Morbidly A Beast:
Once a glutton always a glutton takes a lot of work to get out of those habits.

J8o8h8n:
Honestly, it's kind of exciting that the initial intentional stuffings are sometimes turning into genuine cravings and it feels so good to give in and satisfy the cravings. Honestly a part of me is still slightly worried about gaining and not being able to stop, but I find myself worrying less and less about it and I've even had the thought to keep gaining after the 30 day challenge is over and continue to satisfy my cravings and expand them until my next doctor's appointment in November 😅

Finish8000:
I can absolutely understand that. I have a medical background and at least can observe the do's and don'ts. But then again, there's nothing that beats experience, and you've got that in spades, making you a great go-to for information about feedism.

Munchies:
Why thank you.

There was a withdrawal aspect to it. Some of it was due to his stomach needing time to shrink up a bit. But a big part of it was withdrawls.

Plus, if you get a good feeder, it makes the experience a thousand times better. He says he prefers it when I stuff him compared to when he stuffs himself.

Finish8000:
So what do you recommend when starting a feedee's gain? Usually, I'd think going towards grazing, increasing their capacity and calorie intake over time before going towards anything more extensive like heavy cream.

Munchies:
First and foremost, I think every feedist (especially feeders) needs to have a basic understanding of biology. You don't need to be an expert, but you should have a working knowledge of it. I've spoken to a lot of people on this site that have some ... interesting ideas on how the body works. And this ignorance leads to people getting hurt.

But to the actual gaining, slow and steady is best. As sexy as rapid gains are, they are not sustainable. If you do rapid gains, it's best to do them in short spurts with long stretches of downtime. Also, make sure not to skip doctor's appointments. It's best to monitor your health when you gain. And don't live off of heavy cream, fast food, and junk food. You need some healthy food in there too so you can function.

Don't be afraid to exercise. You need it to function.

Tentacles:
Are people perhaps fantasizing more than genuinely believing it?

Munchies:
Why thank you.

There was a withdrawal aspect to it. Some of it was due to his stomach needing time to shrink up a bit. But a big part of it was withdrawls.

Plus, if you get a good feeder, it makes the experience a thousand times better. He says he prefers it when I stuff him compared to when he stuffs himself.

Finish8000:
So what do you recommend when starting a feedee's gain? Usually, I'd think going towards grazing, increasing their capacity and calorie intake over time before going towards anything more extensive like heavy cream.

MVP76:
I feel this as someone who has suffered from food addiction and binge eating disorder. It's incredibly hard to stop and I did try over eaters anonymous, etc. Ultimately, I was forced to make changes due to health issues.

Elis137:
I finally started gaining again thanks to my feeder boyfriend lol. I have gained five pounds so far and I haven't seen any changes. What should I expect in the future (he wants to make me huge like 200lbs)? We are currently doing long-distance until the fall and when we see each other again he is going to be stuffing me nonstop and funnel-feeding me. How quickly will the weight even pile on?

Munchies:
Sounds like fun times and lots of pounds are in your future.

A word of caution. There's a model named Mochiibabii (or Mochiifeedii on some sites). She did something similar to what you want to do with the nonstop stuffing and funnel-feeding. The food bill was insanely expensive (tens of thousands of dollars funded by her viewers, thankfully) and got fat faster than her body could cope.

I don't think she's mad about it, but she started getting out of breath just from sitting up among other things.


Also, as a feeder that has done all day stuffings for extended periods of time with my feedee (longest is a month) it is really hard to stop once you get started. I carefully had him transition back to normal eating, but that took several weeks. He had strong cravings to be completely stuffed, and if I wasn't his domme, he'd go back to stuffing his face.

Finish8000:
I mean, I've heard of people feeling hungrier as they grow bigger, but can someone become I guess "addicted" to constant stuffing?

Munchies:
You can get addicted to literally anything. Not only that but it's super common to be addicted to over eating - even outside of kink. They have support groups and everything.

Finish8000:
Hence why you've had to wean your feedee off of that stuffing period. It became his high and you had to get through his withdrawal period. I figured it best to ask since I've seen your posts around and you're undoubtedly an expert.

Sl2010:
My family is mostly pretty fatphobic and annoyingly direct. Very few filters. They’re well meaning, not exactly toxic, but it rarely makes me feel good about my weight. I don’t get much (I.e., any) positive reinforcement irl

Munchies:
If your family is doing that, then you need to set boundaries with them. Even if they are well-meaning, there's no need to demean you.

That said, it is a good idea to take care of your health while you gain. Make sure you are getting all the nutrition you need, stay moderately active, and don't skip checkups and appointments because you're afraid of being told to lose weight.

Sl2010:
I have set boundaries. They don’t say fatphobic things around me any more. They don’t comment on what I eat or how much I’ve gained either. But lack of saying is still lack of positive reinforcement. It’s why I’m here

Greekburger:
Fuck you ***

Munchies:
Hey, man. This isn't a good look for you. Don't do that here because that will get you in trouble with the mod team.

HungryPiggyBoy:
Bro literally just lives on this site, has an opinion on everything 😂

Sl2010:
My family is mostly pretty fatphobic and annoyingly direct. Very few filters. They’re well meaning, not exactly toxic, but it rarely makes me feel good about my weight. I don’t get much (I.e., any) positive reinforcement irl