Munchies:
Not even what was said. I said to use the word some instead of "most" or "typically" when talking about characteristics that are not indicative of the group. And no one said you couldn't express yourself. You were told the way you were doing it was hurtful and not expressing yourself as clearly as you'd like.
This is not the same thing.
Malvineous:
Yes, I do use the word "some" to mean a minority or undetermined number of examples that is not indicative of the group. The problem is, that's not the idea I want to express. That's a different idea. Perhaps it would soften the blow to add more waffle words like "I've noticed that it's common for" or "It seems like there's a frequent trend of"...
I promise you I'm not trying to be hurtful. I'm more than willing to change the phrasing I use, so long as it can still mean what I want it to mean.
But that's just it. These trends you're noticing are part of a specific flavor of women and are not inherent to womanhood.
In my town alone, there are women who are attracted to a man based on how good of a provider he is. Some want a man who looks good on their arm or is a good lay. Others want a fricked up little man to be their personal project. And then there are the women who look past all of that and are only attracted to personality.
That doesn't even take into consideration the different cultures, ethnicities, religions, political ideologies, lifestyles, etc that influence or inform attraction.
Honestly, the biggest factors of attraction in a woman is how they were raised and their current values.
So, no. "Most" and "typically" are not the best words to use.
