New on feederism

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me


Im really curious about this, could you update us on how this goes? (what are the good moments, what are the moments where you feel you need to be more careful, ect!)
1 year

Food getting more expensive

The fact that everything else other than wages has gone up is a product of the way capitalism functions! Employers, as a social role (which more or less controls wages) are always, with zero exceptions, subject to the reality that cutting wages down, leaves more money as profits! The solution lies in the abolition of employer - employee division of society, which requires a new socioeconomic system that will not create social classes (like, employer - employee, or lord - surf, or master - slave)
One example, in the microscale of things, is worker-owned cooperatives. They're basically businesses that run democratically, without a board of directors, or owner, who has dictatorial authority over decision making on the production of goods and services!

Is that easy to pull off? No. Not at all.

Is it something we have to work towards? Apsolutely!

I don't know if i explain it well enough, but i hope you understand, comrade! c:
1 year

What do you look for when making a friend on here?

Enas:
Friend?
Okay! Well, one of the things I'd like on a person, is the ability to discus in a calm sense about politics! (yes, im that kind of person)

Munchies:
Is that even possible? I've had political conversations with people where we agree with each other about everything. I can promise you that neither party was calm.


Of course, so long as that particular version of "calm" is relative to the topic! 😂

But i did have an experience where i was talking from an anarcho-communist stance, with someone who labeled themselves a fascist, and it was surprisingly calm! (Im sure i put them into some thoughts)
1 year

What do you look for when making a friend on here?

Friend?
Okay! Well, one of the things I'd like on a person, is the ability to discus in a calm sense about politics! (yes, im that kind of person)
1 year

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.

Enas:
How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious

Munchies:
It's a little different for everyone, but there are some general guidelines.

Clearly discuss boundaries beforehand.

Have safe words and/or gestures for when things get too much for you or your partner.

Understand that both parties can revoke consent at any time. Make sure this is respected.

Do not skip the aftercare.


This seems to be oriented per-session. Do you think it whould be the same if it were to be contunious? (24/7, until one of the two wants to break out of it) so that it could have the possibility of going on, indefinetely?
1 year

Consensual... abuse?

Enas:
How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)

Munchies:
This is feedism-based BDSM. Looks like you got a mix of sado-masochism, bondage, and consensual non-consent.

All of this is fine so long as you have clear boundaries between play and reality. If you don't, you are going to end up in a place you don't want to be.


How could consensual non-consent work on this? Im really curious
1 year

Consensual... abuse?

How do i even call it?
(also trigger warning)
I have this fantasy of being in the hands of a really strong feeder lady, and in it i love the aspect of her, playing around with my weaknesses in order to make / keep me gaining without asking. So that she can make me so fat that i end up being trapped with her.
For example, she can force me to have sex constantly, in ways that will make me incredibly addicted to her f*king me. Then she starts abusing that addiction by making me drink weight gain shakes everytime she's about to ride me, so much that i end up passing out right after sex. I even like the aspect of her low key threatening to beat me if i dont keep eating enough.

I know this is crazy, and i somehow ended up in a place where it turns me on a lot, i just wanted to know how realistic whould this be to play out in real life. (and what whould the safest way be)
1 year

What whould you want fantasy feeder to have?

With zero regards to the programmer's sanity and profits, what feature do you think whould be useful inside the Fantasy Feeder website?
(think outside of the box!)
1 year

Milk?

FeedMePOV:
Well isn't that embarrassing for me. Oh well, kinda new to the site, still figuring out the chats and notifications. Guess I stuck my foot in my mouth on that one. Sorry about that.

That's the slow way to learn 😂
The more of your mistakes you understand, the faster you learn!
1 year

Toxic behavior in relationships

Ditzy:
There are so many its hard to pick just one thing.


What comes to mind first?
1 year