Munchies:
Only if you gain slowly and up to a certain point. What that point is depends on how you carry your weight, but if you gain past that, they will notice.

But why must you hide it?

EndlessGain:
As I said, just feels awkward eating too much around people who aren’t into it.

Fatbilly:
I have found fatting foods are getting a lot more expensive. Even my favorite takeaway mcdonalds. Anyone else struggling wirh this? What are some good cheap healthish alternatives?

EndlessGain:
I'm currently living in a house with someone who isn't really on board with my gaining, and I'd rather keep it a secret from them... Well, at least not make it look like I'm intentionally gaining, at least. I'd rather it show up in the weight I gain than the food I eat, so I was wondering...

Is there any sneaky way I can get fatter without drawing too much attention to how much I eat?

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me

Herocomplex247:
It's giving serial killer 🤌, but aye'...who am I rightt🤷‍♀️

RobbyP:
"Some say 'No good deed goes unpunished.' and that 'The worst punishment is being punished for doing good.' Ending certain people is sometimes a fantasy, but will never be anything but that. Such would be ramping up as they have, and there are those who need my protection and care."

Bathisum:
Bud this right here this is pretentious as fuck. If you don’t understand that I get it but understand that now that it’s been pointed out you should try to fix it. And this is coming from someone with social communication issues that I’ve had to figure out through life.

RobbyP:
"Don't pretend that this website is the only thing I talk about."

Bathisum:
My guy this is a quick way to get ostracized by the community. You asked for advice and people gave it. Now you block them I think maybe you’re just insecure and toxic. Idk I’m not perfect or an expert but you’re heavily coming off as a prick.

RobbyP:
"Block me if you wish, and I did not ask for advice. She's advising that I poison myself with junk food. That got the block."

And I truly hope you are not regularly consuming 6 cups of honey and 4 pounds of fruit. Eating junk food would be better than eating that much fruit and honey.

Munchies:
Here is one of many different tags you can search to find feedist stuff. I filtered some things for you, but feel free to play around with things.

archiveofourown.org/works

ForeverFFA:
Thanks so much for the link! I can't believe I had no idea this site existed until now.

NoMoYoYo:
There's no doubt I eat salty foods. This weekend especially. Maybe that's all it is.

I should probably lay off salt a bit. I type as I'm sitting at Wendy's chowing down on just under 2000 calories. The Frosty I'm gonna grab on my way out will put me over 2000...and its not as salty lol

Munchies:
The best thing anyone can do is know what they eat - fetish or not. If you are eating fast food, you can find the details on the website.

Many people don't look at the nutritional labels on food because they don't feel a need to. Meanwhile, many feedists are afraid to look because they feel guilty for "ruining" their bodies.

Both views aren't wise. You wouldn't build a house without checking the materials. You should do the same with the food you eat.

NoMoYoYo:
I eat fast food because its easy calories. I've been on their nutrition info pages, but basically to see the calories (and fats, carbs, protein). But I haven't done a deep dive to see what's actually in the food. ie salt/sodium content. Or in any food really. Every gain I've ever done has involved a lot of fast food. I know I should cut back. Especially if I'm looking for a prolonged, slower gain, but I like it too much. Which is probably why I get to a point that I'd rather not gain any more. I'm hoping to turn the page there. I just wanna be fat.

Munchies:
I'm not saying you can't be fat. I'm a feeder, after all. I'm just saying you gotta be smart about it. I have seen many a gainer and feedee have to stop gaining completely because their gaining methods screwed up their health. The same can be said about the slow and steady gainers.

I don't think you wanna go from a yo-yo dieter to someone who cannot gain under pain of death.

NoMoYoYo:
It's not all fast food or even junk food. I do eat fruits and vegetables. But I do hear what you're saying.

Are there any foods you like to feed your partner that great for gaining but are on the healthier side?

Munchies:
Bear in mind that we are on a gaining break, but I can give you some dishes.

- Puff pastry with salmon and spinach

- Peanuts

- Pizza with veggies

- Pasta with broccoli and cheese sauce

Huh. Everything the list starts with P. Wild.

NoMoYoYo:
I haven't done puff pastry with salmon, but I've had everything else. I had a very large serving of pasta with a fake alfredo sauce last night. Made a roux, added broth, milk and parmesan. Had that with chicken and veggies on the side.

RobbyP:
"Munchies is now blocked, and will know it so that she stops wasting her energy on me."

Herocomplex247:
It's giving serial killer 🤌, but aye'...who am I rightt🤷‍♀️

RobbyP:
"Some say 'No good deed goes unpunished.' and that 'The worst punishment is being punished for doing good.' Ending certain people is sometimes a fantasy, but will never be anything but that. Such would be ramping up as they have, and there are those who need my protection and care."

Munchies:
Gonna push back on there being fewer women who like fat guys.

www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys

www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys

www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guys

And this is just the mainstream side of things.

As for the kinky side of things, your average female feeder/FA isn't going to be out in the open like I am. Either she'll lurk online or she'll take it irl. Of course, irl can be very tricky. Can't tell you how many times I've crossed paths with a fat cutie only to be friend-zoned because they refuse to believe a conventionally attractive woman would ever be interested in them.

It's rather sad.

I will agree that it is vital to the community to have more diversity. It's gotten better in some regards, but more work needs to be done.

Morbidly A Beast:
I mean strictly in the context of men viewing and engaging in content of this nature online compared to their female counterparts. Granted there is just less content of that nature online just in general.

And it’s understandable why women are less vocal in these spaces cuz creeps and weirdos.

Munchies:
Ah. That makes more sense. Yes, I will agree with you on that.

Besides, women generally gravitate to erotica over any other sexual outlet. And if you want decent erotica, most women will go to places like DA or AO3 before we go to FF. Why? Because the bulk of the stories on FF are centered on the male gaze. DA and AO3 have more variety - with 70 - 80% of the writers on AO3 being female.

Morbidly A Beast:
What is AO3?

Is it the intimacy and being able to put yourselves into the scene that drive you towards eroticism?

ForeverFFA:
I can't answer about AO3 but at least from my perspective, visual content is not usually designed with the female gaze in mind, but erotica often is. Also, the story lines are more engaging. It's kind of a chicken and the egg scenario, though, where fewer women are interested in certain types of content, but could that be simply because it wasn't made for them?