (which you stated you wouldn’t be). As long as you have a stovetop, a good pan, and a spider and/or tongs. You should be good to do all your frying without special equipment. It’ll also help save a bit on oil.

The pan you use is definitely important though. For deep frying I’d recommend a moderately tall pot. You want a pot that can hold a lot of oil and is tall enough that you won’t have to worry about it spilling or splashing out much. But at the same time, you don’t want the pan to be so tall that it’s awkward to put things in or take them out of the pan. This video () at about 4:10 is a pretty good example of what kind of pan you’d want to be using for deep frying.

Essentially, a deep fryer is akin to a pop-corn machine or a hot dog roller. It’s great if you need to cook in bulk or plan on using it very, very often. But it’s not very efficient for small quantities and probably not be a good investment for the vast majority of everyday home-use.