Won’t stop

Oldspicellama:
I’ve been gaining a ton now and I don’t want to stop, I’m almost 250 and I feel like I should definitely go past that, should I?


Be careful because this sounds like a budding addiction.

Are you taking care of yourself? Are you in fairly good health? I'd take a few months to maintain the weight before gaining more. Give your a chance to get used to the weight, get any health issues you might have in order, and get your finances right so you can afford to replace everything you outgrow. Things can get pretty expensive once you get a certain size.
1 year

Weight loss dilemma

Munchies:
Honestly, if your weight gain is causing you severe discomfort and health issues, it would be smart to lose the weight and get healthy. Once your health is stable, you can regain, but smarter this time.

But yeah. Lose the weight for now. Nothing says you can't get fat later. After all, what's the point of getting fat if you are too sick to enjoy it? Madness, I say.

Peldanique:
Thank you for your response. It's difficult because I love food and I feel good about my body. I am 5'5" and 212lbs, so not extremely overweight. However, my belly is quite big (see my profile).
I also don't know how to stop binge-eating. Dokter said she wil send my to a psychological but I don't want that. Do you have any tips for gaining weight healthily? I'm afraid that if I lose weight, the issues won't go away and will just come back when I gain weight again.
Maybe I should try to maintain a stable weight and incorporate a bit more exercise. Who knows, that might help.


You should listen to your doctor. She very clearly knows more about this than you do.

I have a background in biology. I have been a gainer for many years before switching to being a feeder. And I've been doing that for a while now too. I have type 2 diet-controlled diabetes. I like extreme feeding, but I promote safe and sane weight gain.

If your blood sugar levels are so out of control that you need insulin, you need to stop. If you don't stop, you run the risk of amputation or going into a diabetic coma and never waking back up. I lost my great-grandpa to a diabetic coma, and I know a lot of diabetics who are amputees.

It is possible to gain weight after you get yourself under control, but you have to do it slowly. Eating better and working out is good, but adding more weight to your frame when you already have weight-related aches and pains is bad. You have to get your body in good condition to handle the weight.

If you have an addiction to food, it can be a good idea to see a psychologist/psychiatrist about it. A lot of people in this kink space have disordered eating habits. When not under proper control, it can take something fun and turn it into a self-destructive spiral. I've seen it up close and personal more than once.

I say all of this to say you can be fat and healthy, but you have to take care of your body and mind properly to do that. If you don't, you're not going to enjoy your gains.
1 year

Weight loss dilemma

Peldanique:
Hello forum members,

Hope you understand my English 🙈

I find myself facing a difficult decision, and I would greatly appreciate your insights and advice to help me through it. I recently visited the doctor (again), who advised me to lose weight. While I'm not excessively overweight (I think so many people have higher bmi), I do have some health issues associated with it. I experience pain in my knees, ankles, and hips, and I have been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure.

She told me I have to use insuline when my levels stay high.
Should I really make an effort to lose weight? I'm not particularly motivated to change my lifestyle and restrict my food choices. I enjoy eating, like food, like my curves and oke, can't stop binge

I understand that losing weight is likely to be beneficial for my health, and I would like to alleviate the joint pain I'm experiencing. I also know that managing my diabetes and lowering my blood pressure are important to prevent complications. However, I must admit, I'm feeling discouraged and unsure if I have the willpower to tackle this.

Have any of you been in a similar situation? Did you tell the dokter of your binge and you like your Piggy body?

I hope you can tell me your story or give advise. Thank you for your time and support!

Best regards,

Peldanique


Honestly, if your weight gain is causing you severe discomfort and health issues, it would be smart to lose the weight and get healthy. Once your health is stable, you can regain, but smarter this time.

If you aren't that big to begin with, I believe you either have genetic-related health issues or you were gaining in an extremely unhealthy manner. In my experience, it tends to be the second option more often than the first.

But yeah. Lose the weight for now. Nothing says you can't get fat later. After all, what's the point of getting fat if you are too sick to enjoy it? Madness, I say.
1 year

A good song for a weight gain reveal

BigBellyBurgerBoy1:
Does anyone know what a good song would be for a scene in a movie where it's revealed that a character has gained a significant amount of weight? The song itself doesn't have to be about eating or getting fat, necessarily, just simply the concept of increase, or perhaps indulgence. If anyone thinks of one, let me know.


1 year

Supersized men

Sexypeggy:
@ rob .

You told him that you can't keep getting fat anymore or even losing weight ?

