Fantasy Feeder

Crossing from feeder to gainer

Justinboo0313:
It’s not like we can turn off our kink. It just finds another outlet. And right now I’m the only option!

Behold your future, big boy:

Have fun ~

2 years

Munchies

Crossing from feeder to gainer

Justinboo0313:
I’m on the verge of jumping to the other side. I have no one to feed, so I’m thinking about possibly feeding myself. I’m wondering if anyone has experience in this?

It's a whole pipeline. It usually happens one of two ways:

A feeder has no one to feed so they feed themselves.

A feeder has a feedee, and their gluttonous habits start to rub off.

2 years

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Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Morbidly A Beast:
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined

Munchies:
This is true. Fat is demonized, and a lot of people think that fat shaming is "helping". I've heard a number of people say something like "Fat shaming is the only bullying that helps people." Feedism cannot and will not be accepted by the mainstream until we deal with fatphobia first.

Morbidly A Beast:
Yup so true. It’s the “Last bastion of acceptable bigotry” someone phrased it as.

2seatsalways:
I don't think I could roll my eyes any harder or I'd go crosseye. Wow...
Yet I keep seeing preaching of tolerance yet not for this

It's so dumb. Even if everything they believed about being fat is true (which is it not), I haven't met a single person who changed for the better because they were bullied into submission.

2 years

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Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Morbidly A Beast:
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined

This is true. Fat is demonized, and a lot of people think that fat shaming is "helping". I've heard a number of people say something like "Fat shaming is the only bullying that helps people." Feedism cannot and will not be accepted by the mainstream until we deal with fatphobia first.

2 years

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Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Rachhole:
I actually listened to all 2 hours of the pod because I'm aware they used that clip go draw people in so I was gonna see how taken out of context it was.

I think that she has every right to speak out about any trauma that was done to her and call out her abusers. And there are a handful of toxic people in the community but I feel that over all the pod was a trauma dump, but also she really demonized the community as a whole.

Like any kink it's consensual, at any point she could have said it wasn't for her. More to the point death feedism is only one thing under the umbrella, not everyone shares that or wishes for it, so putting it out that way makes it seem like that's the meat and potatos of feedism, which it's not.

I get what you are saying, but is that really on her? Because, from where I sit, that's on the podcast owners.

Sure, we know that feedism isn't inherently good or bad. But if someone was severely hurt by the community, can we reasonably expect them to have a more nuanced, empathetic view? It would be nice if they did, but I don't think most people are like that.

Instead, I think it's on the podcast's owners to do their due diligence and present a more balanced take. They could have had anyone on the podcast, but they chose someone who is not active in the community or identifies as a feedist. They could have very easily found someone, but they didn't.

2 years

Munchies

Rise of feedism conversations om social media

I wanted to revisit something I neglected to discuss last night. You had said the following:

The other biggest issues I’ve seen recently is the influx of people ,sadly mostly women, faking being feedees to try and get money out of people online. On the other end I’ve had about five people reach out since I started posting again and remade my tumblr. That were scammers trying to offer money to support me but the catch is I had to pay a fee to show loyalty. I personally am not gonna accept money from someone I don’t know or haven’t interacted with for a while. I’m looking for friends and connections not handouts.

Yes, there are women who pretend to be feedees and scam mostly men. There are also actual female feedees that do the same. However, they are not all women. I wouldn't be shocked if they weren't mostly women.

A lot of the feedee scammers here are also catfish. Some are even part of a scammer network. They'll steal photos of models and other women to sell their legitimacy with varying degrees of success. It's a whole thing.

Another thing to remember is that, as the mainstream discovers feedism, people who aren't into it come looking for people to abuse. There's this idea that fat people are easy to use and abuse because they have cripplingly low self-esteem.

I've seen people of all genders do this, but it's mostly been men. The community calls them trolls, but I feel that does a disservice to the harm they do.

I've even had to deal with them. Since my username is "Munchies" a lot of people think that I am a plus-sized pothead feedee. So, from time to time, I'll get messages from new users that verbally abuse me for "letting myself go". When I press them for a reason, they always say "You fatties are gross. I'm just doing you a favor."

I've noticed they tend to go after women, but other genders (including men) aren't safe.

2 years

Munchies

Rise of feedism conversations om social media

AuraBlaize:
I saw it on twitter

x.com/himbochub/status/1701289289324077462

Munchies:
Ty ty

Having watched the clip, I have to agree with you. She isn't bashing feedism. She's just talking about her trauma.

