Exercise

Munchies:
I love how OP asked for product recs and only two people gave product recs.

Truly iconic.

Morbidly A Beast:
Tbh your the one who works out, the most exercise some of us get is incendetal


I might be active, but I know I'm not the only one in this thread who's familiar with exercise products. In fact, iirc, you used to be a bit of a gym buff as well.

I am simply the most vocal about my fitness by virtue of being the most vocal on the forums — a bit of a spider georg situation if you will.
1 year

Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful

Munchies:
It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.

Hurgon:
Definitely.

It was often a sign of wealth too - access to more and better food, no need to do the physical labour, etc. I don't know whether this is still the case in some cultures and parts of the world. A lot of portraits from the eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries draw attention to the swell and straining buttons around the subject's paunch.

MrSlob1919:
And this was during the time when women wore corsets for the skinniest waist possible. What a time for contrast!


Except that's not true. Corsets are not girdles. They are undergarments. Yes, some corsets could reduce the waist size, but most people didn't use them in that way. Instead, a corset was pretty much an old-timey bra.

Instead, women would use things like strategically placed ruffles and poofy skirts to give themselves the illusion of having a specific body shape. Think big hips, a full bust, and a slim waist.

There's a YouTuber I like to watch sometimes called Bernadette Banner. She specializes in historical clothing and wears corsets on a day-to-day basis. I recommend looking at the videos below:



1 year

Alternate worlds where one sex is fat and the other thin. do you like/dislike this story concept

Tentacles:
I find this idea strangely fascinating not sure why. Dunno how much storytelling potential or not there is.

Munchies:
I absolutely hate it because of how it plays into a lot of sexism and power imbalances in every single story I've read with that concept. Adding to it, there are some cultures irl with similar ideas and they do not treat their women very well. This includes cultures with thin women and fat men as well as fat women and thin men.

Letters And Numbers:
I think those would be the traps to avoid if someone was going to write a story like that, for sure.

Birds could be an interesting species to model off of, but once you start giving an animal consciousness and free will and all of that, you start running into power imbalances.


I am a firm believer in that you can make a good story out of anything. I think that there is a way to explore a world that has strict body expectations enmeshed with gender roles in a way that isn't supportive of such sexism.

However, I have never seen such a story like that - especially not in kink space. I've been reading feedist erotica for about a decade now - maybe more. These sorts of stories tend to be the most sexist of them all.

Imo, the only way to pull that off is to make a story about rejecting societal norms. But even that would need to be handled with great care because it runs the risk of being fatphobic or thin-shaming.
1 year

What to expect when gaining?

MVP76:
I feel this as someone who has suffered from food addiction and binge eating disorder. It's incredibly hard to stop and I did try over eaters anonymous, etc. Ultimately, I was forced to make changes due to health issues.

Munchies:
I'm sorry you went through that. But I am glad you are in a better place now.

MVP76:
thank you for your kind response 😊

💖
1 year

Developing strong cravings

J8o8h8n:
I exercised some portion control today for breakfast. I didn't get a 4th Minibon or a second Oreo Frappe. Limited myself to a light 3780 calorie breakfast.


Someone is having fun
1 year

Developing strong cravings

J8o8h8n:
I've noticed something that's happening after days of stuffing myself full of fast food. When I try to take a bit of a break from it, I get the strong urge to get some. Like today, on my drive home from work I was hungry, and it took an absurd amount of willpower to not take a detour to get more McDonald's. Honestly, I might go out in a few to get some lol.

Is this something else other people have dealt with before? I imagine this is how people end up not being able to stop gaining.

MVP76:
fast food is particularly addictive as its formulated to be so.

Munchies:
It's not formulated to be addictive. It doesn't need to be. People like fatty foods high in salt and sugar. The only thing they formulate is how to preserve the food, which has no impact on it being addicting or not.

You'll notice similar effects if your do your own cooking, but use a lot of fat, salt, amd sugar.

MVP76:
it's certainly hard to beat the quick convenience of a fast food meal.


For sure
1 year

Tools and articles to keep feedee comfortable and lazy

Fatguy3856:
you can should do the complete household chores for her because clean up the house is much work and is burning to much calories. Ig you can afford it encourage her to quit her job. So she has much more time to stay at home and get bigger.


I like the idea of him helping out around the house. A lot of feeders want their bbw/ssbbw partner to get really fat and expect them to do everything they did at lower weights. However, I am not on board with having her quit her job.

With the economy being the way it is, it doesn't make any sense to reduce your income. Getting fat is expensive, and the second income really helps a lot. Plus, some jobs are really good at packing on the pounds.

Also adding onto that, she is his girlfriend, not his wife. No shame in being a stay at home girlfriend, but if they break up, she doesn't have the same legal protections as a wife does. Not saying they won't have a long and happy relationship together. But I am saying quitting her job is an unnecessary risk.
1 year

Developing strong cravings

J8o8h8n:
I've noticed something that's happening after days of stuffing myself full of fast food. When I try to take a bit of a break from it, I get the strong urge to get some. Like today, on my drive home from work I was hungry, and it took an absurd amount of willpower to not take a detour to get more McDonald's. Honestly, I might go out in a few to get some lol.

Is this something else other people have dealt with before? I imagine this is how people end up not being able to stop gaining.

MVP76:
fast food is particularly addictive as its formulated to be so.


It's not formulated to be addictive. It doesn't need to be. People like fatty foods high in salt and sugar. The only thing they formulate is how to preserve the food, which has no impact on it being addicting or not.

You'll notice similar effects if your do your own cooking, but use a lot of fat, salt, amd sugar.
1 year

One month test gaining/stuffing challenge

LaylaniR:
Yeah Learned that too. The eagerness of gaining can sometime be a trap. It's sometimes good to listen to your body and slow down. I opt for making sure I eat high calories meals even if I don't stuff myself. I also make sure all of the ingredients I use to cook at home are the highest calorie options, eg peanut butter cereal, butter, white bread, white rice etc. I do stuff occasionally and I make sure to drink weight gain shakes every night during my heavy cream cycles

Munchies:
Just wanted to add to this that nutrition is extremely important. A lot of people think that if you eat a lot or are very fat, it's impossible to be malnourished. That can't be further from the truth.

Your body needs a lot of different nutrients to function properly. If you don't get everything you need, you're body won't be able to function as it should. On top of all that, high-fat diets can make it harder to absorb things correctly.

So, it's extremely important to proceed with caution.

J8o8h8n:
I know I've been taking multivitamins more frequently than I used to and I periodically take a break from eating a bunch of fast food to eat a bit healthier. I definitely have been eating less healthy than I used to though (it comes with eating 5000-6500+ calories most days since starting my gaining challenge). I'll probably ease up a bit at the end of the challenge, but it's seeming more and more likely I'll never go back to eating how I did before the challenge (or be the size I was before the challenge lol).


That's fine if you never go back to how you used to eat. I'm simply cautioning you about the quality of the foods you eat.

Have you ever spoken to someone on a mostly fast food diet? Especially if you knew them before they started eating that way? There's a major change in their personality and cognitive skills. A friend of mine calls it "Fast Food Brain Rot" or "FFBR" for short. Simply put, when the brain doesn't get the nutrition it needs, you get behavioral changes and brain fog. Usually goes away when you start to eat better.
1 year

18f looking for a feeder!

Slixxx666:
Hi. I’ll make you a immobile hog my dear. 🐽🙂


I'm sorry that things didn't work out with your partner.
1 year