I've been hurt. i think it's my fault.

Wowthatsbig:
Just wanted to get it off my chest. I've fallen into to some chats that have definitely hurt me. I don't want to kik. I don't want to cashapp. I don't want to send Bitcoin.

I just wanted to immerse myself in the community but I think I dove into quick.

I need some maturity on my end but damn it makes me sad.

Thank you for coming to my TedTalk


Okay, I'll bite. Why is this your fault?
1 year

To what extent are feedees on here willing to risk their health for this fetish?

Tentacles:
Just curious. Personally I think a happy life is more important than length of life so don't think I'm judging.


It really depends on the person. My feedee recently had a health scare, so we are dialing back on our shenanigans. He's already doing better, but not as great as he'd like to be. Next year, I'm helping him lose some weight, and get him back to where he wants to be. Then he'll regain, but more carefully this time.
1 year

I am not a gainer, just a hungry fat ass!!

MegaMomma420:
I need help! I'm looking to build friendships, and get a lil help. I need helpers who are willing to bless my Cashapp (hold on, not a scam!) so that I can order Doordash, and put a little aside for needs.

For every donation over $20 I will send a pic, for a donation $50 or greater I will send you a personal pic including all the food I ordered and am eating. For donations $100 or more we can do a video (nothing porny) and I can eat for you!

I'm a depressed, disabled single mom...I'm willing to work with what I've got.


Hey, hun! Sorry to hear life has been unkind to you. I hope it look up for you soon. Especially since you have kids.

That being said, I don't think you real the site rules prior to joining. Openly asking for money is a bannable offense. There are a large number of fetish models on this site, but they primarily use Fantasy Feeder for general promotion and community engagement. It is possible to make money on this site as a content creator. You can make premium stories, pictures, and videos. I can't speak for the compensation amount, however.
1 year

How common is this fetish?

BloatedGymGuy:
... I have noticed that there are a lot less users from anywhere else than USA. I myself am a Finn.

Makethatgirlfatter:
You're not wrong. I've been on this site for a long time, and it used to be almost exclusively Americans. Although I don't think feedism/FA culture is an extremely widespread thing, I'd bet there are a lot of people throughout the world that would be interested if they knew about it.

That being said, I think the community is growing (pun intended), and I feel it'll continue to expand internationally in the future (again, pun intended).


The fact that there are so many Americans on a British site just sends me. Hilarious, really.
1 year

How common is this fetish?

Casually Walking:
Technically everyone has it, let me explain

It is widely believed that every single person will develop a want for a bigger partner under stress, because eons ago, when humans didn’t have an abundance of resources, stress usually came with a drought or a bad harvest, which meant someone larger had food

In the sense of the people who’s preference never “turns off”, well, that’s more difficult to gage, someone would have to go around asking everyone if they like fat, being fat, or any other relation to the fetish. And I’m sure a lot of people wouldn’t admit it due to the stigma surrounding beauty

Bellyempire:
So perhaps fat fetishism is based on stress in childhood


This doesn't make any sense or reflect most feedists live experiences. Also, widely believed? Where are these sources?
1 year

How common is this fetish?

Meatycake:
I've wondered about this before, like just how much about a fetish/ sexual preferences in general are defined by a genetic factor, or an environmental factor
As with most things tho,
It's probably a mixture of the two.
In the case of Americans
One'd think they are proportionality more into feedism because their culture simply exposes them to overt gluttony more often
If they had the predisposition pre-wired the exposure at the right age would set the fetish in for life.
But it's really hard to work any science with feedists populations because there is marginally no data
Like what is the actual proportion of feedist in the general population vs that of the US?
no one fucking knows!!
One more thing, the English language is the most prevalent on the internet, and US population is the biggest anglophone in numbers and afflunce
So they are over-represented on the internet in all topics, feedism being merely one of them.
BTW I'm from Brazil, and down here both feedism and just any non fetish preferences for fatter people are a major non-spoken taboo.
To the point I actually thought I was the only person into weight gain before I learned English and saw the English internet.
It is that bad


These are all good points.

I wonder if fat fetishism is so prevelent in my country because our mainstream culture glorifies thinness and demonizes fattness - all while most Americans are fat? Who knows?

I wonder how many feedist spaces are out there for non-English speakers
1 year

Fat distribution

PleaseTeaseMe:
I am still in the beginning of my fattening journey. Still I have, while sitting down, several actual rolls, and some rolls starting to form. But, I notice that I have slightly more fat on the right side of the belly, than to the left. Especially the mid roll, above the underbelly roll (the ground roll so to speak, haha).
My question is: will this even out as I get fatter? Or will it be even bigger difference?


Hard to say. The human body is not completely symmetrical. Sometimes it's more obvious in some situations than others. You might even out. You might not. And if you don't, the change may be slight, significant, or anywhere in between.
1 year

Question for female feeders

Op User:
Should we make the difference between a woman and a man feeder? A woman feeder may be unable to handle a very big partner while a male feeder may have a much easier time assisting an Ultra size immobile lady.

Aegis:
Why is this moronicly sexist post not deleted 😂

Munchies:
You find stuff like this from time to time. Thanfully, stuff isn't as bad as it used to be.

The irony of the statement is that once you get a certain size, you're too big to be moved by most people - regardless of gender.

Tentacles:
Maybe lifting ssbbws should be added to worlds strongest man.


Kinky, but not a good idea. Not only is a person more cumbersome to lift compared to their equal weight in weights, but have you seen a strong man competition? The are very rough with the weights. The person being lifted is risking getting hurt.

That being said, there is a wife carrying competition. I wonder who was the heaviest winner?
1 year

I request some help.

Jason S:
Hi Folks.
I am not good at taking pictures of myself.
I only use a cell phone for the pictures that I post here, and I don't want to take the same ones, over and over.
I admit that I'm not much to look at, but I would like to take better pics, so can anyone help me with ways to take better pictures by myself?
I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks.


To add onto what everyone else is saying, feel free to play around with your lighting, clothes, angles, and props. Don't be afraid to edit your pictures either. Adjusting the white balance, brightness, color saturation, cropping out things, ect.
1 year

Advise please!!

PigletInPiggy:
I've been wanting to gain & I've said I'm going to but for some reason I'm scared too & I hate that!! My hubby wants me to gain too badly! I get padded up to look 2-3 times my size & the bigger I make myself the more turned on I get!! I feel so incredibly sexy & feminine & wayyy more sexual!! My hubby has said he wants me at 200 pounds for his birthday as his present & I really want to give it to him!! To us lol His birthday is 4/20 sooo I have 113 days to gain roughly 50 pounds to achieve this. What can I do to just let go & do this so our shared fantasy can become a reality? Not only how to not care what people think because I get fat so fast but also, how to get fast that fast! lol


Is this possible? Yes. But it is going to be very rough on your body and your wallet. You also have to accept you may not be able to achieve this soon.

You'll have to eat high calorie foods and drinks constantly. Basically, you'll need to stuff yourself all day every day. And when you aren't stuffing, you should be snacking on something. Daily weight gain shakes and heavy cream also helps.

I remember my partner and I did a 24/7 stuffing challenege last October. Kept him constantly stuffed to the brim with high calorie food. It was extremely sexy. Iirc, he gained a little over 20 lbs

But he was over 420 when we started, so he didn't have a metabolism to fight against. He was also very thankful for the break (even though he initially didn't want to stop).

If something like this sounds sexy to you, then by all means proceed. But, if you are just starting your weight gain journy (especially at such a low weight) I usually recommend easing yourself into it.
1 year