Are metal bed frames better?

Fatty J:
Im 400 now 😂 and getting bigger


1 year

Are metal bed frames better?

Fatty J:
Ive broken both 😂


You broke both at 350 lbs? Either you were engaging in shenanigans to the highest degree, or you got some low-quality frames.
1 year

Can we geta rep system

FF Team:
We used to have a rep system based off site usage and account duration amongst other things. It was called the Karma score and we had little purple tear drops on the profiles indicating members use and interaction on the site which can give a good idea if someone is genuine or not.

At users request we removed this feature. But if there is enough demand, we can look at bringing this back.

Of course we do now have verification, this is a process where members submit a photo of themselves with a hand written sign to prove their identity. You can search for verified profiles, and you get a little blue badge / shield icon on your profile once completed.

A pinned post on how to spot scammers could be useful. I will look into this and see what we can come up with. Usually scammers are pretty obvious to spot but I don't want to give away too much info for scammers to change their behaviour which would then make it harder for us to locate them if they see the post.

Thank you for the suggestions.

c00kie
FF Team

LydiaFatOttter:
maybe not a full on rep system but more of a "proof you used this site a lot" thing

posting using chat etc makes it go up but it wont go down.

less of a your good person and more of a you using this site a lot

forms have like awards for x number of posts and replies and such and longer your there or more active you are higher it goes

this rank would also keep people inline as acting like dirt bag would risk of losing your accont.

but it will also show to people around here this person been here a lot. but not a metic of if they are nice person or not.

new account will be at behide to older accounts. but id they stick on the site they will grow in rank and be fine.

scamers and Ebeggers mostly be cut out tho since they be bannd and have start again.




either do this or have mods give out bagdes or mini nick names to show they are active and adding memeber


If you wanna know how often someone uses the site, go to their profile. It will tell you how active they tend to be. You can also check their activity to see all their site contributions.
1 year

Other intuitive eaters?

Morbidly A Beast:
how do you differentiate between gluttonous cravings for food and what your body wants/needs? Maybe I used to be able to differentiate them but I currently can’t I’m either starving or almost stuffed/stuffed

Munchies:
It's hard at first, but you can achieve it over time through self-reflection and research. I don't think about what I eat too much until I start craving things. For example, if I get a sudden craving for something deep-fried and crunchy or something sugary, I'm probably stressed about something. I usually want those foods because they make me feel good - at least until the sheer amount of grease and dough makes me feel bad later. But if I'm craving sushi or seaweed, I know that my iron, omega-3, and/or iodine levels are low.

Morbidly A Beast:
Interesting.

What would you say your body is telling you to an amount of food instead of a specific food I’ve been craving amounts recently like x ammount of burritos maybe it’s hard to read cause I’m actively going for it but it’s just super curious to me is all


Honestly, I just eat until I am no longer hungry. I don't enjoy having a stomach filled with food. It weighs me down, makes me sleepy, and I can't get comfy. A lot of people like that stuff around here, but there's a reason I'm a feeder and not a feedee.
1 year

Other intuitive eaters?

Morbidly A Beast:
how do you differentiate between gluttonous cravings for food and what your body wants/needs? Maybe I used to be able to differentiate them but I currently can’t I’m either starving or almost stuffed/stuffed


It's hard at first, but you can achieve it over time through self-reflection and research. I don't think about what I eat too much until I start craving things. For example, if I get a sudden craving for something deep-fried and crunchy or something sugary, I'm probably stressed about something. I usually want those foods because they make me feel good - at least until the sheer amount of grease and dough makes me feel bad later. But if I'm craving sushi or seaweed, I know that my iron, omega-3, and/or iodine levels are low.
1 year

My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in



Munchies:

I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.

He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.

Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...

Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?

Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.

Munchies:
It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.

Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.

And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.

You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.

It was great.

However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.

I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.

So, eventually, I had to walk away.

Biggerstudentbody:
Thank you for elaborating. Sorry you had to go through all that.


It is what it is. But stuff like this is why I am a huge proponent of balancing your health with enjoying this fetish. I see post after post on FF deifying kink at the expense of all else. People destroy their lives and encourage others to do the same all in the name of this fetish.

