Conditioned to associate sex with food?

Munchies:
... But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
...But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. πŸ–πŸ†πŸ€£πŸ”₯

Munchies:
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.

MickRidem:
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I don't want to be seriously caught getting horny *every time* I eat, there are many situations, including at work, where this would not be ideal. LOL! If I could keep it to stuffing (and tbh that may have already started) and a specific food, that's more manageable and realistic for me. I still want a LITTLE control. 🀣 But yes, the game went very well. I'll have to have a chat with him soon about this kind of training. πŸ”₯


My partner doesn't get horny every time he eats. I'd say 99% of the time, eating doesn't arouse him. It's the other way around. He gets horny, and then he gets hungry.

Think of it like this. If you see a sex toy, most people will not get horny. But if you see a sex toy in the context of sex, you get horny.

These days, the link isn't as strong as it was. He is capable of getting horny without the desire to stuff his face. But it's better when he's stuffed.
1 year

Gaining and lifting

Super sexy.

MickRidem:
Dear GODS if I could snap my fingers and be this...

Munchies:
All in good time, Mick. All in good time.

MickRidem:
πŸ–πŸ‹β€β™‚οΈ I know this *logically*...
Lift big, eat big. Sigh... 🀣

I AM already much bigger than in 2019, so I have to keep that in mind. πŸ‘


Progress!
1 year

Conditioned to associate sex with food?

Munchies:
My partner and I are on a gaining break. He's been getting in shape since January ~ February. Still, some things remain unchanged.

The other day, I decided to tease my partner for an entire day. Even though I didn't mention feedism, he couldn't help but stuff his greedy face with snacks. It was great.

MickRidem:
...I have no concept of the frequency or time needed for this kind of conditioning.

Good to hear your guy's feeling good on this break, and yet not entirely losing some of that fun. πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

Munchies:
It's all about balance, baby.

As to the conditioning, it's more about consistency than it is frequency. But frequency does speed things up.

I have an extremely high libido. My partner's is more normal. We've figured out a system where I'm sexually satisfied, but he isn't pushing himself too hard. However, initially, he'd put out whenever I wanted. This was at least once a day but often two or three times a day. Add onto the fact that, initially, we only engaged in feedism and he wasn't used to being desired so intensely, the link formed within two weeks. (Looking back, I have no idea how he managed to keep up, lol.)


In your situation, assuming that you and your husband (partner?) have more normal libidos, it will probably take you longer than two weeks to form such a strong link. But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
I also have a very high libido, and my guy is more normal. Thankfully as a sub who enjoys edging and denial, this works out well for us. LOL!

But this is why I wonder what I can achieve on my own. Of course, work and life get in the way (pffft) so frequency/consistency can change.

An example might be... one Boston Cream donut a week when I *know* I can make a sexual link with some private time, vs the more occasional stuffing when he's involved. (We have more than occasional sex, but not Feedee related. 😁) But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. πŸ–πŸ†πŸ€£πŸ”₯


You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.
1 year

Gaining and lifting

Ex Jock:
I know it’s been discussed before, but who all still lifts or works out while they got into gaining? Has it helped or hindered progress?

I feel like I’ve stalled out the past couple months. Even lifts stalling out, which I guess means I’m not eating enough, so it’s fun having justification to bulk and gain even more. Going to re-double down on efforts and hopefully see some progress.

Anyone have similar experience?

Belly Builder:
I think we have had similar experiences. I found success doing a "zig zag" pattern....230 to 198 to 255 to 225 and now shooting for 275+ this time. I think lifting is important because it will ultimately let you carry more bodyweight in the long run. Plus higher weight = bigger lifts which is nice too.

Munchies:
Plus, that powerlifter body is sexy af.

Look at this physique:

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Super sexy.

MickRidem:
Dear GODS if I could snap my fingers and be this...


All in good time, Mick. All in good time.
1 year

Gaining and lifting

Ex Jock:
Yeah all good points. Thanks for the feedback. Will def have to up my liquid calories and start there while I work on stomach capacity


Don't forget the power of snacks. If you have a constant supply of easy-to-eat snacks, you'll end up eating a lot more calories than you realize.
1 year

Pics of guys

FatLime:
It's usually hard to show your belly in any unusual way. Especially when you want to share it more often, and visually it doesn't get that much bigger

MickRidem:
Different clothes, different positions, different locations? Squeeze into a leather jacket on the bed? Sitting at a picnic with belly peeks or busting out of a shirt? Cute pics with objects on your belly (maybe a single donut) to show how big you are? I know it can be hard to get creative. Maybe thrift stores can give you ideas?

And to everyone across the planet: clean the mirrors, please. 😁🀣


See, you get it.

Most of the male feedee/gainer scene is abysmal when it's for the female gaze. I commend OP for researching.
1 year

Milk?

FeedMePOV:
Well isn't that embarrassing for me. Oh well, kinda new to the site, still figuring out the chats and notifications. Guess I stuck my foot in my mouth on that one. Sorry about that.

Enas:
That's the slow way to learn πŸ˜‚
The more of your mistakes you understand, the faster you learn!


Ooooooorrrr


He could just ... pay attention to his surroundings. Most heartache in life is avoidable.

But this situation is a non-issue.
1 year

Milk?

FeedMePOV:
If you are referring to using milk to bloat, then absolutely!! Chocolate milk is even better. Makes a better mess! πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰


No, sweetie. We are talking about lactation. As in you are the one making the milk.
1 year

Gaining and lifting

Ex Jock:
Oh for sure, I def need to switch it up but sometimes hard to be consistent. I think part of it is not eating out as much, I love to cook and mostly make things at home. Lots of meat/protein, veggies, whole grains and rice, dairy, and nuts. I do have the occasional sweets, but try not to overdo it (though I know calorie dense) for the sake of my teeth and not wanting to approach diabetes. Seeing calories on menus sometimes I don’t even know how they’re so high if they were TRYING to do so haha.

i think I need to keep up with the wg shakes more, that’s what started it all for me. Sometimes I don’t have one if I eat more regular meals, but think I need to start having them on top of anything I eat during the day for a quick and easy 1000 cals


Drinking your calories would definitely help. The food you eat is decent, but I can see what it's a struggle to eat more than you already are.
1 year

Gaining and lifting

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Munchies:
If you're just growing a ball gut and not getting muscle gains, I don't think you are getting enough protein in your diet.

What do you normally eat in a day?

Ex Jock:
I agree with that logic, but was more talking pre-stall/plateau. My initial gain left me with the belly, (and I could be wrong about it qualifying as a ball gut, or even gut for that matter) but did get strength gains too. More both have stopped now, and it’s def because I’m not eating enough out of complacency but trying to re-double down my efforts.


Honestly, if you are struggling to consume enough calories, you probably need a new approach. What are you currently doing.
1 year