Fantasy Feeder

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.

Munchies:
Might wanna look into increasing your activity level. And also look into your diet and see if there's anything you need to cut back on. Don't gotta reduce your calories, but you can play around with things.

LuvsChub04:
tru, just didn't think id be getting out of breath n so sweaty this easily.

This means that you were reckless with how you gained. Assuming your profile is up to date, you are both taller and lighter than I am. Putting aside the fact that we have completely different body compositions, this means your struggles have nothing to do with your weight.

It is entirely possible to be much fatter than you are right now, but not die when you go up the stairs. But you would need to exercise more and eat healthier foods.

Remember that size does not equal fitness. I'm in better shape than some people who are lighter than I am. And there are plus-sized athletes who are in better shape than I will ever be. If you want to keep growing without your body disintegrating on you, you might wanna look into that.

1 year

Munchies

Will gaining on heavy cream cause permanent changes for me?

Fatty67:
It can raise your set point range and make you permanently jiggly

Munchies:
Your milage may vary. Some people experience permanent changes. Some people lose all the weight the moment they stop. It really depends.

Besides, the real magic of heavy cream is that it primes the body for weight gain. So if you want a more permanent change, make sure you are eating enough high calorie food. If it's a struggle to eat more, you are drinking too much heavy cream.

Ceepert:
How do you mean that it "primes the body for weight gain"?

It's a complex topic that I frankly don't feel like explaining. However, I discussed the science behind it in detail in another thread. So I'll just give you the link to that:

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

1 year

Munchies

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

LuvsChub04:
I walk everyday but thats bout it.

Might wanna look into increasing your activity level. And also look into your diet and see if there's anything you need to cut back on. Don't gotta reduce your calories, but you can play around with things.

1 year

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Girth increasing exponentially when sitting

BigBallBellyGirl:
In the past 16 months, I regained 170 pounds of lost weight, plus 40 past my previous highest. Most of my weight with this regain settled in my belly, which has a pronounced yoga ball shape, side rolls, muffin top, and back. Obviously, breasts, buttocks, arms, and thighs grew significantly as well, but I'm very round, and my midsection is my biggest area. Because of this, when I sit, my girth expands exponentially, and I'm swimming in fat. I measure about 77 inches around standing, but more than 90 sitting. This poses major issues with clothing, particularly anything that has a waistband. Even the most elasticized leggings become very uncomfortable when sitting, and I find myself constantly rearranging. As a result, everything is ill-fitting. Any clothing recommendations?

Might wanna look into long dresses with an empire waistline. And perhaps see what's available on the plus-sized maternity side of things.

1 year

Munchies

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

LuvsChub04:
out of breath every time I climb stairs, its kind of concerning me

Might want to add some light to moderate exercise to improve your quality of life.

So long as you eat more calories than you burn, you won't lose weight. If anything, it will make you hungrier.

1 year

Munchies

New to feederism!

PumpkinSpice2002:
Just exploring this site and all, always been a bigger girl

1 year

Munchies

Eat nuts

Drugsarefunny:
Walnuts, peanuts, almonds, sunflower seeds... All nuts are our friends, they decrease the feeling of satiety and are very rich in fiber, for difficult digestions (as the comment above) are very good.

Nuts are great, but beware of the sodium content. A lot of nuts are salted. If you plan on going nut happy, it's best to eat low sodium or unsalted nuts.

1 year

Munchies

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
Kacchan:
Love the term "fluffy kink", and I kind of see what you are going for, but how would you define it? Long, slow, nurturing gain? No forced feeding?

ForeverFFA:
I don't think it has an official definition, so I guess it can be defined however it resonates with the person using it. It could be a way of describing feedism without BDSM elements, but it could also be used by people who just want to incorporate some elements of feedism into their sex lives without treating it as a lifestyle/feedist relationship.

Not sure if the amount of weight gained is super important to this definition, though I imagine most people's weights eventually plateau without at least some physical discomfort from stuffing or force feeding.

I seem to have confused some people.

Fluff is a fandom term meaning "wholesome and feel-good.". It's like the first few minutes of Up before Ellie passes away.

When I say "fluffy kink" I mean "practicing kink in a wholesome, feel-good way." This doesn't necessarily exclude BDSM, but it does exclude the darker, more intense aspects of this kink. It also excludes the min-max gainers which are people who are trying to get huge as fast as possible.

There is some wiggle room as to what is and isn't fluffy kink. But, as a general rule of thumb, an outsider to the situation would think it's sweet.

1 year

Munchies

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

Sweetfattie:
A-freakin-men. I'm not into the extreme stuff, I want a sweet, caring feeder who gets pleasure from making me happy.

And you are so valid for that. Your love of gentle feedism should be as welcome as my love of extreme feedism.

1 year

Munchies

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

Munchies:
A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.

ForeverFFA:
Wow, you're right...there's practically nothing out there, and the only ones I found ended after like 2-3 posts. I guess it's just not the kind of thing people need FF for.

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

ForeverFFA:
Thank you! Maybe I'll start yet another new thread with ideas next time I'm bored, but I've been hoping to cut back on that habit before I annoy people lol.

Have you seen how much I post? Screw that. So long as you are adding something of value to the thread, anyone who doesn't like it can kick rocks.

1 year

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