People over/underestimating your weight

BigGator:
Hi, first post. Honestly, this topic is what made me realize I'm into gaining. I'm pretty fit, but I wear most of my weight in my butt and thighs. I'm also a runner which means my leg muscles are pretty heavy.

All this said, most people look from the waist up and call me "skinny." I sit down to eat a large meal and people get shocked when I eat everything on my plate.

I know as far as the fetish here is concerned, my 145 pound self is waifish, but people probably think I weigh less than 120 looking at me. I do like telling people I weigh more, but I am also annoyed that they seem to think I should like being called "skinny."


Body comp is crazy. Muscle is denser than fat, so a pound of muscle takes up less space than a pound of fat. It sounds like you're pretty lean, so naturally, you look smaller.

You can use this to your advantage.

If you keep up with your fitness as you gain, you can get much heavier than most before you have to size up anything.
1 year

Unintentional stuffing

FatAdmirerHeHeHeHa:
Unintentional Stuffings

I’m 20M and fluctuate from 255-270 pounds (used to be 292), and due to personal (mostly external) reasons I’ve been exercising and working out every day, mostly to build muscle since I don’t want to be a stick even if I am working out.

Now I do eat a little healthier but I tend to just not eat as much, at the end of the day I’m not going to give up good tasting food just for faster weight loss, if I could or was convinced I’d keep gaining lol.

Now I haven’t intentionally stuffed myself for a long time, but I noticed that even though I eat way less than I used to, I sometimes subconsciously just eat a ton of food without realizing it due to me never feeling full and it is super hot.

For example yesterday I was doing a lot out of the house with different people. In the morning I was coaxed into going to breakfast and ate a good thousand calories of French toast, eggs, and bacon (soda too) but didn’t think anything of it since I rarely go to breakfast. However only a couple hours later I normally make lunch around that time so even though I just ate and was eating snacks that were laying around (for context I tend to keep a lot of family and party sized bags of chips and other candy around), I ended up making a full lunch.

However as I sat down to eat a friend invited me to lunch that I hadn’t seen in a while, so I ate my food quickly and snacked on some leftover snacks until I left.

We just went to a McDonald’s but even my normal meal is still a good bit of calories.

So halfway through the day I had already eaten over 3500 calories, and even though I didn’t know it that was only half of what I would eat.

It’s near the holidays so my family has been hanging out a lot more and I was invited to dinner that night for steak, chips, to play games, etc. and when I say my family cooks, they make a ton of food. If you could guess I didn’t stop eating snacks throughout the day due to being distracted, you could imagine how much I ate just playing games and having fun with family. After all the snacks, appetizers, dinner (and dessert since who can say no to that) I had easily eaten over 6000 calories that day. I finally realized I was kind of full which I hadn’t experienced in a while, so I ended up going home. Maybe my subconscious mind is still a gainer because until I passed out I was just continuing to eat snacks, ice cream, and candy. I put in a lot of practice when I was gaining to not even notice me eating when watching movies, so even though I’m not intentionally gaining or stuffing, I still have those tendencies. It wasn’t until I woke up that I even noticed how much I had eaten the next day due to the still full feeling I had when I woke up.

Has any one who used to be a past gainer or feeder had an experience like this, and if so, what was your story like for that day.



Sounds like you still want to stuff yourself. You say you stopped due to external reasons - not internal ones. If that's the case, you're repressing your true desires.

If I may be so bold, what are your reasons?
1 year

Accidental stuffing

FaireShade:
Any of y'all ever realize you accidentally stuffed yourself after being a little hungry? Especially while high. Like grabbing a whole tray of pizza rolls and eating all of them when you only meant to eat a handful?


If you decide to only grab a handful of something delicious from a large amount of delicious food, you're more likely to eat a lot more than you planned.
1 year

Feeling rather meh

Morbidly A Beast:
I my belly definitely shrunk a bit while I was sick and not eating but I haven’t had the desire to eat since getting better I know I need to eat but I just haven’t felt like it. Gonna give it a few more days and see how I’m doing with it. I even ordered a pizza tonight had a slice and was like meh. I usually eat a whole thing


Eat light for now. Then slowly work your way up to normal.
1 year

Struggling to motivate self to eat

Tubbypc73:
The higher density calorie foods are for me so much better shakes always bloat me and sometimes cause digestion problems I’ve found that snacking has been best for adding the lbs while watching telly or listening to music before you know it those savoury treats or sweet snacks are gone and you’re still hungry I had some sausage rolls the other day each tiny sausage roll was 200 cals plus loaded with fat I know without doubt having had 12 that I could have tripled that snacking throughout the day that’s over 7000 cals just snacking tho the wind from 12 was a lot and I should imagine doing that regularly would leave me constipated though that’s guess work


Gotta have some fiber in your diet. Keeps things regular. At the very least, get you some Miralax. It has no taste and you can put it in any beverage.
1 year

Followers

OP posted 3 years ago. Not holding my breath this will be fixed any time soon.

That said, it would be nice to see all who all is following me. At time of this post, I have 129 followers. I can see a small fraction of those followers. Would be nice to see all of them.
1 year

How has your metabolism changed nearing or in your 30s?

Spike:
Hello I didnt know where else to ask but how has your metabolism altered nearing or in your 30s?

I am nearing mine and I noticed even though i am eating more, hungry more, it seems i am losing weight?

Does your slow down? Increase? Hunger increase? Tell me about it smiley


I'm 28, and I'm finding it easier to gain muscle than I used to. Before, I had to work for it. Now? Not so much. It also sticks around longer than it used to. It's interesting for sure.

I'm also not as hungry as I used to be. I can have one cup of yogurt for breakfast and be full until lunch. About 10 years ago, that same amount of yogurt would leave me hungry 15 minutes later.
1 year

Bellies touching

Gmrod54:
In bed with my partner this morning, I realized that when we lie face to face the first thing that touches is our bellies. I didn’t point that out to him because idk what his response would be but I thought it was really sexy


I bet cuddle time is extra comfy.
1 year

Beer and heavy cream

Growme2029:
Heyy I was chugging around 600ml of heavy cream for a week and this week I decided I felt a lil bit extreme for gains hehe. I'm chugging my 600ml as well as downing 2 cans of beer to speed up the gainssmiley I know it seems bad for some people but I get incredibly horrny thinking about blowing the fuck up. If you have any experiences with heavy cream or beer lemme knowsmiley


Honestly, I'd be careful with the beer intake. Nothing wrong with beer, but it's easy to overdo it in pursuit of the gains. And unlike heavy cream, you can end up with ... unwanted bonus stats.
1 year

Plus size dating apps

Lovemylard:
Bumppp. I know this thread is one year old, so does anyone have an updated list?

I got banned from OkCupid and Tinder, and evading the bans is soooo hard and time consuming. I'm so done with it.

WooPlus is dead. Feabie is active, I actually met a guy off there, but only for one date which was very awkward, then he cancelled our second date plans. Not a good experience!

The guy I met from OkCupid, who I thought I could have a genuine connection with, is ghosting me now.

Dating sites and dating in general kill the soul!

I just want to meet the right guy for me already. Ughhhh.


How does one get banned from OkCupid and Tinder????

What did you do????
1 year