Turning yourself on while working out ?
RobbyP:
"Cooked honey also causes harm in any amount, unlike raw. -Rob"
"Cooked honey also causes harm in any amount, unlike raw. -Rob"
Have you never heard of botulism?
Both raw and pasteurized honey may contain botulism, but it is more likely to be in raw honey. Still, your risk of illness is low so long as you aren't under the age 1.
1 year
Turning yourself on while working out ?
Ace Of Spadez:
So recently I’ve noticed while doing cardio I get super turned on now. Literally everything is jiggling and tight. It doesn’t help that my nipples are super sensitive too plus my ass eats my boxers giving me a wedgie. Being out of breath turns me on too. Like the struggles due to my growth turns me on.
It’s like this fetish is moving into other areas of my life and it’s hard to ignore. Balancing with this fetish is kinda difficult.
I wanna be healthy and strong but I also want my ass to crush a sofa and for my tits to outgrow a D cup bra.
Does anyone know the best way to achieve this healthy/fat balance ?
RobbyP:
"'I can only speak for health. Fat is my own challenge. Choose only foods and drinks which cause no physical harm, and eat plenty. Sucrose, high fructose corn syrup, refined grains, preserved meats, pesticide-covered foods, vegetable- and seed-oils cause harm in any amount. Legumes cause harm in excess due to antinutrients. Exercise with poise, going low impact such as stair-walking, elliptical, body-friendly martial arts and dancing. On ground without hazards, walk barefoot with spread toes for foot-strength and balance. The classic of balancing a book on your head helps too. Best to wear loose-fitting clothes with no plastics. -Rob"
So recently I’ve noticed while doing cardio I get super turned on now. Literally everything is jiggling and tight. It doesn’t help that my nipples are super sensitive too plus my ass eats my boxers giving me a wedgie. Being out of breath turns me on too. Like the struggles due to my growth turns me on.
It’s like this fetish is moving into other areas of my life and it’s hard to ignore. Balancing with this fetish is kinda difficult.
I wanna be healthy and strong but I also want my ass to crush a sofa and for my tits to outgrow a D cup bra.
Does anyone know the best way to achieve this healthy/fat balance ?
RobbyP:
"'I can only speak for health. Fat is my own challenge. Choose only foods and drinks which cause no physical harm, and eat plenty. Sucrose, high fructose corn syrup, refined grains, preserved meats, pesticide-covered foods, vegetable- and seed-oils cause harm in any amount. Legumes cause harm in excess due to antinutrients. Exercise with poise, going low impact such as stair-walking, elliptical, body-friendly martial arts and dancing. On ground without hazards, walk barefoot with spread toes for foot-strength and balance. The classic of balancing a book on your head helps too. Best to wear loose-fitting clothes with no plastics. -Rob"
Pesticides are on most foods - even organic foods. The only way to make sure that your food has no pesticides is to grow it yourself. However, most people can't do that, and the pesticides on your produce will not harm you. Worst case scenario is that you'll have to wash and peel your produce.
Preserved meats aren't necessarily bad. It all depends on how it's been preserved. I think you have confused preserved meats with processed meats.
Vegetable and seed oils are not bad. You are thinking of hydrogenated oils. While not healthy, moderate consumption should be fine for an otherwise healthy person.
While legumes do have anti-nutrients in them, these are largely eliminated by soaking or boiling them ... stuff you should be to them anyway.
www.healthline.com/nutrition/how-to-reduce-antinutrients
Exercising with poise is not helpful. You need to exercise with the correct form. You can have poise but still have the wrong form.
Loose fitting clothing isn't always good. For example, if you suffer from chafing (very common in these parts) loose fitting clothing will make it worse.
And lately, wearing clothes made out of plastic will not hurt you so long as the plastics used are non-toxic.
1 year
Fantasy feeder
Munchies:
It is clearer, yes.
I don't think it's entirely ignorance. There are many a guy who knows better but chooses not to be. You see it a lot from the guys who are cheating on their wives. But the worse ones are the "enlightened men".
These guys think that because the have all the "correct opinions" they are good people. But they still feel entitled to women for being "a good person."
I encounter both groups fairly regularly. The cheaters will treat women in ways their spouses wouldn't tolerate. The enlightened men will say all the right words for a while. However, if they are called out for saying or doing something out of picket, they will lash out.
