Why are fa's so closeted?

2seatsalways:
Any FA or FFA that is closeted deserve 0% respect. If you are that concern what others think of you being with a bigger girl, f off.

Raboot The Admirer:
I don't like this take. It's not that easy for everyone to just don't care about other people's opinion.
It can be hard for many to stop hiding their attraction to bodytypes so generally criticized. As long as the person is not hypocritically throwing comments about how fat people suck to mask their true feelings, I have empathy for a "closeted" FA.

2seatsalways:
This has plagued not just our community but also helped set a negative mind set for many people. I stand by this. "Empathy" should be for people who have a date lined up but plans get changed to staying in doors. Why? Because their date secretly doesn't want to be seen out with them!
Those people deserve empathy not closeted fas.


I agree. It's one thing not to be public about your fetishes. That's your own business. But if you are so small minded that you can't treat your partner with the respect they deserve, then you are trash and shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone.

Fat people are people that happen to be fat. If you are too ashamed, then you are the problem.
1 year

How do get a mid-way pot belly?

Jackds:
Hi there!

I want to have a huge pot belly which is somewhat squishy. Does anyone have any diet recommendations?


Don't have a lot of control over that. Hard pot bellies are a sign of visceral fat (fat around the organs) and squishy bellies are a sign of subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin). Everyone has some ratio of these types of fat naturally, but your control over what kind of fat you gain is limited. And it gets trickier when you are trying to get the specific mixture you're trying to get.

The way you gain is influenced by your diet, but your hormones and genetics makes a stronger impact. That said, if you get fat enough, you'll probably have some level of squish - even it it's a belly hang.
1 year

Favorite sushi?

Ilikesushi:
I just can't get sushi off the brain. What's your guy's favorite kind of sushi? Have any specific roll you like?


Spicy salmon maki roll with ginger sauce
1 year

The fattening game

2seatsalways:
Fit to Fat to Fit was so degrading. Like these trainers obviously wanted that dramatic shock value too. Lived it up for television by mocking their clients.

Think only a fattening game could work as an independent game. Mainstream companies won't take that on. We kind of got this with Fat Princess... 😳


The fatphobia was so strong. And then there were the trainers that, after going through all of that, just doubled down on their fatphobia. They were all "Well, if I can do it after being fat for a few months, you can lose weight you baby."

Weight gain games are always a weird spot for me. I've played a number of them over the years. A lot of misogyny in most titles. But some of them were pretty good.
1 year

The fattening game

Peldanique:
I'm sure I will see it on tv. No medical selection before the program.

Not the biggest loser with personal trainers an diëtist but become fattest with feeders to help you grow as much. Great idea. Try Netflix 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Think the won't do but you never know. If they can earn money the do everything

Munchies:
No TV exec worth their salt will forgo something so important. It would be the stupidest thing they can do.

People have food allergies, diabetes, high blood pressure, auto-immune disorders, or a number of other things the show would have to keep in mind. And if they aren't disqualified, they'd have to at least make reasonable accommodations.

For example, if someone has a peanut allergy, the show would make sure they don't come into contact with such an allergy. If that person has seizures, then they would have to make sure that person has access to care and minimize their exposure to triggers.

If someone dies in their care because they couldn't be bothered to do basic due diligence, they would get sued into oblivion and/or no one would work with them again. And you have the added issue of further demonizing our fetish in the mainstream.

Morbidly A Beast:
The fit to fat to fit show seemed to go on without hitch I wonder how many wavers the participants had to sign…


That show made me so mad. The way they handled everything left a bad taste in my mouth. And follow-ups show the trainers were really messed up after everything health wise.
1 year

The fattening game

Peldanique:
I'm sure I will see it on tv. No medical selection before the program.

Not the biggest loser with personal trainers an diëtist but become fattest with feeders to help you grow as much. Great idea. Try Netflix 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Think the won't do but you never know. If they can earn money the do everything


No TV exec worth their salt will forgo something so important. It would be the stupidest thing they can do.

People have food allergies, diabetes, high blood pressure, auto-immune disorders, or a number of other things the show would have to keep in mind. And if they aren't disqualified, they'd have to at least make reasonable accommodations.

For example, if someone has a peanut allergy, the show would make sure they don't come into contact with such an allergy. If that person has seizures, then they would have to make sure that person has access to care and minimize their exposure to triggers.

If someone dies in their care because they couldn't be bothered to do basic due diligence, they would get sued into oblivion and/or no one would work with them again. And you have the added issue of further demonizing our fetish in the mainstream.
1 year

The fattening game

Munchies:
Not sure that will work for island survival as one tends to lose weight in those situations.

Fatrnfatr:
Overall, a dessert island has little in common with a desert island.


1 year

The fattening game

RadiactiveChocoMilk:
Can you imagine an event where several skinny people are released on an island where they will have to survive, there will be several things for them to survive but these will slowly fatten them up, in addition to several chubby people who will encourage the contestants to digest things that will make them fat, the last one in pie earns a lot of money


Not sure that will work for island survival as one tends to lose weight in those situations. But I recall stumbling upon a reality TV show called The Fattening Room.

I have mixed feelings about the show's existence.
1 year

Think it's possible to grow a feedism yt channel to 1m subs?

Ex Jock:
Is 1M what you need to monetize or just a nice round (heh) milestone? Also what sort of content, gaining journey or more of informative, discussion, fireside chat, etc? I wish you luck, as it would cool to have anything remotely mainstream, but I’m guessing like Munchies said you will fly under the radar for awhile, but if it really takes off you are bound to get trolls and tons of negative attention. Good luck, I’m interested in seeing what you post.

Just one request, please don’t sell out to the cringey click-bait thumbnail faces lol.

MrCupeKe:
The idea was that I would play Minecraft for example, and maybe everytime I die I would chug a soda, or everytime I say a specific word I have to eat half a burger. I would show results at the end, but I feel like this would appeal to more than feedism audiences. And also if a clickbait thumbnail will get me tons of views and attract more people, I’ll do it. If it gets views I don’t mind it being cringey as long as it doesn’t lie and deceive the audience.
And if YouTube hates this, then food competitions should be banned too



Careful with that mentality lest you become the next Nikocado Avocado.
1 year

Any history?

RadiactiveChocoMilk:
Does anyone have stories where society is fat?

Munchies:
I have one called "Food Is Love". Could never figure out how to end it tho. I got COVID and lost all of my inspiration.
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Battybattybattybat:
That one is great! Sorry that COVID did a number on you too.

I also love the Sims 4 thumbnail! 🤓


Well, this bitch lived, so it all comes out in the wash.

And thanks. I had a specific idea for a thumbnail, but I have the art skills of a potato and couldn't find a pic online. So I did the next best thing.
1 year