Fantasy Feeder

Offered diet pills

Spike:
Growing up my mom put me on diet pills, it was Ally. All it did was make you dirreah.

That being said never in my adult life... but i also havent seen a doctor since 2009. Do doctors really give you diet pills? Do they work????? God I wish I werent american :{

You should probably see a doctor at some point for at least a check up.

But as for the diet pill, it depends on the doctor and the situation.

I do want to clarify that there is prescription strength weight loss medication out there. Some of it isn't in pill form. They aren't like the over the counter diet pill that just dehydrates you or makes you poop.

That being said, most doctors do not come out the gate suggesting you take them. Normally they recommend lifestyle changes and give you medications for obesity related illnesses (diabetes, high blood pressure, cholesterol etc.) and not for weight loss itself.

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Being soft vs. gaining

LoraDayton:
I'm a non-gaining feedee. This means I like the act of feeding as a fun kink sometimes, but I don't have any interest in gaining. Too many people here see everything in absolutes with little room for nuance or subjectivity.

Feedism and FA are not the same thing, they just have a lot of overlap. There are also just belly fetishists in general, and typically you'll find those in more body expansion/preg kink circles (even if the expansion part isn't their thing).

X_Larsson:
Who are YOU to say that there are "too many"? So even in this site, you find it fine that you approve or reject their sexual preferences or wishes? Add to that, that quite a few of those members have not been able to ever find a partner reasonably matching their preferences, so they have no real life experience in how different sexual elements contribute to their own experience.
If anything, I think long times of unmet needs will rather cement their importance in the mind of the feeder, "radicalizing" if you will.

I totally agree about the FA vs feedism thing, just as I think there is zero need for a BDSM element in feeding. Feedism is its very own thing, not related to anything I can think of.

Bro, calm down. Read what she said again. She said too many people see things in ABSOLUTES. That's all she said.

This wasn't a comment about anyone being passing judgement on fetishes or not having a partner. Her entire post was about black and white thinking in regard to fetish labels. If anything, she's promoting creativity and freedom regarding sexual expression

1 year

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Your favorite ssbbw or bhm

Teasesfatties:

Thanks, hun!

1 year

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Too stuffed to move?

WannabeFat:
I love this feeling of overstuffing in public.
This month at work my boss decided to order a large amount of pizza for all employees and everyone are free to eat as much as he or she can. And I stuffed myself to the max...maybe too much (is there ever a "too much"?). I have had such a pain and problems to stand up straight after that.
Thanks goodness that there were no customers that day and I could sit the rest of the day.

My partner loves going about his day with a stuffed belly. It's such a turn of for both of us. I love how everyone can see what a glutton he is.

1 year

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Your favorite ssbbw or bhm

Reflection Of Perfection:
Don't care for BHM. Favorite ssbbw?

ILL TAKE EM ALL IM HARDCOREEEE

I mean, you're straight. But so am I. Ssbbws, while very pretty, do absolutely nothing for me.

1 year

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Your favorite ssbbw or bhm

He isn't active anymore, but I really enjoy Daniel Keaton. He is an absolute eating machine. My favorite video is his last video. He'd stuffed himself for most of the day, and then came home to stuff himself even more.

He eat so much that his belly tore apart his button down shirt in the first several minutes. And he just kept going.

If you like overstuffed belches moans, and whimpers, there's plenty in all of his videos.

1 year

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Long term success stories, feeder plus non-feedee bbw/ssbbw?

X_Larsson:
OK....
From the whole English speaking part of the planet, 103 people have read this post, nobody has replied.
And then the topic is success stories, which people probably are happy to share.
When I searched the topic, I found a number of people (men) concerned with, or depressed by, the fact that they could not find a somewhat suitable partner that was also a feedee.
Maybe that IS a fact?

Munchies:
You asked about success stories about male feeders having a long-term relationship with non-feedist partners. That's limiting your sample size.

I've had relationships with feedist and non-feedist partners. I'm in a happy relationship right now with my male feedee partner. But based on your question, my experiences are not relevant.

X_Larsson:
Your contribution is of course welcome, even if it reflects the opposite scenario, it seems.
But I hope to get feedback from male feeder / female non-feedee couples, or people that used to be in such relations.

From what I've seen on this site, the majority of male feeders with non-gaining partners try to convert their non-feedist partners. Sometimes the succeed, and sometimes they don't. I've noticed the latter category doesn't tend to stay on this site for very long.

Of the non-feedist women on this site, they typically make an account to ask community members more information about the fetish because their significant other is into it. They don't tend to stay after they find the information they were looking for.

I am curious as to what prompted the question in the first place.

1 year

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Long term success stories, feeder plus non-feedee bbw/ssbbw?

X_Larsson:
OK....
From the whole English speaking part of the planet, 103 people have read this post, nobody has replied.
And then the topic is success stories, which people probably are happy to share.
When I searched the topic, I found a number of people (men) concerned with, or depressed by, the fact that they could not find a somewhat suitable partner that was also a feedee.
Maybe that IS a fact?

You asked about success stories about male feeders having a long-term relationship with non-feedist partners. That's limiting your sample size.

I've had relationships with feedist and non-feedist partners. I'm in a happy relationship right now with my male feedee partner. But based on your question, my experiences are not relevant.

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Offered diet pills

SmugWendy:
I had an experience finding a doctor here. On my first office visit she wanted to discuss gastric bypass. That was my last visit to her.

On the first visit? That makes no sense. Even if you were so fat that it was an active danger to your health, it still wouldn't make sense to talk about having a gastric bypass on the first visit. Feedist or not.

Not everyone is a candidate for it, and most doctors will look for non-surgical means to help you lose weight: lifestyle change, medications, literally anything but surgery. That is an objectively terrible doctor, and I am so sorry you dealt with that.

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Being soft vs. gaining

Habanbucherer:
Some self-analysis: I like it when a girl has a belly. But for me they do not necessarily have to keep growing to be interesting.

To me it seems that the majority of the active users on FF prefer for themselves or others to gain weight instead of keeping current weight.

To each his/her/their own, of course (just do what you feel like doing), but it got me thinking: am I in the right place here? or is FF actually not for me? Any other members (girls/boys) recognising this?

If you just like fat, and weight gain is more of a bonus than an expectation, you're a fat admirer. As to whether or nor FF is right for you, that's for only you to decide.

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