Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

Miachu:
I ended up ghosting all my friends for like 2 days, I honestly felt so down and embarrassed over it, and what made it worse is my BF say it

However I've spoke to some of my friends about it now


Oof. Well, if they are quality friends, they will still love and respect you.
1 year

Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

BlackjackandBerries:
I'd die. I mean I'm already worried because my best friend may have snooped through my phone while I was asleep. I've accidentally had this website open on my phone tab while playing quipplash because the jack box website swapped out of my tab to a tab of fantasy feeder I forgot to close... it was long enough to where she saw it. Basically I am terrified of people knowing. Idk how you cope.


Girl, why your friend be snooping through your stuff? Das weird. Fetish aside.
1 year

Outed myself as a fat fetishist ama

YumNom:
How did it happen?

Miachu:
I accidentally shared some fat related art in my group chat of friends, during a live discussion about the Super Mario movie




How'd it go?

I have some friends outside of this kink that know I'm a feeder, but it's not something we talk about very much. Kinda hard to naturally bring it up in conversation when you're the only one that's into it.
1 year

Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
Anything you do to get more calories in will cost money, cream is the cheapest option for the most calories by far. I don't understand how anything I've said could be construed as unhelpful

Munchies:
I want to be clear. I have no issues with you recommending heavy cream to OP. Even better if it works for you. My one and only issue is that you stated that since OP was worried about the cost, they weren't actually interested in seeking advice on gaining.

Milkshakeandfries:
I kind of assumed that anyone asking advice about how to consume more calories understood that consuming more calories is going to be more expensive than consuming less calories. Also when I was a member of the site years ago, it seemed full of people who just wanted to talk about it, not actually do it, so I'm just trying to understand why if someone is earnestly seeking advice, they'd flatly reject the most economical as being too expensive. My apologies.


Considering your life experience, I can understand how you might come to that conclusion. I would say that, in the future, maybe don't make any kind of accusation unless OP posts more details.

You gotta remember that everyone has different life situations. What might be doable for one person may not be doable for another. And if you were right that OP is a poser, there's no need to stress about it either. Not unless you are doing the funding of course. 😋
1 year

Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
Anything you do to get more calories in will cost money, cream is the cheapest option for the most calories by far. I don't understand how anything I've said could be construed as unhelpful


I want to be clear. I have no issues with you recommending heavy cream to OP. Even better if it works for you. My one and only issue is that you stated that since OP was worried about the cost, they weren't actually interested in seeking advice on gaining.
1 year

Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
A carton is only like $3

Bigger Cheese:
$3 every day, that might be a bit much long term. Especially since I use heavy cream for other things.

Milkshakeandfries:
Nothing will get you extra calories without costing some money. This is by far the most cost efficient source of calories. If you're not interested in drinking it, that's fine, but if it's too expensive than anything suggested here is going to be too expensive. Calories come from food. Food costs money. Cream is $3. You can get 1200-1400 calories of cream or about 800-900 calories in value menu fast food for about the same price. You don't have to drink a carton a day, have 4 cartons a week for 3 weeks, that should make you gain a couple pounds and cost $36. That's the price of getting Five Guys twice. Are you actually trying to get advice on packing in more calories?

Munchies:
Hun, this not helpful advise. I am glad that you are fiscally secure, but not everyone is. You need to meet people where they are. There is no reason to shame OP.

Milkshakeandfries:
I'm not fiscally secure! I'm extremely poor. That's part of why I chose to try using cream to gain. It's much, much cheaper than any other option I could figure out to increase calories.


I am not sure if you realize it, but saying things like "Are you actually trying to get advice on packing in more calories?" is shaming. Particularly because all OP said was that they are concerned about the cost.

If you are also extremely poor, you should also know that you gotta make choices about what you can and cannot spend money on. If OP says they cannot afford to do it, then they cannot afford to do it. That doesn't make their desire to do it any less.
1 year

Any tips on getting in some extra calories?

Milkshakeandfries:
A carton is only like $3

Bigger Cheese:
$3 every day, that might be a bit much long term. Especially since I use heavy cream for other things.

