I love the belly ripple! I noticed it on one of the guys I worked with as he seemed to be gaining more. I can't deny I got turned on seeing it and hoped I can get to that stage.

I'm not quite 5' 6", 223 lbs, my belly is a hair over 50". I'd like to get to 52-54".

You actually can use MyFitnessPal to do this. I'm doing it. MFP only calculates 1 lb/wk, but as august said, use a tdee calculator, then set your MFP calorie goals to the amount that will fatten you up. Then you start logging your meals. Without consistent strength training excess calories will go to fat.

Same here, sort of. I'm only able to orgasm unless I imagine or fantasize myself getting fatter. It never used to be like that. It changed to this as I've gotten fatter. In fact, I have to be particularly on guard when I'm out. If I see a hot fat guy and imagine becoming like him, I can easily wind up in a "sticky" situation.

I'm a fat gay male turned on by seeing pics and videos of fat guys masturbating and fucking. It's more of a turn on than watching muscle guys or suits. I think because I find fat men hot, I identify with them. For me, it's a confidence booster as well as a turn on. There's hardly a time I don't see an attractive fat guy and have to sneak off to a restroom and rub one out.

Same here, couldn't connect.

I'm getting more confident, and I daresay proud of myself and my appearance. I don't know why it is, but I like myself fat.

The problem I have in this is that I have new button up shirts I really like, but probably won't find again. *sigh* Oh well...

I had a "weight problem" all my life. Weight going up and down, mostly up if I didn't severely diet. Just about 2 years ago I decided to just let go of the dieting. I put on weight pretty quickly then. I've wavered about if I really want to gain, but I kept going. Now I love how fat I'm getting and want to get a lot fatter.

I complain about the scale not moving up. Rather, it fluctuates a couple of pounds up and down. I'm sure I don't eat enough; I've posted before that I don't have much of an appetite due to my pain meds (lumbar fusion). I think they are the culprit.

The non-gaining could also be loss of muscle... I'm a slacked off lazy former weightlifter. I think if I get back in the gym, the lost muscle and appetite will return.

The good news is that my belly is actually growing! It's been steadily creeping to a current 49 1/2". It's clearly protruding and bulging. I want to get to 52-54", and 44-46 pants (currently 42-44 depending on the pants), and maybe 265 lbs., 240-250 at the least from my current 218-220.

I'm proud of my belly, I love gaining and how fat I've gotten, and how much fatter I want to get. But I have to unlearn sucking it in and holding it in when I sit and walk. Any trick to that, or just make a conscious effort?