Morbidly A Beast:
Most people don’t associate food and fat/gaining weight with sexuality, that is our thing as feedists, it’s the thing that makes us feedists. That awkwardness you are feeling is you in your relation to food/fat/gaining, most people think oh they’re just hungry or whatever

Munchies:
Only if you gain slowly and up to a certain point. What that point is depends on how you carry your weight, but if you gain past that, they will notice.

But why must you hide it?

EndlessGain:
As I said, just feels awkward eating too much around people who aren’t into it.

Fatbilly:
I have found fatting foods are getting a lot more expensive. Even my favorite takeaway mcdonalds. Anyone else struggling wirh this? What are some good cheap healthish alternatives?

EndlessGain:
I'm currently living in a house with someone who isn't really on board with my gaining, and I'd rather keep it a secret from them... Well, at least not make it look like I'm intentionally gaining, at least. I'd rather it show up in the weight I gain than the food I eat, so I was wondering...

Is there any sneaky way I can get fatter without drawing too much attention to how much I eat?

Donut03:
Thank you, I will take a look.

I started talking about it and he got interested. I want to start calmly so as not to scare him hahaha.

I actually realized that I don't even know exactly what I'd like because I never opened up to that side of me

Herocomplex247:
It's giving serial killer 🤌, but aye'...who am I rightt🤷‍♀️

RobbyP:
"Some say 'No good deed goes unpunished.' and that 'The worst punishment is being punished for doing good.' Ending certain people is sometimes a fantasy, but will never be anything but that. Such would be ramping up as they have, and there are those who need my protection and care."

Bathisum:
Bud this right here this is pretentious as fuck. If you don’t understand that I get it but understand that now that it’s been pointed out you should try to fix it. And this is coming from someone with social communication issues that I’ve had to figure out through life.

RobbyP:
"Don't pretend that this website is the only thing I talk about."

Bathisum:
My guy this is a quick way to get ostracized by the community. You asked for advice and people gave it. Now you block them I think maybe you’re just insecure and toxic. Idk I’m not perfect or an expert but you’re heavily coming off as a prick.

RobbyP:
"Block me if you wish, and I did not ask for advice. She's advising that I poison myself with junk food. That got the block."

And I truly hope you are not regularly consuming 6 cups of honey and 4 pounds of fruit. Eating junk food would be better than eating that much fruit and honey.

Munchies:
Here is one of many different tags you can search to find feedist stuff. I filtered some things for you, but feel free to play around with things.

archiveofourown.org/works

ForeverFFA:
Thanks so much for the link! I can't believe I had no idea this site existed until now.

NoMoYoYo:
There's no doubt I eat salty foods. This weekend especially. Maybe that's all it is.

I should probably lay off salt a bit. I type as I'm sitting at Wendy's chowing down on just under 2000 calories. The Frosty I'm gonna grab on my way out will put me over 2000...and its not as salty lol

Munchies:
The best thing anyone can do is know what they eat - fetish or not. If you are eating fast food, you can find the details on the website.

Many people don't look at the nutritional labels on food because they don't feel a need to. Meanwhile, many feedists are afraid to look because they feel guilty for "ruining" their bodies.

Both views aren't wise. You wouldn't build a house without checking the materials. You should do the same with the food you eat.

NoMoYoYo:
I eat fast food because its easy calories. I've been on their nutrition info pages, but basically to see the calories (and fats, carbs, protein). But I haven't done a deep dive to see what's actually in the food. ie salt/sodium content. Or in any food really. Every gain I've ever done has involved a lot of fast food. I know I should cut back. Especially if I'm looking for a prolonged, slower gain, but I like it too much. Which is probably why I get to a point that I'd rather not gain any more. I'm hoping to turn the page there. I just wanna be fat.

Munchies:
I'm not saying you can't be fat. I'm a feeder, after all. I'm just saying you gotta be smart about it. I have seen many a gainer and feedee have to stop gaining completely because their gaining methods screwed up their health. The same can be said about the slow and steady gainers.

I don't think you wanna go from a yo-yo dieter to someone who cannot gain under pain of death.

NoMoYoYo:
It's not all fast food or even junk food. I do eat fruits and vegetables. But I do hear what you're saying.

Are there any foods you like to feed your partner that great for gaining but are on the healthier side?

Munchies:
Bear in mind that we are on a gaining break, but I can give you some dishes.

- Puff pastry with salmon and spinach

- Peanuts

- Pizza with veggies

- Pasta with broccoli and cheese sauce

Huh. Everything the list starts with P. Wild.

NoMoYoYo:
I haven't done puff pastry with salmon, but I've had everything else. I had a very large serving of pasta with a fake alfredo sauce last night. Made a roux, added broth, milk and parmesan. Had that with chicken and veggies on the side.

RobbyP:
"Munchies is now blocked, and will know it so that she stops wasting her energy on me."

Herocomplex247:
It's giving serial killer 🤌, but aye'...who am I rightt🤷‍♀️

RobbyP:
"Some say 'No good deed goes unpunished.' and that 'The worst punishment is being punished for doing good.' Ending certain people is sometimes a fantasy, but will never be anything but that. Such would be ramping up as they have, and there are those who need my protection and care."