saving this post for uh...reasons
9 years
LiquidButterBelly:When I was a teenager and trying to lose weight, I lost a ton and people still called me fat. Then I met a feeder who changed my life. I gained hundreds of pounds, and when I looked to these sites for support I was told I wasn't fat! You could say I was "D*mned if I do, d*mned if I don't"! So just do what makes you feel good and ignore the haters. Your life and your body are for you to enjoy, not for others to want you to change it!

This.
Kaity, your body is yours. If you think you are fat, that is your identity alone. You know what is fat for you and not for others. Womens bodies are not for anyone else to police or judge--even if that is meant to be appreciated, it doesn't matter...autonomy, consent, and identity are still important.
I call myself a fatty even though I am, by and large, just average size with a lot of squishiness. Sure in the bbw-loving world I don't register to the "accepted" norm, but it's a state of mind and all about relativity.
9 years
I always throw my hat into the ring when WLW threads come up. Not sure if this is the usual one, but in any case, I'm a lesbian feedee here!
9 years
Something I did once that just happened to work out really well was that I had already eaten about two cups of plain steamed rice and broccoli, then a feeder showed up :3 and made me chug a liter or two of water. idk what it was about the combo but I got a couple extra inches, easy
9 years
My friend described something like this to me a few years ago (Totally non-fetish discussion, friend not in the community). She told me how much she likes to watch people eat, that it trips a nurturing part of her, but that she especially is "fascinated" by people wolfing down food.
When she described that to me, I realized just how much I love having another person (namely, a feeder) watch me eat, and why it's the reason I don't stuff myself and need a feeder as an audience.
9 years
This overall topic is something that is a huge turn-on for me. I love when a long-distance feeder keeps tabs on me. Some things that I find work well for me:
--Having to report meals/keep a food diary
--Receiving meal assignments and having to prove I ate it (photos, usually, showing fullness)
--Regular cam sessions with challenges/assignments and measurements, and of course, weigh-ins
9 years
I saw some sort of intro video about this and I was rather intrigued.
9 years
Definitely a big thing for me are tight clothes. Not necessarily dangerously tight, but good lord I would love to be stuffed and pop a button on a blouse or something.
...and then of course be teased about it

I've realized through feedism just how much I am into being controlled, or specifically having my diet controlled. Like above all else, when a feeder knows how to monitor my diet and assign meals...hoo boy.
9 years
pancakedone:
I'm just stating the facts man. No need to lash out with you Jr high comments.
Embellished anecdotal evidence based on f#$@-boy delicate ego behavior are not facts.
We know your butch.
I don't think you know what that word means.
Relax.
You are the one who came into a thread for WLW to complain about being watched by straight men, and I am laughing at how the irony completely escapes you.
In other words:
You're not important here, sit down.
9 years
pancakedone:
Seems most every female profile I look at says looking for female. That would also help to explain why when 10 people have looked at my profile 9 of them are guys. There aren't any heterosexual women on here it would seem.
...this thread isn't for butthurt straight guys...?
Also at LEAST 95% of the views I get are also straight males, so...
9 years