This is kinda weird. Does your wife know you've been making these meticulous notes about her for the past few years and then spontaneously posted all of them to a fat fetish site?

That makes sense. Body builders sometimes use heavy cream to get swole.

Darling, your stomach hurts because you are overdoing it with the greasy, salty, and/or sugary food.

Stop that.

A junk food binge might leave you feeling blah, but you shouldn't have any stomach pains.

That said, the trick to feeling less gross on a junk food binge in to eat a bit less junk food and throw in some veggies. Bonus points if it's leafy. The water and fiber in the veggies with help your digestion and keep your pipes regular.

Wow. Those sure are words.

I promise you that the whoosh effect is not a thing.

medicalnewstoday.com/articles/the-woosh-effect#what-is-it

I gave a detailed explanation in another thread. Here it is if you care to read.

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

Did she consent?

All bellies are good bellies.

I beg your biggest pardon?

So, a couple of things.

In another post, you talk about the journal being out and bookmarked. I've owned journals as a teenager. I promise you nothing was ever in the open and bookmarked. Unless that's normal for him, he wanted you to see that.

Also, lying about your preferences to "get more responses" is a red flag moment. It's one thing to go outside of your preferences. That's fine. But how he says it makes it sound like he was looking to settle. And now that he has, he regrets it a little bit.

That's his problem, not yours. But if this isn't addressed, this will become your headache.

I agree with everyone else not to admit to the snooping immediately. But it's good to come clean about it at some point.

Every few months or so, someone makes a panic post about everyone losing weight.

And every time, it proves to be a nothing burger. Fat people have always existed and will continue to exist. No one is going to force you to lose weight. And you won't become one of the few fat people alive.

Some people want to be fat - even outside of this fetish. Others are body neutral. And there are some that want to be healthy but not necessarily thin.

And for those that do? So what? It literally changes nothing about your life.

It's going to be okay.


That aside, there's a conversation to be had about making the world friendlier to fat people. The world is a very fatphobic place. But freaking out about people who want to lose weight achieving their goals isn't the way to do it.