Milkshakeandfries:
Nothing will get you extra calories without costing some money. This is by far the most cost efficient source of calories. If you're not interested in drinking it, that's fine, but if it's too expensive than anything suggested here is going to be too expensive. Calories come from food. Food costs money. Cream is $3. You can get 1200-1400 calories of cream or about 800-900 calories in value menu fast food for about the same price. You don't have to drink a carton a day, have 4 cartons a week for 3 weeks, that should make you gain a couple pounds and cost $36. That's the price of getting Five Guys twice. Are you actually trying to get advice on packing in more calories?


Hun, this not helpful advise. I am glad that you are fiscally secure, but not everyone is. You need to meet people where they are. There is no reason to shame OP.
1 year

Gaining as a feeder

Expatbhm:
I can’t wait to see this thread in a year’s time. I think you’re right on the verge of enjoying the weight gain. If you’re meant to be skinny, you’ll turn it around, but I think you would have done that already.

Angy523:
I think it's to late for that. Even if I want to, it's too much weight to lose and it will make me quit easier.


It really isn't. People bigger than you have lost tons of weight before.

The truth is that you enjoy being lazy and greedy with your boyfriend. It too much fun, and I bet the way he treats your gains turns you on far too much to stop.
1 year

How to cut healthy food from my diet?

Doublefrosted:
I recommend finding some way to make sure you're consuming fibre daily, otherwise you're going to get backed up a lot and it will not be pleasant. I doubt you want to rely on laxatives to keep you regular.


Not particularly lol. I'll look into a fiber supplement.

FatDave:
In 2023 I want to get a little more serious about doing a junk food and fast food only diet. With that in mind I'm working to cut out as many vegetables and low-sugar fruit as I can.

Overall I'm looking to have an unhealthy diet. The less health foods the better.

That said I'm not looking to become nutritionally deficient. I figured a multivitamin or something should be sufficient to get me what I need, but I'm open to other suggestions.

Munchies:
A junkfood and fast food only diet is going to mess up your internals big time. So much so that you will not be able to gain as much weight as you would like to gain. It's best to have a good mix of healthy and unhealthy food. Not to mention the cost of it all in this economy.

Remember, love. You're an American. You do not have access to free healthcare. Idk if you have good insurance or not, but I can promise you it's still crazy expensive with insurance.


Part of the thrill for me is having an unhealthy diet. But I hear what you're saying. I'm curious how you think I wouldn't gain as much weight though?

Lispoiledprincess:
You need those things, but you can spice them up. You don't need to eat veggies plain. You could have broc covered in cheese, have sweet potatoes with marshmallows...strawberries with sugar.. stuff like that.

FatDave:
Good point. Covering healthy food in fattening toppings. Will try this smiley


Health issues, my good sir. Health issues. I do understand that when it comes to weight gain, some level of health issues should be accepted. I also understand that everyone has their own level of harm/risk they are willing to accept.

However, a junk food and fast food only diet strips away your ability to manage that risk by speeding up the rate you experience those risks. Some examples include:

Diabetes (sugar consumption)
High blood pressure (salt consumption )
High cholesterol (high fat content)
Increased risk of heart attack (due to the high blood pressure and cholesterol)
Osteoperosis (soda can leech calcium from your bones)
Tooth decay (sugar and acidic foods like soda)
Elevated risk of cancer (low nutrional quality of food can raise your risk of colorectal, respiratory, and stomach cancer)

The list goes on.

Sources:
www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/ (cancer)

www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/,causes%20tooth%20decay%20and%20cavities. (tooth decay)

www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/ (osteoperosis)

www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/ (high cholesterol)

www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/ (high blood pressure)

www.wcrf.org/diet-activity-and-cancer/cancer-prevention-recommendations/limit-fast-foods/ (diabetes)
1 year

Feeling ugly

Dmal202121:
I think I'm gonna try and lose some weight as I am starting to feel ugly and unattractive, I felt like this when I was skinny but starting to feel ugly and unattractive again now so I am contemplating some weight loss, what do you guys think


If you want to lose weight, I support you 100%. But I would recommend exploring why you feel that way.
1 year