Still, you're not entirely wrong.
Enas:
Can you described in a bit more depth those enlightened ones? I don't think I've come across one to be fair (or at least haven't noticed) im really curious about it
Munchies:
You see it a lot with so-called "progressive" men. They'll tell you they believe in women's right, LGBTQIA+ rights, stand against racism, and all the other good things. But sometimes, they'll say something that's a little messed up. Maybe they'll make a racially insensitive joke or say something casually misogynistic.
I won't hold that part against them. To err is human and even the most progressive person will mess up. However, what makes these men stand out is that they've made "being a good person" their entire personality. So any time you point out something they shouldn't have said or done, they can't handle it.
They'll make all kinds of excuses as to why you're being too sensitive. Sometimes they'll try to gaslight you and accuse you of things you never did or said.
I remember one time talking to a white man in chat a long time ago. This was before I was comfortable revealing my race. The man was fairly progressive, so I eventually mentioned that I was black.
The guy was chill about it at first. And then he made a comment about loving how sassy black women are. Now, I am a sassy black woman, but I am not sassy because I'm black. And there are plenty of black women who aren't sassy.
I wasn't offended by what he said, but I did point out the inaccuracy of his statement. I expected him to say something along the lines of "oops, my bad" and then we'd move on. But no. The man had a melt down instead. Started accusing me of hating white men.
It was super weird, so I dipped.
Enas:
Okay, that's definitely crazy. People like this don't really understand the world and what progressive movements are. I think they're just trying to be nice on the outside to be accepted by society (with mediocre results) and that's propably because of hyperindividualism and the isolation coming with it, that the beloved Liberal (in the American sense) ideology has brought to people.
We live in crazy times...
It is clearer, yes.
I don't think it's entirely ignorance. There are many a guy who knows better but chooses not to be. You see it a lot from the guys who are cheating on their wives. But the worse ones are the "enlightened men".
These guys think that because the have all the "correct opinions" they are good people. But they still feel entitled to women for being "a good person."
I encounter both groups fairly regularly. The cheaters will treat women in ways their spouses wouldn't tolerate. The enlightened men will say all the right words for a while. However, if they are called out for saying or doing something out of picket, they will lash out.
Still, you're not entirely wrong.
Enas:
Can you described in a bit more depth those enlightened ones? I don't think I've come across one to be fair (or at least haven't noticed) im really curious about it
Munchies:
You see it a lot with so-called "progressive" men. They'll tell you they believe in women's right, LGBTQIA+ rights, stand against racism, and all the other good things. But sometimes, they'll say something that's a little messed up. Maybe they'll make a racially insensitive joke or say something casually misogynistic.
I won't hold that part against them. To err is human and even the most progressive person will mess up. However, what makes these men stand out is that they've made "being a good person" their entire personality. So any time you point out something they shouldn't have said or done, they can't handle it.
They'll make all kinds of excuses as to why you're being too sensitive. Sometimes they'll try to gaslight you and accuse you of things you never did or said.
I remember one time talking to a white man in chat a long time ago. This was before I was comfortable revealing my race. The man was fairly progressive, so I eventually mentioned that I was black.
The guy was chill about it at first. And then he made a comment about loving how sassy black women are. Now, I am a sassy black woman, but I am not sassy because I'm black. And there are plenty of black women who aren't sassy.
I wasn't offended by what he said, but I did point out the inaccuracy of his statement. I expected him to say something along the lines of "oops, my bad" and then we'd move on. But no. The man had a melt down instead. Started accusing me of hating white men.
It was super weird, so I dipped.
Enas:
Okay, that's definitely crazy. People like this don't really understand the world and what progressive movements are. I think they're just trying to be nice on the outside to be accepted by society (with mediocre results) and that's propably because of hyperindividualism and the isolation coming with it, that the beloved Liberal (in the American sense) ideology has brought to people.
We live in crazy times...
Mm, I agree with some of that, but not all of it. I won't get into it as it will get this thread nuked. My advice is to do a little more research on what liberalism is and isn't.
