Is it weird that as a cis guy i want a feminine figure?

Nyarlep:
It’s worth considering that you needn’t try and fit yourself neatly in a box. Gender identity and being cis or not isn’t a simple yes or no. Also forgive me for reading into it too far if I am but the sentiment feels quite familiar; if your wondering if you could be trans or something of the like but don’t experience dysphoria or discomfort, not every trans person does.

Alternatively speaking, fuck gender norms, do what makes you happy.


Being trans is more than just swapping to the other side. You have genderfluid, demi-gender, bi-gender, and non-binary people. And from there you have scores of different flavors of gender expression.
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Is it weird that as a cis guy i want a feminine figure?


Munchies:
When cis people think about their ideal body, they don't imagine themselves as a different gender.

Someguy98:
That’s a fair response tbh and honestly I’m not trying disagree with you. However I really do feel comfortable as a man, but I also want to be more effeminate (and fat lol). I don’t know how to properly express the feeling. I hope I’m not just rambling. Thanks for taking the time to respond.


I'm not saying you're one thing or another. That's your business and for you to decide.

That said, there is a difference between being a woman and being effeminate. Being effeminate means embrace stereotypical aspects of femininity as a man. Being a woman isn't one thing or another. I know some cis women who have more masculine traits than some men I know.

Gender and gender expression aren't the same thing. It is what it is.
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Is it weird that as a cis guy i want a feminine figure?

Someguy98:
I’m a cis guy, I’m comfortable as a guy and have never thought about considering myself anything else, but when I think of my dream body I picture wide hips, and prominent butt, and even breasts (all nice and fat ofc). I fantasize about being mistaken as a woman sometimes. I’m not sure how I feel about this sometimes.


When cis people think about their ideal body, they don't imagine themselves as a different gender.
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How fast heavy cream will effct?

Leptine:
I use heavy cream years ago. It were 3 weeks and week break during 2 months.
1/3 liter per day - about 1000 additional kcal.

It was crazy time because then I drank heavy cream, GOMAD and eat bigger meals.

Munchies:
Drinking a gallon of milk every day sounds like far more trouble than it's worth.

Your profile says you are Polish. Milk costs on average 4.35 zlotzy per liter. 4.35 zlotzy comes out to about $1.09. This doesn't seem too bad until you remember that a liter is about a fourth of a gallon. So that brings it to about 17.40 zlotzy or $4.36. That comes out to 121.80 zlotzy or $30.52 for a week's supply of milk.

And that's assuming you can fit all the milk inside your fridge. Maybe you don't mind multiple trips to the store, but a lot of people try to go at least once a week.

All that aside, the GOMAD diet is actually dangerous.

bonappetit.com/story/gomad-diet

Leptine:
You're right. I wrote quickly, so no details.

I finished GOMAD after two weeks and couldn't drink a gallon. I ended up drinking two liters a day.

Economically, milk is not profitable. I also read that GOMAD is an unhealthy alternative.


Don't be out here promoting stuff that even you know ain't good. That's dangerous. It's one thing to talk about your experiences, but you need to be honest about them.

Mess like this is how people end up in the hospital.
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Do you like charcoal or wood-fired meals?

Wood fire all the way. The smoke adds flavor.
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Ladies! what is your opinion on men that look pregnant? like a big ball belly

Dutch Bbw:
I think a big round belly on a man is really hot, especially when the rest of their body is slimmer. The ball shape turns me on somehow, I can't explain it further 😇

Estil17:
So what you're saying is that I should put some pics of my belly? Considering how growing I felt so ugly and was such geeky outcast (at the time I was actually too skinny) it would be real nice if I did have something about me that some women here would actually find attractive.


You can do whatever you want. But cool it with the desperation. It's the least sexy thing anyone can do.
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Supplements, do they work?

Arne The Viking:
Absolutely too good to be true. Snake oil. Save your money.

There are medications that do increase appetite, some of which are available without prescription.

* This post does not constitute medical advice. 🧐

JustAnotherFeeder:
What about mass gainers? Are they an efficient way to get lots of calories into a feedee?


Eeeeeeeeh ...

Are they full of calories? Yes. Should you go hog wild with them? No.

Mass gainer is high in protien. And unless you wanna mess up your kidneys, you shouldn't go crazy with them.

Honestly, you can add calories in more enjoyable ways like putting cheese and sauces on stuff or switching to whole milk instead of slim milk.

Little changes add up in big ways.
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How fast heavy cream will effct?

Kacchan:
Mathing gonna math - lol

I'm giving my MVP trophy to Munchies for not only doing the money conversion, but then the metric one, too!


I joke that I hate math, but I be out here doing calculations when nobody asked.

But yeah. I've been seeing the GOMAD diet floating about. It's bad. I wish it would go away. It's on par with some of the other stupid trends like guzzling olive oil, eating butter by the stick, or eating table sugar by the cup. There's a reason why you don't hear about people doing that shit anymore.

Even heavy cream, the so-called "golden fattening liquid" isn't as revered as it once was. Sure people still consume it, but they are being much smarter about it.

Turns out, getting fat is no fun if you're feeling miserable. And if you're miserable, you're not going to stick to it.
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How fast heavy cream will effct?

Leptine:
I use heavy cream years ago. It were 3 weeks and week break during 2 months.
1/3 liter per day - about 1000 additional kcal.

It was crazy time because then I drank heavy cream, GOMAD and eat bigger meals.


Drinking a gallon of milk every day sounds like far more trouble than it's worth.

Your profile says you are Polish. Milk costs on average 4.35 zlotzy per liter. 4.35 zlotzy comes out to about $1.09. This doesn't seem too bad until you remember that a liter is about a fourth of a gallon. So that brings it to about 17.40 zlotzy or $4.36. That comes out to 121.80 zlotzy or $30.52 for a week's supply of milk.

And that's assuming you can fit all the milk inside your fridge. Maybe you don't mind multiple trips to the store, but a lot of people try to go at least once a week.

All that aside, the GOMAD diet is actually dangerous.

bonappetit.com/story/gomad-diet
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Comments

Leptine:
My weight isn't even if half yours. But in my country (family etc.) I heard comment about my weight: most of about health and fit.

I have in my family cousine who's now about 450 lbs (most of life +/- 170) and rest of family called him black sheep.

Now I'm closing 200 and trying to resist new comments. But I'm ONLY 198 😣

BigBallBellyGirl:
For some people, comments are a turn-on, but everyone is different. If anyone, family included, makes comments that make you feel uncomfortable or disrespected, you always have the right to set your boundaries.

"I know you care about my health, but I'm not comfortable with comments about my body."

"I'm going to ask you to please refrain from commenting about my weight. Thanks in advance for understanding."

"I truly am thankful for your concern, but it hurts my feelings when you criticize my weight."

"I'm happy with myself as I am."

Your weight DOES NOT make you a "black sheep", and it never will, regardless of whether you decide to gain or lose. Ignore the critics and enjoy your journey!


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