My wife tends to use generic saying's when refers to herself getting fatter which I really like....for example.... "I am getting heavy again" or "I really have put on a lot of weight" or when referring to another friend I have heard her say "She is becoming a big gal".
So maybe when using it toward your husband you can try ........ "You look like you have put on some weight honey....and I love it" or a little playful "I guess I am a pretty good cook...while you softly palm and pat his gut". I know this will be the thing I say if I am ever confronted in front of my wife by some of our friends about my new big gut....."She is a fantastic cook these days."
One thing that surprised me or I should say shocked me is one time years ago after a huge gain she came over to me after we had just ate a restaurant on vacation we were both a bit intoxicated and I was still bloated from overdoing it at dinner as always and I mentioned that the restaurant reminded me of another place we had been to and she said I am not sure and as she came in softly and close to me as she palmed with both hands my chest and gave a slight shake and said "I don't remember these either".....referring to my once firm and muscular pecs which were now thanks to her I noticed soft and jiggly.
6 years
FangBang:
I still do suck it on occassion to see if it makes it less obvious I'm fat (spoiler alert, it did not) and I've noticed I subconsciously suck my belly in when I go shopping and try on clothes in the changing room, even when the items I'm trying on are my size or a bigger size or when I'm near or about to step on a scale (I probably do the latter to help me see what the scale says) I don't really care if anyone notices the thick roll of fat jiggling around my middle or the thick wobbling hips that come close to bouncing out of the very stretched waistband of my leggings.
hahaha ....especially " I probably do the latter to help me see what the scale says". By the way sexiest belly ever!
6 years
on a lighter note:
I wouldn't mind my wife fattening me up without permission as she has done in the past when she realizes my appetite has increased so much I don't say no to her bringing me seconds and sometimes thirds of her fattening dinners she makes us.
Likewise as her appetite grows and I buy all her favorite ice creams, cookies and chocolates and continually stock the freezer and pantry with some obscene amounts. She actually thanks me....and after several months the 20 lbs or so she has packed on shouldn't seem without permission.
I mean this is on the lighter side to be funny but I mean this topic gets carried away at times in both directions.
6 years
Not sure if my wife is fattening me on purpose but I do know several times that I have accidentally packed on the lbs. and intentionally (secretive from her but to get a reaction from her) her meals had become more fattening and the plate sizes were huge not to mention serving me second and thirds on occasion even before I finished that plate....almost so I couldn't say No. Not that I would say No because not only was I trying to impress her but my appetite would get huge. One time I packed on 40+ Lbs. mostly all to my new huge gut and she didn't flinch or slow down any of the meals and portions they only seemed to get bigger and more fattening. She only commented on a couple occasions when we she was slightly intoxicated (teasing me).
6 years
There is quite a few posts on here so I am not sure if any of this has been mentioned.
1. If you gain enough weight and Fat it will be tougher to lose it.
2. Re gain is very easy and quick once you have gained a certain decent amount of weight.
3. You create a new set point for your weight.
(wouldn't weigh more than 190 Lbs. then it was 210 lbs. then 230 lbs. etc. etc. your body never goes as low and if it does it climbs back up really fast to the new set point)
4. I know someone mentioned you get used to the lifestyle and laziness that comes along with gaining and not denying yourself. You allow yourself more things in excess than you would have done....and it makes you feel relaxed and happy. Also Muscle memory can relate to stomach stretched memory.
5. If you have the desire or kink to gain intentionally in the first place .....you will probably like it and be on the path to increase time and time again even if you lose a little for a bit.
6 years
Cherry:
As others have said, padding and stuffing are great ways to get a taste of what it's like to be bigger without gaining any weight. Or just gain a few pounds (which won't be noticeable to anyone but you unless you're very thin to start with) and see if you like it. Most importantly, have fun!
PhycoPanda:
I think I might have to do padding, only because my metabolism (and I swear to god!), is almost like a child. I will eat a ton of huge meals all throughout the week, and still not gain anything! I don’t know if it’s because of my metabolism or my diet, but something is not working.
It may be your age....and when you're body is ready to hold onto some weight.
6 years
It seems like for the past several months I am always eating and I looked at myself in the mirror the other day with my shirt off sideways and realized how big my gut has become again.
I tried sucking it in while looking in the mirror and realized not only did it not make much of a difference when I tried but the harder I tired sucking it in ....it kind of hurt. I guess as I mentioned never ever having my stomach empty or at least even when I wake up in the morning it doesn't feel empty may have to do with the pain I felt. Not to mention I have a defined crease know with a bit of a sagging big ole extended gut (Gravitational pull) the crease lines wrap mostly under the sides of my belly but I just realized my love handles have developed more and I have that crease under them too.
6 years
For my wife Pear....the more she gains the more Pear shape she becomes.
6 years
I totally agree with a few others that have mentioned to just allow them to fatten on their own without bringing up the weight gain to much. Early on many years ago I was much more in my wife’s face (girlfriend at the time) discussing her gaining, telling her how much I wanted her to gain and even weighing her. This worked but backfired eventually.
I currently just allow her to fatten up on her own along with buying her favorite deserts ie. Cookies Ben n Jerry’s chocolate etc etc. The really key is to build up their appetite and stretch their stomach out and then they need to eat a lot all the time and eventually crave eating and sex more and more. It’s the beat of the beat until they can’t fit into their color he’s anymore and you have a minor set back sometimes.
Allow them to get Fat on their own.....and it doesn’t hurt if they have some new pretty fat friends ....that will definitely speed up the process and allow them to feel thinner while they are getting fatter that much faster.
6 years
This may not be the easy answer you are looking for but Giantjay has the answer on the button.
1. Stuff past being full and then some more for a week.
2. After continued stuffing and when you don’t feel like you can eat some more....start drinking your calories. Milkshakes, then milk and even water for another week or longer.
3. Continue eating and realize you don’t really get full anymore, you might even have hunger pangs at this stage and start always thinking of your next meal.
4. At this point your stomach is stretched out and needs more and. ORW food to be satisfied.
5. You will gain and continue to gain.
6. You are now trained to eat and act like a fatter person.
7. Soon your skinny self will be a thing of the past and you will become fatter every year until all of your friends and family refer to you as Fat.
Tell me if anyone can relate to this course of action?
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