1 year
Fantasy feeder
Enas:
Im talking about the lack of socialization in general. People rarely talk with other people of different age groups (that also have more experience on almost all aspects of life)
I mean the topic is kinda... Why not female feeders around? I have a few ideas. think of a very stereotypical bad male attitude. Dude that exclusively hangs out "with the boys" and never gets taught why to respect women (and other people in general) but instead his social enviroment pushes him in the direction of the attitude that to have a girlfriend is a man's trophy.
That's a very specific example, but in general the problem is ignorance on people, i think. Wich is caused by the lack of care for the reasons i mentioned earlier. I hope my point is at least somewhat clear?
Munchies:
It is clearer, yes.
I don't think it's entirely ignorance. There are many a guy who knows better but chooses not to be. You see it a lot from the guys who are cheating on their wives. But the worse ones are the "enlightened men".
These guys think that because the have all the "correct opinions" they are good people. But they still feel entitled to women for being "a good person."
I encounter both groups fairly regularly. The cheaters will treat women in ways their spouses wouldn't tolerate. The enlightened men will say all the right words for a while. However, if they are called out for saying or doing something out of picket, they will lash out.
Still, you're not entirely wrong.
Enas:
Can you described in a bit more depth those enlightened ones? I don't think I've come across one to be fair (or at least haven't noticed) im really curious about it
Im talking about the lack of socialization in general. People rarely talk with other people of different age groups (that also have more experience on almost all aspects of life)
I mean the topic is kinda... Why not female feeders around? I have a few ideas. think of a very stereotypical bad male attitude. Dude that exclusively hangs out "with the boys" and never gets taught why to respect women (and other people in general) but instead his social enviroment pushes him in the direction of the attitude that to have a girlfriend is a man's trophy.
That's a very specific example, but in general the problem is ignorance on people, i think. Wich is caused by the lack of care for the reasons i mentioned earlier. I hope my point is at least somewhat clear?
Munchies:
It is clearer, yes.
I don't think it's entirely ignorance. There are many a guy who knows better but chooses not to be. You see it a lot from the guys who are cheating on their wives. But the worse ones are the "enlightened men".
These guys think that because the have all the "correct opinions" they are good people. But they still feel entitled to women for being "a good person."
I encounter both groups fairly regularly. The cheaters will treat women in ways their spouses wouldn't tolerate. The enlightened men will say all the right words for a while. However, if they are called out for saying or doing something out of picket, they will lash out.
Still, you're not entirely wrong.
Enas:
Can you described in a bit more depth those enlightened ones? I don't think I've come across one to be fair (or at least haven't noticed) im really curious about it
You see it a lot with so-called "progressive" men. They'll tell you they believe in women's right, LGBTQIA+ rights, stand against racism, and all the other good things. But sometimes, they'll say something that's a little messed up. Maybe they'll make a racially insensitive joke or say something casually misogynistic.
I won't hold that part against them. To err is human and even the most progressive person will mess up. However, what makes these men stand out is that they've made "being a good person" their entire personality. So any time you point out something they shouldn't have said or done, they can't handle it.
They'll make all kinds of excuses as to why you're being too sensitive. Sometimes they'll try to gaslight you and accuse you of things you never did or said.
I remember one time talking to a white man in chat a long time ago. This was before I was comfortable revealing my race. The man was fairly progressive, so I eventually mentioned that I was black.
The guy was chill about it at first. And then he made a comment about loving how sassy black women are. Now, I am a sassy black woman, but I am not sassy because I'm black. And there are plenty of black women who aren't sassy.
I wasn't offended by what he said, but I did point out the inaccuracy of his statement. I expected him to say something along the lines of "oops, my bad" and then we'd move on. But no. The man had a melt down instead. Started accusing me of hating white men.
It was super weird, so I dipped.
1 year
Fantasy feeder
Munchies:
That's not what I'm getting at. I won't deny that men and women approach things differently. But a lot of that is nurture over nature.
Here's a quick and dirty about what I mean:
psychcentral.com/blog/love-matters/2018/08/why-we-choose-the-mates-we-do-and-how-to-choose-the-best-mate-for-you
I've never put much stock in the opinions of evolutionary psychology. It has a male, white, Western, cishet, traditional viewpoint. And while there's nothing wrong with being a white Western cishet traditional man, you have to admit it has a very limited viewpoint.
