What do you think caused you to develop this kink?

CuriousKat98:
I think it has always been there with me. I used to tell everyone when I was younger that I wanted to get married have kids and get fat. I didn't see it as a kink per say then though. It was just what happened with my older sister and she was really happy, so I wanted that. I think I realized it was something more to me when I got pregnant with my daughter and gained a lot of weight. I had to quit smoking, so I used food to clam the cravings. I gained probably 60 pounds in those 9 months. My husband gain at least 20 too. It was just an amazing experience to me. Total surprise. Anyways, this is my first post here. I actually joined so I could reply to this. Kind of lurked on here for a while. Something freeing about openly admitting things that are taboo in everyday life in a public place...


Welcome to the site :-) Your bio is parallel to a lot of others on here, mine included!
2 years

Bmi

Morbidly A Beast:
I don’t understand why BMI is a worth while measure of anything of value, it is literally height divided by weight (or vice versa) there’s loads of very fit and muscley people who have similar BMI to me and I’m mostly fat. I understand BFP because that’s actually a measuring of the amount of fat on your body (maybe it wouldn’t be worth it to get BFP on someone who is visibly obese?) It seems like a way to categorize people and assign health or unhealth based on nothing being fat doesn’t make you necessarily unfit or unhealthy - and even if it did why would it matter


BFP is indeed more telling a stat than BMI by itself. I consider the latter simply to get excited about, especially when mine and my wife’s keeps going up :-)
2 years

Is being out of shape a turn on?

Seeing my wife’s big, broad, luscious back fat and those gigantic boobs of hers are surely a daily turn-on :-) So are her tattoos…so sexy and inviting!
2 years

Plateau'd

John78:
Thanks! Congrats on your gain too, have you found it easy or hard overall? I was finding it easier as my appetite kept going up and also I was fairly active before and then stopped to gain which probably helped.


It’s been slow overall, but going from 195 to 210 has been rather quick compared to being stuck at 195 for a few years there ;-) I’m even starting to get mini-moobs, which is quite exciting. My wife’s appetite stays pretty steady, as she’s been north of 300 pounds for several years now.
2 years

I need a practical book for fat heterosexual couples and sex.

My wife and I didn’t think we could have any children of our own due to age and her weight, being more than 300 pounds. But then one day we did. As a friend told me later, it only needs to work once :-)
2 years

Plateau'd

Impressive gain! I can relate, as I was stuck around 190 for a while before finally breaking 200 in the past year. My frame is medium overall and I’m probably incapable of getting up as high as you, so congrats indeed ;-)
2 years

A "signal" for each other?

Intriguing, as this would prompt people to show a little of their belly in public ;-) Maybe on the arm could accommodate folks who might not be confident enough to show too much in public, who badly want to get fatter and help others do the same!
2 years

Genetics or diet

Genetics determines a lot with degrees of gaining. I finally got and stayed above 200 in the last year or so despite my genetics. In my wife’s case, it’s been a mix of genetics and other health issues.
2 years

Fattened and frumpy

Welcome to the site and hope you fill out those clothes in a jiffy :-)
2 years

Body change

Falcor:
What is hotter, seeing your partner’s body changes over time or seeing how your body changes?


It’s most awesome to have them both happen simultaneously :-)
2 years