Fantasy Feeder

What to expect when gaining?

Elis137:
I finally started gaining again thanks to my feeder boyfriend lol. I have gained five pounds so far and I haven't seen any changes. What should I expect in the future (he wants to make me huge like 200lbs)? We are currently doing long-distance until the fall and when we see each other again he is going to be stuffing me nonstop and funnel-feeding me. How quickly will the weight even pile on?

Sounds like fun times and lots of pounds are in your future.

A word of caution. There's a model named Mochiibabii (or Mochiifeedii on some sites). She did something similar to what you want to do with the nonstop stuffing and funnel-feeding. The food bill was insanely expensive (tens of thousands of dollars funded by her viewers, thankfully) and got fat faster than her body could cope.

I don't think she's mad about it, but she started getting out of breath just from sitting up among other things.

Also, as a feeder that has done all day stuffings for extended periods of time with my feedee (longest is a month) it is really hard to stop once you get started. I carefully had him transition back to normal eating, but that took several weeks. He had strong cravings to be completely stuffed, and if I wasn't his domme, he'd go back to stuffing his face.

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Pants and shirts sizes are getting bigger

Falcor:
Did anyone notice that pants and shirts sizes are getting bigger, or is it just me?

For the fast few years I am pretty fit and maintain the same size and weight (that’s what my partner likes and I don’t mind)
So the first time I got suspicious was a few years ago when I got a new pair of jeans size 44 like I always do, just to find out that they are too big for me, so I changed them to a 42. Just out of curiosity I compared them to an old 44 pair I had, to find out that they are the same size!

The really strange thing occurred a few days ago when my partner showed me her new pair of short jeans she got (size 40), when I noticed that they look pretty big (🙂) so the other day when she wasn’t home I had to compare their size, to find out that they are the same size of my old 44/ relatively new 42 jeans!
(All pants are manufactured by the same company)

Did anyone else encountered such a change over the years?

I hadn't noticed, but women's clothing sizes are the devil anyway.

I'm curvy, so pants never fit quite right, but the ones that fit the best generally are US size 12s. But even then, not all pants fit the same based on the cut, the brand, and (sometimes) which employee sewed them together. I've owned a pair of size 2s that fit me when I was a size 6 and a pair of size 12s that fit me when I was a size 10.

And that's not even touching the topic of vanity sizing.

It is possible that the manufacturer makes clothes that run large. But, to be sure, you could try on a similar fit of pants from different brands and see how they fit.

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Best and worst things about being fat/getting fat

The Ultimate 1992:
The best thing about being fat for me is the journey that I had to go through to get to this weight, it's the raw determination, the Gorilla eating, the being lazy and everything in-between that binds me to the gaining world.

I love how confident and empowered I feel when hitting the target and seeing the numbers go up on the scales.

During my high school days I was a tiny 105 pounds in 2006 and had 4 bully's and I hated being skinny and I hated how I looked, I longed to be big and sexy and above all confident enough to knock those bully's to the next dimension, and when I got to 200 pounds I did just that!

In 2007 I changed schools for better education and better teachers and the students their were nicer and yes the grass was greener on the other side for me and many students liked fat boy's and girl's so life was good.

In 2008 my father disowned me for being fat as it was damaging his reputation, and for 4-5 months he tried to force me and my brother to lose weight by forcing us to walk in the forest for 4 hours and he would hit us if we didn't keep up with him, so one day in febuary I straight up refused to be made to exercise and I was thrown out, but too be honest he's wanted to disown me since I was 5 because I have Autism and look nothing like him (his words) so he had the perfect reason too do just that and life was better at my mothers house.

Their has being times when my Mother and Nan have said "why don't you go to the gym to lose weight?" and "why don't you diet like we are" (in a nice way of course) and I'd say "I don't need to lose weight and I'm happy this way and don't feel the need to change.

Sometimes people thought I was getting fatter on purpose to spite my Father and his family and everyone who didn't like fat people which is not completely untrue but I do feel very sexy being fat and don't really know when gaining will stop

Damn. I'm sorry you went through that. I'm glad you are in a better place now.

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"hidradenitis suppurativa "

Cafe Racer:
"hidradenitis suppurativa "

My Feedee gets these bumps similar to a Staph infection near her armpits and side boob roll.

Anyone have any solutions?
Been using Apple Cider Vinger & zeasorb for about a week. The bumps have reduced in size.

Honestly, I'd see a dermatologist.

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Big bellies a sign of power?

Munchies:
The thing is, nothing is inherently dominant or submissive. It all comes down to how you frame things. Even being muscular isn't inherently dominant (e.g. servants).

Tentacles:
Being seen as a sign of power is also not always the same as being viewed positively. Satirical cartoons are a good example of this.

I was talking in the context of kink. In this specific situation, I'd assume everything is safe, sane, and consensual instead of being in an abusive situation.

If we are talking about outside of kinks and fetishes, there's a laundry list of example of people in all shapes and sizes abusing their authority or not being well liked.

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Big bellies a sign of power?

The thing is, nothing is inherently dominant or submissive. It all comes down to how you frame things. Even being muscular isn't inherently dominant (e.g. servants).

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Fat sororities

Bellyempire:
Stumbled across some information about a fat/plus sized sorority.

www.kappadeltathetasorority.org/

Turns out there have been a couple of others with varying degrees of recent activity.

www.kappadeltathetasorority.org/

www.kappadeltathetasorority.org/

www.kappadeltathetasorority.org/

What do you think of these? Does anyone have any experience with them? Do you know of others? Do you think a fraternity or sorority for feederism and fat admiration work?

I think it's great that there are plus-sized sororities. It's good that these women have their safe spaces. That being said, I think it's a bad idea to have a fetish-based sorority. The moment you make things sex-based, things get really messy really fast.

It doesn't matter what the fetish is. It will end poorly for everything - and probably turn into a brothel with the members being abused and trafficked.

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Exercise

Daddysfeeder15:
Give in, give up. Don’t exercise just be a fatty

I never fully understood this style of encouragement. Personally, I feel like getting fat should be a source of pleasure. This feels more like saying "You're fat because you don't have what it takes to be thin."

Not bashing people who are into this kind of degradation, but it feels weird springing it on a stranger who didn't consent to it.

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Exercise

Gainerfeedee:
So I know I've been having health issues related to my weight/diet/lifestyle, and decided to start light exercising again to mitigate my extremely sedentary lifestyle atm.

I'm looking for something like a treadmill or maybe a stationary bike for my apartment. I still want to keep gaining, so I'd like one that goes up to at least 400 lbs, preferably more but above that you get really expensive afaik.

Does anyone have any product recommendations?

Please don't comment that there are alternatives like gym memberships, walking/biking for free, light exercises to do without equipment. I do know that and I'm looking for something because I don't want to leave my apartment, I want something that will remind and motivate me to use it daily, among other reasons.

Take a look into resistance bands. They are cheap, easy to store and move, and you can do a lot of different exercises with the same bands. I like to use them when I am at my desk at work.

I'd also look into getting a no-frills fitness watch. I use this one:
www.fitbit.com/global/us/products/trackers/inspire2

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Friends and families

Zibtronians:
Hey do any of you guys have any family members or friends who you might suspect of being a feedee or a feeder

Not gonna lie. I don't even want to think about my family members in any sexual capacity - not even vanilla sex.

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