Enas:
Or the lack of nurture. The amount of people who sadly end up having their lives sacrificed for the profit motive (instead of doing other thigns like taking *good* care of children) seems to be growing by the day!
Munchies:
Enas, I am confused. How does this tie in into anything either party has said?
Enas:
Im talking about the lack of socialization in general. People rarely talk with other people of different age groups (that also have more experience on almost all aspects of life)
I mean the topic is kinda... Why not female feeders around? I have a few ideas. think of a very stereotypical bad male attitude. Dude that exclusively hangs out "with the boys" and never gets taught why to respect women (and other people in general) but instead his social enviroment pushes him in the direction of the attitude that to have a girlfriend is a man's trophy.
That's a very specific example, but in general the problem is ignorance on people, i think. Wich is caused by the lack of care for the reasons i mentioned earlier. I hope my point is at least somewhat clear?
That's not what I'm getting at. I won't deny that men and women approach things differently. But a lot of that is nurture over nature.
Here's a quick and dirty about what I mean:
psychcentral.com/blog/love-matters/2018/08/why-we-choose-the-mates-we-do-and-how-to-choose-the-best-mate-for-you
I've never put much stock in the opinions of evolutionary psychology. It has a male, white, Western, cishet, traditional viewpoint. And while there's nothing wrong with being a white Western cishet traditional man, you have to admit it has a very limited viewpoint.
Enas:
Or the lack of nurture. The amount of people who sadly end up having their lives sacrificed for the profit motive (instead of doing other thigns like taking *good* care of children) seems to be growing by the day!
Munchies:
Enas, I am confused. How does this tie in into anything either party has said?
Enas:
Im talking about the lack of socialization in general. People rarely talk with other people of different age groups (that also have more experience on almost all aspects of life)
I mean the topic is kinda... Why not female feeders around? I have a few ideas. think of a very stereotypical bad male attitude. Dude that exclusively hangs out "with the boys" and never gets taught why to respect women (and other people in general) but instead his social enviroment pushes him in the direction of the attitude that to have a girlfriend is a man's trophy.
That's a very specific example, but in general the problem is ignorance on people, i think. Wich is caused by the lack of care for the reasons i mentioned earlier. I hope my point is at least somewhat clear?
It is clearer, yes.
I don't think it's entirely ignorance. There are many a guy who knows better but chooses not to be. You see it a lot from the guys who are cheating on their wives. But the worse ones are the "enlightened men".
These guys think that because the have all the "correct opinions" they are good people. But they still feel entitled to women for being "a good person."
I encounter both groups fairly regularly. The cheaters will treat women in ways their spouses wouldn't tolerate. The enlightened men will say all the right words for a while. However, if they are called out for saying or doing something out of picket, they will lash out.
Still, you're not entirely wrong.
1 year
Decline in fitness
Jd00723:
Nothing too scientific, but I was measuring my runs times before I started gaining. I was on sub 20min 5ks.
Since I've gained around 20lbs of fat, which is a small gain it seems in this community, I'm struggling to get below a 30min run time.
Even when I started gaining and gained about 5lbs, my time went up to about 25mins, though it could be due to the heavy cream going through my body at the time!
Fitness nosedives really quickly. I have read that some people got their fitness back quickly, but it didn't happen for me. Then again, many people have found it hard to gain, and I have not. So maybe I am just a natural fatty !
Munchies:
I am curious. Do you still eat unhealthy when you go running? You're 31, so your metabolism should start to naturally slow down. So if you are doing things like guzzling heavy cream, or eating high calorie food without any weight training, your fitness isn't going to just bounce back.
Jd00723:
So I’ve more or less returned to a somewhat healthy diet, no longer gaining. I’ve been focusing more on weight training, but since gaining weight I’ve felt very unmotivated to run. But when I was thinner I used to run all the time.
Nothing too scientific, but I was measuring my runs times before I started gaining. I was on sub 20min 5ks.
Since I've gained around 20lbs of fat, which is a small gain it seems in this community, I'm struggling to get below a 30min run time.
Even when I started gaining and gained about 5lbs, my time went up to about 25mins, though it could be due to the heavy cream going through my body at the time!
Fitness nosedives really quickly. I have read that some people got their fitness back quickly, but it didn't happen for me. Then again, many people have found it hard to gain, and I have not. So maybe I am just a natural fatty !