Rob1074:
No I have never told my gf (her not him) I want to lose weight. I am saying once you get to a certain stage of deliberate forced eating - training yourself to take in huge quantities of food/calories in order to get as fat as fast as possible, you can’t stop. If I don’t eat constantly - like say not eat anything for 30 minutes, I get massive stomach pains - like wanting to double up kind of pain. As soon as I eat it goes away. I can’t stop eating now. I wake up with massive hunger pains and start eating within minutes. I had a fantasy of getting really fat and having a feeder to push me. I got what I wanted. While we could have sex it was wonderful. Once I got too fat for that she could pleasure me for a while until I simply got too fat for that. Now I’ve become the amusement piece for everyone to look and laugh at. As they’re speaking Tagalog I have no idea what they’re saying but from the look on their faces - absolute disgust by many - I know it’s not good. So the fun part has ended. I have trapped myself. I’m not blaming anybody. I got what I thought I wanted. But now I’m getting to where I always imagined myself I’ve changed my mind. But I can’t stop. I’m addicted to food. Simple as that. Once you eat to the point where you’ve developed a massive bag of fat the size of my gut there are no choices left.

Munchies:
Damn, I'm sorry man.

My partner and I met when he was 407 lbs. We are both into extreme weight gain, but not immobility and health issues. So when I'd put about 100 lbs on him, he started to feel bad and asked to stop.

He's losing weight right now (nearly down to his old weight). We both fantasize about getting him to 700 lbs, but I doubt that we will actually reach that point. I'm okay with that. I'd rather grow old with him.

If I may be so bold, does your feeder know how you feel?

Rob1074:
She does but she also knows but she still loves my size and knows that I can’t stop eating. To be fair to her and her family, I get pretty bitchy quickly if they don’t do the continual runs to Maccas or KFC for me on time. Plus to 7-11 for drinks and snacks. It’s a continual parade to keep me going.

I don’t blame her for the way I have ended up. It’s entirely my fault. But now I’m this way she gets what she wants - her fantasy continues while mine doesn’t. If I could stop eating I would but I just can’t. And it’s just staggering how much fat I put on now I’m this size. A 30,000 calorie day is a slow day. I drink at least 8 large bottles of coke or Fanta a day although no longer slurp down liquid ice cream like I used to when I was on the gain as much as I can journey. Now it’s eat to survive - by that I mean eat what I need to not feel massive hunger pains and what I’ve trained myself to take in. And that’s a pretty horrifying torrent of food. I imagine my stomach sack (that is my organ inside me) must have stretched to a few feet long by now. The amount of food I need and take in every day is huge. I am eating or snacking every waking minute. Literally.

In retrospect it’s great you guys realised the issues and stopped. I could definitely have stopped at 500lbs. But that was an exciting stage. I felt so good - our body comparisons were just so spectacular and I loved that I was really starting to grow plus it was sexually very exciting. I was living my fantasy. I loved it.

It’s really only once I started basically not moving that I lost the need to deliberately keep growing. I mean wanting to grow more. Even now I can stand up with a lot of help and waddle a bit. But the pain is immense. And once on my side which is how the family now keeps me, I am basically stuck and totally immobile. I am generally kept on one side one day and then as part of the cleaning and belly skin care routine rolled to my other side for a day. The pressure on my gut is just too much sitting up and the pain from the stretched skin and skin tears is just too much. The skin under my belly is just so thin and so sensitive and the weight of my belly out in front of me slopped out over my feet is so heavy pressing into the bed I just can’t take it. As I said, the problems just get so bad. I got what I wanted. But now I just don’t want it. And I know I won’t last a long time longer - there’s only so much more weight I can put in before my body collapses and with the massive fat gains of 30-40lbs and growing I am making each month continuing and the problems I’m having are evidence of that. Now all I want to do is warn gainers and their feeders what you guys already know. Only take the fantasy so far. All the way leads to what I have become. And there is no going back once you look like me.


A noble thing to do, but I'm sorry you had to learn it the hard way. I wish you peace in the time to come.
1 year

Supersized men

Sexypeggy:
@ rob .

You told him that you can't keep getting fat anymore or even losing weight ?

