Angy523:
I really don't understand him sometimes. Maybe somebody here does. He told me again he wants to lose weight... I said "ok" and he was like "is this all you say? You won't try to stop me?" So I told him I won't ask him to look in a certain way and I would support him to lose weight if that's what he wants. And he told me I shouldn't worry because it won't be much and he just wants to be 177lbs. I know it was wrong, but my reaction was something like "yak" and he was like "shut up, you will like that" and I told him it's not true. I explained to him that when he lost weight I wasn't as attracted to him as I am now. But he told me it's not a big difference. He told me back then he was 182lbs and now he is 192lbs (which is not true, he 200lbs or close, idk why he hides his weight). I just told him it is a difference, but it doesn't matter, I will support him even if he wants to lose more weight than he said. After that we changed the subject, but all day he ate more than the usual and I'm really confused...does he really want to lose weight or did he just wanted to check again if I like how he looks now?

Also, I really want to mention, in case somebody feels the urge to tell me I don't love him if I'm not attracted to him at any size, I don't need this kind of opinions. I know I love him, he knows I love him and both of us know that attraction isn't equal to love. Of course I am and will be attracted to his personality, but physical attraction is something else and it's totally fine to have preferences, this doesn't mean you love your partener less.

Jstraw22:
If you truly give in and intentionally gain more than 20 lbs or so its gonna be really hard to lose the weight and even harder to keep it off. Also, intentionally gaining 20+ lbs is a pretty good sign that this fetish has more control than you think. I've always known I had this fetish but never thought I'd actually give in. Covid was the perfect excuse to let go and here I am 60 lbs heavier than I was 3 years ago. The scariest and most exciting part is the realization that I'm fat now and always will be.

Nikola090:
That s the price to pay for seeing him become bigger

ADIPAMANS:
1) Do you prefer to start with a thin or already plump man?
2) Do you prefer to overfeed your man gently or forcefully?
3) Do you prefer to declare your intentions openly or act with everything understood?

Munchies:
I think he means this with his chest.

Weetabix:
Surely time for your 6th jab.

Nok:
Super dicey proposition. Society today is pushed toward medication and surgery for some good reasons, but also a lot of very corrupt reasons. There's an obesity epidemic for societal reasons, more sedentary lifestyles primarily, but also probably for chemical reasons, food and environmental adulteration and pollution, etc. I may be wrong, even very wrong, but it feels like allowing interests - in all likelihood monied interests - to push medication and surgery on children and the parents of those children... may be a very bad mistake, and additionally akin to paying money to an investment manager that lost your money in order to get advice on who to hire to manage your children's investments. Or something. I mean, it may be fine, or it may be the only workable answer at this point... but it's just so close to paying the people that caused the problem to solve the problem that it seems likely to be... a bad idea.

Weetabix:
This is wrongthink, book yourself into re-education camp at your earliest opportunity.

Seriously you're pretty close to the mark. On a bigger scale I think we're in The Matrix and we are all emotional power cells as per Morpheus holding up a Duracell. When we get cancer and suffer then that creates a kind of energy they, our spiritual overlords, feed off of. When we become fat and gluttonous then that's another flavour of the energy.

Treating children for obesity is just another twist on squeezing new flavours of emotions from us.

Money itself is a kind of energy. It represents the energy of human labour. Coal is free but after humans have dug it out of the ground and delivered it to whoever pays to be able to burn it, that's what gives money it's value. What ever it is humans make the product or service have monitory value by their efforts.

I envisage a world were obesity becomes the primary driving force for generating money and powering The Matrix. All those people in pods will be eating and becoming larger. Their pleasure from their increasing obesity will provide the spiritual and monitory energy.

Any of these corporations hurting children to provide spiritual and monitory energy should be resisted. If the kids are getting fat then just leave them alone, they are having a nice life.

GainingFrenchDragon:
I hope this is satire.

Nok:
Super dicey proposition. Society today is pushed toward medication and surgery for some good reasons, but also a lot of very corrupt reasons. There's an obesity epidemic for societal reasons, more sedentary lifestyles primarily, but also probably for chemical reasons, food and environmental adulteration and pollution, etc. I may be wrong, even very wrong, but it feels like allowing interests - in all likelihood monied interests - to push medication and surgery on children and the parents of those children... may be a very bad mistake, and additionally akin to paying money to an investment manager that lost your money in order to get advice on who to hire to manage your children's investments. Or something. I mean, it may be fine, or it may be the only workable answer at this point... but it's just so close to paying the people that caused the problem to solve the problem that it seems likely to be... a bad idea.

Weetabix:
This is wrongthink, book yourself into re-education camp at your earliest opportunity.

Seriously you're pretty close to the mark. On a bigger scale I think we're in The Matrix and we are all emotional power cells as per Morpheus holding up a Duracell. When we get cancer and suffer then that creates a kind of energy they, our spiritual overlords, feed off of. When we become fat and gluttonous then that's another flavour of the energy.

Treating children for obesity is just another twist on squeezing new flavours of emotions from us.

Money itself is a kind of energy. It represents the energy of human labour. Coal is free but after humans have dug it out of the ground and delivered it to whoever pays to be able to burn it, that's what gives money it's value. What ever it is humans make the product or service have monitory value by their efforts.

I envisage a world were obesity becomes the primary driving force for generating money and powering The Matrix. All those people in pods will be eating and becoming larger. Their pleasure from their increasing obesity will provide the spiritual and monitory energy.

Any of these corporations hurting children to provide spiritual and monitory energy should be resisted. If the kids are getting fat then just leave them alone, they are having a nice life.

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m just lacking motivation and not feeling it at the moment, like I love how fat I got last year and everything and it’s not like I’m gonna take steps to lose weight or anything - I’m still eating like I love but it just feels different atm. No regrets or anything :/