Munchies:
I am curious. Do you still eat unhealthy when you go running? You're 31, so your metabolism should start to naturally slow down. So if you are doing things like guzzling heavy cream, or eating high calorie food without any weight training, your fitness isn't going to just bounce back.
Jd00723:
So I’ve more or less returned to a somewhat healthy diet, no longer gaining. I’ve been focusing more on weight training, but since gaining weight I’ve felt very unmotivated to run. But when I was thinner I used to run all the time.
Yup, that would do it.
Even if you don't get back into running, you need to do some level of cardio.
1 year
Decline in fitness
Jd00723:
Nothing too scientific, but I was measuring my runs times before I started gaining. I was on sub 20min 5ks.
Since I've gained around 20lbs of fat, which is a small gain it seems in this community, I'm struggling to get below a 30min run time.
Even when I started gaining and gained about 5lbs, my time went up to about 25mins, though it could be due to the heavy cream going through my body at the time!
Fitness nosedives really quickly. I have read that some people got their fitness back quickly, but it didn't happen for me. Then again, many people have found it hard to gain, and I have not. So maybe I am just a natural fatty !
Nothing too scientific, but I was measuring my runs times before I started gaining. I was on sub 20min 5ks.
Since I've gained around 20lbs of fat, which is a small gain it seems in this community, I'm struggling to get below a 30min run time.
Even when I started gaining and gained about 5lbs, my time went up to about 25mins, though it could be due to the heavy cream going through my body at the time!
Fitness nosedives really quickly. I have read that some people got their fitness back quickly, but it didn't happen for me. Then again, many people have found it hard to gain, and I have not. So maybe I am just a natural fatty !
I am curious. Do you still eat unhealthy when you go running? You're 31, so your metabolism should start to naturally slow down. So if you are doing things like guzzling heavy cream, or eating high calorie food without any weight training, your fitness isn't going to just bounce back.
1 year
Fantasy feeder
Yeah, I don't hate the good ones, but they know who they are.
Men who don't understand the social order and just want to gain stuff.
They also don't understand how men and women select mates in other ways, and that girls don't want the things that dudes like.
Of course, doing this with other men works out fine, to be honest, even better in hetero relationships, as they are both fully eager whenever.
Straight men acting like gay men towards women means it just won't work.
I hate it, and what's worse, those people are the ones firing off the most DMs, PMs, and replies, as they can't find someone.
Munchies:
I wouldn't say men and women necessarily choose their SOs differently. If you are socialized a certain way, you'll look for an SO like you've been raised to look for one. But if you look up how men and women choose partners, you'll find variations. And if you hang out with enough people, you'll realize there's no gender-specific guideline.
Heck, when my partner and I met, we'd planned for it to be a one-off bit of fun. But it organically grew into something more.
This boils down to a basic lack of respect and seeing women as objects instead of people.
LydiaFatOttter:
Not to go too 100% nerd on you, but there is a thing that sex plays in mate selection, but this is the wrong place for a science talk.
Also, someone like me who has seen both sides of the gender experience, there is 100% a difference.
Munchies:
That's not what I'm getting at. I won't deny that men and women approach things differently. But a lot of that is nurture over nature.
Here's a quick and dirty about what I mean:
psychcentral.com/blog/love-matters/2018/08/why-we-choose-the-mates-we-do-and-how-to-choose-the-best-mate-for-you
I've never put much stock in the opinions of evolutionary psychology. It has a male, white, Western, cishet, traditional viewpoint. And while there's nothing wrong with being a white Western cishet traditional man, you have to admit it has a very limited viewpoint.
Enas:
Or the lack of nurture. The amount of people who sadly end up having their lives sacrificed for the profit motive (instead of doing other thigns like taking *good* care of children) seems to be growing by the day!
Men who don't understand the social order and just want to gain stuff.
They also don't understand how men and women select mates in other ways, and that girls don't want the things that dudes like.
Of course, doing this with other men works out fine, to be honest, even better in hetero relationships, as they are both fully eager whenever.
Straight men acting like gay men towards women means it just won't work.
I hate it, and what's worse, those people are the ones firing off the most DMs, PMs, and replies, as they can't find someone.
