They think that going after fat males is an easier way to score cash because OnlyFans is inundated with people
4 years
I got introduced to this life by an older philosophy professor and while with her I explored the feeder aspect but never truly saw myself as the fat one until we switch up roles and I never knew that I liked being the fattened one. But as I got past 380, then I noticed that I had a fat pad and I was concerned but she championed it and then as I got well past four hundred that is when it was completely swallowed up so she had to be the one to help me release but it was scary at first but eventually you get used to it. But when we broke up and met other people that is when I realized that I had to date women who were extremely into fat men because others can not handle it. And I wanted the subcutaneous fat (the type that is flabby and hangs) so you have to be prepared for those new changes when they come because no one talks about these things.
4 years
Beware of scammers like these out here. I am typically friendly to everyone but in recent weeks I have had friends fleeced by some women like this. Most people on here are cool as hell but there are some serpents who must he exposed. If they have anything OnlyFans related or they have their cashapp up there; move with caution because they will pretend to want to get to know you after some time only to continually try to fleece you. It is bad enough that we have few places to talk about our interests but always check on the tonality of their messages and they primarily linger in the chat. Their trap is that they are looking for a feeder.
4 years
It depends on the person. Some folks can carry the weight better than others. I did not feel the weight until around 310 and that was when my gut started to hang and droop and that was when I noticed that I had a slight waddle due to how thick my thighs became.
4 years
Truth is, people have an ego issue. We care way too much what those whom we don't know think and they are entitled to think as they do but being triggered by someone's views of our fatness is a personal issue and meditation helped me with mine because it wipes away all the external clutter. Pay these fools no mind and eat yourself into oblivion if that is what you desire.
4 years
WideJuan76:Truth is, folks will message you pretending like they want to talk but they really want to get off while talking about fat to you. I used to genuinely want to talk to get to know folks but I just read the forum posts because too many folks in the chat both male and female just want to masturbate to your fat chat about how your belly hangs below your belt.
SquishyBellyLover:I'd assume that most of the time you're correct, but if you are able to find the occasional person who really is interesting and nice to talk to, I'd say it's worth it
It is a numbers game but deduce whom to deal with via their tonality.
4 years
Chubbypup:
It's hard to find any relationship here, I think. It's a fantasy site, most people seem to prefer to keep it that way.
Baba Yaga:
You aint kidding. A lot of people refuse to post face pics and personal information. On one hand I get it, but on the other hand I feel like I'm being used like a toy when I get to know someone but they delete their account out of nowhere.
Truth is, folks will message you pretending like they want to talk but they really want to get off while talking about fat to you. I used to genuinely want to talk to get to know folks but I just read the forum posts because too many folks in the chat both male and female just want to masturbate to your fat chat about how your belly hangs below your belt.
4 years
Just_Jess_81:
Some constructive advice for male feedees, for everyone really, when it comes to meeting people online ...
If you are looking for something very specific ... i.e. a relationship, role play, a regular feeder, or just one-time feedings ... then you need to put that very clearly on your profile. Put both what you are looking for and what you aren't. If it is in person or online only ... say so.
Beyond that, use the shouts and the personal ads section of the forum to let people know you are looking ... and again, be very clear about what you are looking for and what you are not.
People aren't just going to fall into your lap and they aren't mind readers, you need to put yourself out there and in a way that attracts what you are looking for otherwise you will get overlooked. P.S. I'm saying this as a female feeder, so ... lol
Put the effort in, show potential feeders or whoever that you are serious and looking for something real, then be patient.
In the meantime, use the search option under profiles, check the user tab in chat, or look at the personal ads for the role you want, then browse the profiles that interest you and reach out to those who have taken the time to do all of the above things on their profile
Doing all of these things will help you connect with people that are interested in you for the right reasons and keep both you and the people that reach out to you from wasting time. It's not going to be a 100% of the time thing, but it's better than 0%, right?
I concur with this and also one can develop intermediate level social skills on how to continue conversations online. But the biggest mindset that most feedees like myself have to grasp is what if we don't find that female feeder like we dream and how do I want my life to be ? Feederism in our thing society today to most is a fringe lifestyle in which most people don't know exist or will lose social credit if they live this lifestyle. We have to get used to being our own feeder and being our own actualization and embodiment of fat.
4 years
Here is the real reason that he does it. It is easier to masturbate than to wait for you to get into the mood and how our brain is hardwired we have a tendency to do things habitually. My friend had issues just like your guy does but the reason for his excessive porn use was the need for any companionship superceded his need to find someone he was really attracted to. His therapist said that this type of "settling" for what you can get instead of what you want because you don't know if you can keep or attract your type so you waste people's time like this. Either way, you might have to choose someone else.
4 years
I personally have always been attracted to bigger women and I could care less about it because I was happy to be dating my type and yeah I saw other males feel shame for it but I told them when you go after what you are attracted to that even if you get rejected by her; at least you tried to talk to her and to me that is a win win. But after so many dry spells, I became fatter over time and I started to notice that I had so many fit females come up to me secretly because they were ashamed of their likes due to we residing in one of the top fittest areas in the nation. The fatter I became, the bigger women were not only self conscious of themselves but embarrassed of their attraction to obese males. On both sides, it is an overt need to belong and any other likes other than the "norm" is seen as some abnormality when it is nothing of the sort.
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