J8o8h8n:
Hi everyone,

I recently got married a few months back. My wife and I have been together for a few years now and, in that time, she's gone from 220 lbs to about 380lbs. I have also put on a bit of weight during the relationshp, going from about 140ish to 160ish lbs.

I have definitely toyed with the idea of gaining myself, and the thought of closing the gap by catching up to her was kind of hot. I definitely still go back and forth with it though.

I still have yet to say anything about it to her, but I am wondering if I say anything about it at all at first. Maybe I should just start gaining intentionally for a bit and, if she comments about it, I tell her the truth that I'm trying to get bigger?

A part of me thinks that she might like me gaining though. She's definitely played around with my belly and general body fat more with the slight unintentional gain and seems to visibly enjoy it more than I do, but I haven't brought up with her.

I'm not sure I should bring it up with her, but at the same time, if she is into it, or at the very least supportive of it, it could be a lot of fun to have her encourage me, feed me, and even start bring food into in the bedroom (for me instead of just her). She has expressed, in different situations, she'd like to be more of a dom in the bedroom at times, so a part of me feels like that might tap into both of our interests. My wife would get to take more charge in the bedroom by stuffing me and making me bigger, and I would get to enjoy gaining and catching up to my SSBBW wife.

I'm curious as to what everyone's thoughts were with regards to my current situation?

HappyBigBelly:
You’re in the right place for size acceptance :-) Have you discussed the subject with your hubby? It seems like you’re enjoying being bigger and like it even more than you’re leading on. Many of us here are married and truly accept our partners size no matter what it is. In the end, you’ll have to go with what your heart wants. Your pic looks lovely and would look amazing with even more pounds added on :-)

Ontlme:
thanks so much for the warm welcome i know my husband would tolerate it, but it's not his ideal, and i do like to please him

MTurn2411:
I have no idea how I thought of it, but I've been fixated on this for awhile now.

Picture this, my car breaks down on the side of the highway in the middle of nowhere, signal on my phone is nonexistent and the nearest auto body shop is over 100 miles away. I've got no choice but to try hitch hiking or hope cell service pops up.

After an hour or two, a guy in a semi pulls over and asks if everything's alright. After a quick look, he decides there's no way to fix my car unless it's taken to a shop and he offers me a ride to wherever I need to go, on one condition. He'll take me wherever I want to go as long as I eat whatever he buys for me, and I'm not allowed to stop eating until he says so or I run out.

Thinking that this was the best option, I would agree, but then he begins making stops wherever he can to get more food and drinks. Always making sure I'm eating or drinking something until my shirt starts riding up and the seat belt is cutting into my stuffed belly. Unbeknownst to me, we've passed multiple gas stations and auto shops.

By the time he decides I can stop I look like I'm about to give birth and all I want is for him to rub my belly and tell me I'm a good girl.

Soupfriends:
i went from 100lbs to 240lbs in 3 years. at first you don’t notice the weight. then one day i woke up and had little red stretch marks on my belly. yay! now at this point i’m almost immobile considering my height and medical conditions and it’s soooo far from my active self. i can barely walk without having to stop and take a breath