Munchies:
I wouldn't say men and women necessarily choose their SOs differently. If you are socialized a certain way, you'll look for an SO like you've been raised to look for one. But if you look up how men and women choose partners, you'll find variations. And if you hang out with enough people, you'll realize there's no gender-specific guideline.
Heck, when my partner and I met, we'd planned for it to be a one-off bit of fun. But it organically grew into something more.
This boils down to a basic lack of respect and seeing women as objects instead of people.
LydiaFatOttter:
Not to go too 100% nerd on you, but there is a thing that sex plays in mate selection, but this is the wrong place for a science talk.
Also, someone like me who has seen both sides of the gender experience, there is 100% a difference.
Munchies:
That's not what I'm getting at. I won't deny that men and women approach things differently. But a lot of that is nurture over nature.
Here's a quick and dirty about what I mean:
psychcentral.com/blog/love-matters/2018/08/why-we-choose-the-mates-we-do-and-how-to-choose-the-best-mate-for-you
I've never put much stock in the opinions of evolutionary psychology. It has a male, white, Western, cishet, traditional viewpoint. And while there's nothing wrong with being a white Western cishet traditional man, you have to admit it has a very limited viewpoint.
Enas:
Or the lack of nurture. The amount of people who sadly end up having their lives sacrificed for the profit motive (instead of doing other thigns like taking *good* care of children) seems to be growing by the day!
Enas, I am confused. How does this tie in into anything either party has said?
1 year
To yo-yo or just stay fat
Jd00723:
Only you know the answer I suppose.
It will get harder to lose the weight as you get older. I've tried losing a bit recently and its a lot harder than it was a few years ago.
NoMoYoYo:
I did find it harder to lose this last time. Even with excercising more than I ever have.
And this 11lbs I've gained back (so far!) have come on pretty fast. Usually my gains are fast at the start then level off for a bit then eventually I lose. If I just give in and get fat forever, I should probably change my strategy. i.e. not gain as quickly. What is the best way to gain like 10lbs a year? Instead of 30-40lbs in a matter of months.
Only you know the answer I suppose.
It will get harder to lose the weight as you get older. I've tried losing a bit recently and its a lot harder than it was a few years ago.
NoMoYoYo:
I did find it harder to lose this last time. Even with excercising more than I ever have.
And this 11lbs I've gained back (so far!) have come on pretty fast. Usually my gains are fast at the start then level off for a bit then eventually I lose. If I just give in and get fat forever, I should probably change my strategy. i.e. not gain as quickly. What is the best way to gain like 10lbs a year? Instead of 30-40lbs in a matter of months.
You need to eat a high calories yet clean diet. Don't stuff your face all the time, but eat enjoy your snacks, occasional big meal, and small deserts. Don't forget to do some light exercise.
1 year
Dating profile nod
Munchies:
Crying shame. Society is incredibly fatphobic. If you're fat, you can only lose weight or be neutral towards your size. But the moment you try to get fat on purpose, people think you're a sick freak.
FatLime:
Yes, I actively searched for a girl who will not forbid me this fetish, but I never found her, but a large number of men were ready to fatten me, but I can not offer them anything, because heterosexual.
Munchies:
Pain. I know there are some Russian female feeders on here, but the ones I've seen are all taken. Maybe you could consider something online?
FatLime:
Yes, I've seen their posts here. We have a similar site, but it's all familiar faces there, as there aren't very many similar themed sites. Sometimes interesting personalities write, but it's always men.
Crying shame. Society is incredibly fatphobic. If you're fat, you can only lose weight or be neutral towards your size. But the moment you try to get fat on purpose, people think you're a sick freak.
FatLime:
Yes, I actively searched for a girl who will not forbid me this fetish, but I never found her, but a large number of men were ready to fatten me, but I can not offer them anything, because heterosexual.
Munchies:
Pain. I know there are some Russian female feeders on here, but the ones I've seen are all taken. Maybe you could consider something online?
FatLime:
Yes, I've seen their posts here. We have a similar site, but it's all familiar faces there, as there aren't very many similar themed sites. Sometimes interesting personalities write, but it's always men.
I feel you. I get excited when I see any female feeders join because it would be nice to bond over shared interests. But they don't stay for very long.
1 year
