Humiliation is another thing I find strange but people can have whatever kink they want.
I have been humiliated in public for being fat so to me that hurts deeply.
For a loved one to tease and humiliate someone just seems cruel.

I could never have gone on a TV show at my heaviest.
I am sure they are paid to do so but there is no way I could do that.
Its way too personal.

You have no control where the weight will be distributed that is under control of genetics.
Yes Dr's can do fat distribution as Judge Dre said but that is only temporary at best.
Its really common with people that want to gain weight to think you get to pick where the fat accumulates but that is not the way it works.
I gained a lot in my ass and thighs which wasn't where I really wanted it but thats where it went when I first started gaining weight.
It took me years to gain so keep in mind its not easy to gain weight as you might think.
Everyone is different so there are no absolute answers.

17 is all I could get down at a contest I was in.
The bread gets to be too much sometimes.

I haven't fit in it for a while now.
I do start it up every week or two my neighbor drives it when he needs it to haul something for his wood shop.

There is a pic of me in my Xterra in my pics section.
I don't remember what my weight was but it was getting to be a tight fit.

I have a 2004 Nissan Xterra and at 425 lbs in was hard to get in and out of.
I had a 2009 Mustang as well and it had plenty of belly room but at that weight my hips rubbed the door and the console.
I have a Jeep Wrangler as a daily driver now and at 360 ish it has plenty of belly room and hip room.

Hard to say everyone is different.

You betcha'

Exactly

Lora Dayton is right too.

its up to us to watch for the signs of what kind of guy he is too.
I have dated guys like that and its easy to spot if you know what to look for.
If they never ask you to do something with his group of friends thats a big sign.