It's terrifying to see.

I know that most of these people are like this out of ignorance which is why I can't help but say something. You can enjoy this fetish - even the extreme parts of it. But you don't have to throw away your quality of life to do it. It's all about finding your balance.
1 year

Are metal bed frames better?

SSBBW Summer:
Currently have a Divan bed as I've always been told they're good for heavier people, they've been great over the years, made from wood. However, I've actually heard that a steel or metal frame would actually be better. I've seen some that holds thousands of pounds. Has anyone had one of these frames before? Better than wood?


When I was a little girl, I often stayed with my grandparents because my parents where often away for work. Everyone had a bed with a metal frame. They took a lot of abuse from rowdy kids playing, but they held up just fine.

When I got older and my parents could finally settle down, my mom got me a wooden frame. This frame went through similar abuse and broke within a few months. My mom switched to metal frames and there were no more problems.
1 year

Other intuitive eaters?

ForeverFFA:
I've been doing it for four years now and honestly it's one of the best things I've ever done for myself. The only downside is that it took a lot of wind out of the sails of my fantasies to realize that most people with healthy metabolisms won't endlessly gain weight by eating whatever they want. But it also gave me new respect for how hard a lot of gainers must have to work to achieve their results.

Morbidly A Beast:
Some people have to work really hard for others they gain weight just looking at a cheeseburger just so happens I am in the later category not the former I think it’s cause my metabolism is so out of wack from cutting weight for all those years


The irony of restrictive eating is that it you can end up fatter than you planned.

Of course, I'm not advocating for restrictive eating to gain weight. Why restrict your eating, risk health issues, and be miserable when you can just enough food and be happy?

It's a no brainer for me.
1 year

My dreams and desires have changed since i gave in



Munchies:

I had a feedee that was into extreme weight gain (like I am) and decided to get fat no matter the cost. Went from being a pretty chill guy to a man that pretty much worshipped the gains at all cost.

He was a pretty smart guy at first, but I noticed after he switched to a diet of heavy cream and fast foods, he got dumb real fast.

Biggerstudentbody:
I'm super curious to hear more about this...

Munchies:
What more is there to say than I already said?

Biggerstudentbody:
Just examples of what changed or what he did that led to a diagnosis of "getting dumb" I suppose. I can understand his physical abilities degrading as he put on weight but I suppose I don't understand his mental ones degrading so fast.


It makes perfect sense. You think and make decisions with your brain. Your brain is an organ that needs the proper nutrition to function. He wasn't getting that.

Remember, he was living off of heavy cream and fast food. These are not know for being bastions of nutritional wellbeing. On top of all that, too much fat in your diet can lead to nutritional malabsorption and too much sugar and/or salt causes brain fog.

And that's not even considering how he got addicted to rapid gaining. So he really wasn't making good decisions.

You might have noticed from my posts, but I'm a huge nerd. I like to learn, and I have a sizable repository of knowledge. My friends and family call me a walking encyclopedia. It was exciting when we first met because he could keep up with me mentally. We had a number of intellectually stimulating conversations.

It was great.

However, once he got hooked on rapid, intense gaining, it got harder and harder to hold a conversation with him about anything. The whit I'd admired was long gone, and I hated it. He also made a number of reckless decision that put him into precarious situations in his regular life.

I was scared for him. I tried to help him any way I could. I even tried to get him to eat better and go back to enjoying the things he used to enjoy. But nothing I did or said could get through to him.

So, eventually, I had to walk away.
1 year

Daily problem

Aset213:
So i've been tracking how much calories i eat on a daily for weeks now. I can safely say that im not even eating the average amount of calories (which by standards would be 2000).

Ive tried cream which has absolutely wrecked my stomach and i cant exactly make a shake either at the moment as i dont have a blender.

What should i do?

Casual Gainer:
Were you consuming the cream before or long after eating something else e.g. a meal?

I ask because when I consumed cream via ice cream milkshakes under these scenarios it went right through me.


I believe it. Heavy cream is a high-fat liquid filled with lactose. If you guzzle it down without eating anything else, your basically consuming a harsh laxative.
1 year