Calming nerves around first feedist experience

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

Sweetfattie:
A-freakin-men. I'm not into the extreme stuff, I want a sweet, caring feeder who gets pleasure from making me happy.


And you are so valid for that. Your love of gentle feedism should be as welcome as my love of extreme feedism.
1 year

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

Munchies:
A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.

ForeverFFA:
Wow, you're right...there's practically nothing out there, and the only ones I found ended after like 2-3 posts. I guess it's just not the kind of thing people need FF for.

Munchies:
Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.

ForeverFFA:
Thank you! Maybe I'll start yet another new thread with ideas next time I'm bored, but I've been hoping to cut back on that habit before I annoy people lol.


Have you seen how much I post? Screw that. So long as you are adding something of value to the thread, anyone who doesn't like it can kick rocks.
1 year

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.

Munchies:
A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.

ForeverFFA:
Wow, you're right...there's practically nothing out there, and the only ones I found ended after like 2-3 posts. I guess it's just not the kind of thing people need FF for.


Personally, I think we can use more fluffy kink. I think FF should feel as welcoming a place to gentle feedism as it is more extreme feedism. And if you are one of those people, all the better.
1 year

Pants, under or over the lower belly?

Feederboiii:
Under a belly is pretty sexy. Highlights the size much better too.

But when hefting the belly out of jeans or leggings? That makes me fall in love

Omg yeeeees!!!! 🤤

My partner likes to strip tease me by pulling his belly out of his pants and jiggling it. Since it's so big, he has to pull it out in two takes. Never fails to make me wet.
1 year

So twitter changed it's name...

SSBBW Summer:
So it could be Do you want my X? X (kiss) lol


Cheeky ~
1 year

Calming nerves around first feedist experience

ForeverFFA:
I guess I was also hoping for advice from anyone who's had experience with this kind of situation? I'm still feeling kind of shy about actually initiating anything even after our discussion went so well because I'm still concerned about what he might think of me. Ideas that might be enjoyable to try as a start with partners who don't already have a fat kink but are open to being fed would be awesome.

Munchies:
Easiest thing to do is make a big meal and encourage him to be as greedy as he likes. Let him control the pace and intensity. Then help him to the conch for cuddles, a movie of his choice, and belly rubs. Maybe some dessert when/if he's feeling up to it.

Kacchan:
This sounds absolutely perfect, and a great way to break things in. I'm actually jealous!

Munchies:
Feedism doesn't have to be eating a billion calories a day to gain a million lbs in a week. It can also be cute and fluffy. I may be a sadistic domme feeder, but I enjoy the domestic side of things too.

ForeverFFA:
Definitely agree, and thanks for the tips! This is more our speed, as I'm into the sensual/sweet side of feedism and my partner doesn't want to endlessly gain. I'll dig around on the old forums too - I realize there's probably already other threads about "soft" feeding ideas.


A good idea. The forums have been filled with people wanting to min-max their gains and explore their darkest desires. It's not bad perse, but we need some more kink diversity.
1 year

Pants, under or over the lower belly?

Maxtogs:
It’s an on going struggle


Might wanna revisit your methods.
1 year

Will gaining on heavy cream cause permanent changes for me?

Also, heavy cream is easier to consume if you cook/bake with it instead of drink it.
1 year

Will gaining on heavy cream cause permanent changes for me?

Fatty67:
It can raise your set point range and make you permanently jiggly smiley


Your milage may vary. Some people experience permanent changes. Some people lose all the weight the moment they stop. It really depends.

Besides, the real magic of heavy cream is that it primes the body for weight gain. So if you want a more permanent change, make sure you are eating enough high calorie food. If it's a struggle to eat more, you are drinking too much heavy cream.
1 year

Pants, under or over the lower belly?

Maxtogs:
Most of the time out because in hurts to much, and I don’t feel awkward pulling out my belly when I get stuffed


Sounds like you need bigger pants.
1 year