FatDave:
For me it would be sex. I love junk food waaay too much to ever give it up.

Mooidik:
I had to go to the doctor today for my stomach and ribs, he said I had to lose weight because I have problems because I'm too fat, I don't think I'm too fat yet.. how do you do that? I immediately went to eat a pack of cookies!..

Munchies:
I wanna know the root cause of your issues. Was the only diagnosis "you're too fat"? Because that's a piss poor reason. A lot of overweight and obese people do not get the medical care they actually need because too many doctors only focus on their size. Often times, the problem isn't their fatness, but something unrelated.

Fran104:
I completely agree

Mooidik:
I have stomach problems (heartburn) and my ribs hurt. he says it's because i'm fat (but i don't think i'm fat yet!)

Mooidik:
I had to go to the doctor today for my stomach and ribs, he said I had to lose weight because I have problems because I'm too fat, I don't think I'm too fat yet.. how do you do that? I immediately went to eat a pack of cookies!..

Fattyfurrygirlxx:
id say im an 8

Norris1234569:
dang girl only nine or ten and you should be bedridden most of the day

Fattyfurrygirlxx:
im already in the bed most of the day 😅

Norris1234569:
well at least your a 9
Like my identical girls who are deaf and cerebral palsy and they are blind and wheelchair bound 12 hours all day and bedridden 12 hours all night so they are disabled as well as me but when you look at me you can't tell I am disabled but I'm disabled with ASD MILD autism spectrum disorder mild and a used to be the girls teacher until the parents got the death row charged guilty with 4 count's of third degree felony child abuse and I won the case fair and square and got the kids into my custody and they love me like a father that they never knew they have which would be their own teacher

Bellyempire:
Who are some good fat activist and scholars. Preferably and feminist and please include some BIPOC.

BlackjackandBerries:
I shouldn't even say "distancing" myself from it, still very much always going to be into plus size women. Just distancing as in I no longer wish to gain. I know this is ok, but feels touchy to talk about here.

Wondering if anyone else can relate and what your end result ended up being. Did you continue to gain or did you stop and scale back never to return again? Or is it a yo-yo thing?

Has anyone else here started off as an athletic feeder but fell into the feedee/feeder category and gained weight?

I did, and I'm in the beginning stages of losing most of it for multiple reasons. Mainly to "start over".

I personally feel bad that I'm letting down hundreds of people that encouraged me to gain over the last 3 years, but this is where I have to distance myself. I felt better when I was smaller so I am making myself smaller again.

Just a personal vent. I probably won't succeed in shedding weight, which I'm also prepared to live with.

FatDave:
One thing I've been wanting to do more of lately is eat in bed.

The only concern I have is the possibility of crumbs and food falling onto my sheets. For now I've been doing snacking but ideally I'd like to enjoy full meals in bed.

Any tips on how to pull this off in a clean way?

Mooidik:
do you have recipes for make your own shakes? high in calories

DollyXXDimples:
Nope.