My favorite moments with this fetish are seeing my wife's secret snack charges when I log into our bank account. Any time she has to run an errand she gets tempted into hitting up fast food now. Even the vending machines at her office take a card, so it's amazing to see her have 3-4 vending machine charges in the afternoon and be assured my princess is still growing!

Anyone not be recognized?

Happens all the time with my wife now. Even folks from a couple years ago, we'll run into them and they're a little confused at first "Do I know you? You look familiar."

Marry her.

I get what you're saying. In fact, when I ran a 5K, the thing that amazed me the most was the amount of REALLY obese folks that made remarkable times.

Just saying, carrying around 150'ish pounds is exhausting in itself. Let alone, sadly many obese partners are actually malnourished because they eat predominantly empty calories AND live their day-to-day experiencing sugar crashes that produce tiredness.

My wife's been gaining for years and I'm STILL coming to grips with the "no energy" issue, especially since I knew her as a skinny relentlessly energetic clean freak.

Fatties are lazy. No way around it. I've experienced the downward spiral first hand. First it's a "lack of energy" that then produces slothfulness. When slothfulness is normalized, the person normalizes the effects of laziness (they're OK now if there's some dishes in the sink, hard to reach food wrappers in their car, etc). A general slobbing out occurs and they're now naturally fine with what may have been abhorrent to them when they were skinny.

Regardless if you're a feeder or not, this can be really frustrating to the other partner – especially if they work full-time (like your husband) you have kids, etc.

This is what helped me: imagining my entire day if I had to wear a backpack with 125-200lbs of weights in it. That's what my partner experiences 24/7.

Of course every day would be "so draining". I'd be doing a HELL of a lot less and have less energy, too.

I remind myself of that and let my princess take a load off and get her beauty rest. Anything that involves stairs or walking she's slowly handed over to me. Sucks sometimes; and the fattie can come across as nagging because they're simply too drained to get things done or help you out.

But if you want a piggie, expect a little pig sty, expect a little laziness. Comes with the territory IMO. 🐽

Diphenhydramine is virtually identical to Cyproheptidine – only difference is the half-life. What's Diphenhydramine? Good ol' Benadryl. Google "Benadryl" & "munchies" or "weight gain". Notorious.

Heavy cream is almost pure fat (83%).

Nothing gets you fatter faster than fat. Yes carbs have calories and you can pack them in better without feeling full. But at the end of the day, the reality is:

1g carb = 4cal
1g fat= 9cal

Mind control stories: when the subject doesn't want to gain weight but their mind is unknowingly changed to desire to be fat.... in the end they ultimately discover they're happier than ever before being a fat, out of control, "free" piggie.

One of the better crafted ones for me is Maid New by Yazzers. The wife is even controlled to enjoy being fat shamed and gets off on her husband fucking other slim women because she's just too fat now.

I'm into bodybuilding (many of you probably recall my old avatar) and maintain a very lean figure 10-12% BF in the winter 9-10% in summer. That said, my caloric intake is ridiculously high to maintain my muscle 3,500cal+/6-8 meals a day.

It actually fits quite congruently with being a feeder as I'm always cooking even at 11 at night prepping meals for the next day – go to the grocery store almost nightly. So my wife has learned the routine "if you're going to the store any ways, might as well pick me up _____." She stays well fed!

I love the dichotomy of me being in fit shape and my princess growing more sedentary.

Like most things in life, it becomes quite empty if you're not sharing it with another human being in real life. I've never quite gotten the "online encouragement" thing or girls sitting behind their computers alone peddling for food purchases from their Amazon wish list.

The greatest part of food, cooking, feeding and gaining in general is the community and connection it inherently creates between real partners, in real life having a real moment together.