Plus, I am not sure where Bathisum is seeing her faking things. Yes, she's calm. But you can tell she's sti emotional about things.

Bathisum:
Damn I’m gonna have to see if I can find the one I saw it was longer and she talked a little more after that like I said I just got a bad gut feeling. But it’s not always right I really hope she’s not doing it for fame and is just telling her story and healing.

Have you considered a secret third thing? Maybe she's coping with her trauma, and the podcast uses her for views? That tends to be how things go more often than not.

The issue I'm having is that you are saying a trauma victim is not authentic without showing proof. People can say they went through something horrible and lie about it. Sadly, it happens. That said, most people who talk about their trauma are being truthful at great emotional cost to themselves. So when you say "I don't think she's being honest about her trauma" or "She's just talking about this for personal benefit" it comes off as trauma policing. And that's not good.

I also want to point out that being a model or sex worker does not negate her experiences.

2 years

Munchies

Belly button tingling

BigBallBellyGirl:
I've been gaining very quickly for the past for or five months. I have a heavy belly anyway, but when I've had several mega-stuffings a few days in a row, I need constant lotion to do with itchy skin as I grow. Lately, when very overfull, I've started to feel like even the fat on my midsection is stretched tight, and then I get that tingling sensation.i don't think there's any chance it will pop out; it's about two and a half to three inches deep. But it definitely stretches wider when I'm extra bloated.

I do know a feeder who helped a feedee gain a massive amount of weight with shakes and funneling daily. While I didn't see it, he says her belly button became more shallow instead of deeper. He says eventually, an hour after a pitcher and a half of cake shake, her belly button bulged out. I think it remained an outie as she kept growing.

HappyBigBelly:
Quite common in ladies with large, hanging bellies. My other half’s belly button has become large in recent years but more shallow. The inner part is being pushed closer to the surface she she’s become fatter.

She might have a good deal of visceral fat.

2 years

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Rise of feedism conversations om social media

AuraBlaize:
I saw it on twitter

x.com/himbochub/status/1701289289324077462

Ty ty

Having watched the clip, I have to agree with you. She isn't bashing feedism. She's just talking about her trauma.

Plus, I am not sure where Bathisum is seeing her faking things. Yes, she's calm. But you can tell she's sti emotional about things.

2 years

Munchies

Rise of feedism conversations om social media

Bathisum:
Yeah I just saw a thing on TikTok that’s was an interview with a rather large lady complaining about how she was abused by a death feeder. Which is definitely the most extreme side of this kink. The only problem I have with it is I’m almost certain she was a fetish model for a good while talking about being a death feedee. I don’t like to dismiss people when they say they were abused since a lot of people never have the courage to speak up. But… this woman did not seem at all upset or even hesitant about speaking about her previous feeder. I’m not saying she hasn’t gone through some healing but I’ve seen way to many and actually know and talked with too many people who have been abused severely and she did not at all seem like she was genuine. It really came off so much like she was just looking for more fame and followers. Maybe even sympathy and I’m sad to say probably money from it. I genuinely hope that I am reading it wrong and she has got some healing and is choosing to speak out but I personally got a bad feeling from her.

The other biggest issues I’ve seen recently is the influx of people ,sadly mostly women, faking being feedees to try and get money out of people online. On the other end I’ve had about five people reach out since I started posting again and remade my tumblr. That were scammers trying to offer money to support me but the catch is I had to pay a fee to show loyalty. I personally am not gonna accept money from someone I don’t know or haven’t interacted with for a while. I’m looking for friends and connections not handouts.

It just seems that feedism has become more popular but also more hated on because of bad people in the fringes. Or gotten the wrong kind of attention from people simply wanting to use others.

Munchies:
You don't know what she has and has not gone through. And you don't know how much she's healed.

I've been through abuse. There are some things I cannot talk about. Some things I can, but I'm visibly upset. Others I can talk about as if I was talking about the weather.

That said, most issues with feedism are not about death feedists. They tend to keep a low profile because the know they are a fringe subsection of a taboo fetish. Instead, the biggest offenders tend to be feeders with tamer interests that have no respect for others. There is a reason why fat positive activists don't like us.

As for the scammers, someone figured out how profitable feedism can be. However, that's not a feedism-specific issue. They are in every kink community. It is what it is.

AuraBlaize:
Yeah, she's been through A LOT. And honestly, from the clip I've seen, she's just talking about her own experience. Nowhere has she said that every feeder is like that. Her stance has generally been "If you like it, fine, but it's not for me."

Do you have the clip on hand? I haven't seen it and I am curious.

2 years

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