Rob1074:
No I have never told my gf (her not him) I want to lose weight. I am saying once you get to a certain stage of deliberate forced eating - training yourself to take in huge quantities of food/calories in order to get as fat as fast as possible, you can’t stop. If I don’t eat constantly - like say not eat anything for 30 minutes, I get massive stomach pains - like wanting to double up kind of pain. As soon as I eat it goes away. I can’t stop eating now. I wake up with massive hunger pains and start eating within minutes. I had a fantasy of getting really fat and having a feeder to push me. I got what I wanted. While we could have sex it was wonderful. Once I got too fat for that she could pleasure me for a while until I simply got too fat for that. Now I’ve become the amusement piece for everyone to look and laugh at. As they’re speaking Tagalog I have no idea what they’re saying but from the look on their faces - absolute disgust by many - I know it’s not good. So the fun part has ended. I have trapped myself. I’m not blaming anybody. I got what I thought I wanted. But now I’m getting to where I always imagined myself I’ve changed my mind. But I can’t stop. I’m addicted to food. Simple as that. Once you eat to the point where you’ve developed a massive bag of fat the size of my gut there are no choices left.


Damn, I'm sorry man.

My partner and I met when he was 407 lbs. We are both into extreme weight gain, but not immobility and health issues. So when I'd put about 100 lbs on him, he started to feel bad and asked to stop.

He's losing weight right now (nearly down to his old weight). We both fantasize about getting him to 700 lbs, but I doubt that we will actually reach that point. I'm okay with that. I'd rather grow old with him.

If I may be so bold, does your feeder know how you feel?
1 year

Warning ⚠️

Clayton442:
Have a few people message, someone by the name of enjoying summer very active then deleted there account, idk I’d they where a scammer or what but watch out didn’t realize how many fake people there where


That's pretty much everywhere. That said, what did this user do that came off as a scam? Deleting accounts are super common on here - even if the user has been active previously. So that in and of itself isn't proof of a scam.
1 year

Gaining with no appetite and no heavy cream

Ullthrox:
I've gained 24lbs so far, but I've hit a big plateau. How should I gain with little to no appetite and heavy cream?

I eat until I'm full before sleeping and I eat inconsistently already, which I assume is how I managed to gain 24lbs. But I don't think that'd work anymore if I want to gain past my current weight (no change in weight for 4 months).

I also can't digest a huge amount of food at once and have been skinny my whole life until now.

Munchies:
Your profile says you're 21. If you've been skinny all of your life, this means you have a high metabolism.

The good news is that this slows with age. I had a similar issue. I didn't make any significant gains until I was 23/24.

You can lower your metabolism naturally, but be advised that this may come back to bite you as you get older.

Ullthrox:
How do I lower my metabolism? I've been trying to gain for nearly 2 years now so I'm 100% sure I won't regret it. I'd normally be more cautious but I've been liking my 24lb gain for 4 months now. I've maintained my weight (although unintentionally) and have given plenty of thought about it.


Here are some ways to safely lower your metabolism:
www.maxhealthcare.in/blogs/7-ways-slow-down-your-metabolism

Also, don't be afraid to take a break from actively gaining. Sometimes stressing about gaining makes it harder for gainer. Sometimes, when you take a break and focus on just enjoying yourself, you end up accidentally gaining.
1 year

Gaining with no appetite and no heavy cream

Ullthrox:
I've gained 24lbs so far, but I've hit a big plateau. How should I gain with little to no appetite and heavy cream?

I eat until I'm full before sleeping and I eat inconsistently already, which I assume is how I managed to gain 24lbs. But I don't think that'd work anymore if I want to gain past my current weight (no change in weight for 4 months).

I also can't digest a huge amount of food at once and have been skinny my whole life until now.


Your profile says you're 21. If you've been skinny all of your life, this means you have a high metabolism.

The good news is that this slows with age. I had a similar issue. I didn't make any significant gains until I was 23/24.

You can lower your metabolism naturally, but be advised that this may come back to bite you as you get older.
1 year

Struggling with regular eating

Daw185:
Hi,

I have been strugling with my regular meals during a day. Since I am not used to eat breakfast, the very First meal that I have is around noon. During the morning Im not even hungry. Second meal of the day is around 6PM and then maybe a dinner around 9 PM or anything.

I have problems with my appetite but i would like to change it and add a little bit of weight as well. Do you have any tips how to increase appetite or rules to set daily meals routine? Really appreciate any answer.


If you are having trouble forcing yourself to eat, you might have better luck drinking your calories.

Don't go the traditional weight gain shake route. Those are empty calories, and you might be missing vast swaths of nutrition in your diet. Look into smoothies or health/meal replacement shakes if possible. Not sure what's available in your country. A dietician might be able to recommend something, or you can go to your local store.

Other little things add up. Switch from skim milk to whole milk, drink more juice, etc. Stay hydrated, but don't just drink plain water.

Also, what kinds of foods do you usually eat? Are you open to snacks?
1 year