I'm not saying stealth feeding is as bad as rape or child molestation. I'm talking about this particular argument in its favor. It's the same argument a rapist or child molester might use and just as morally bankrupt.

It seems to me we can divide feedees into these two categories:

Pusher (not to be confused with drug dealer!): You can't gain unless you push yourself (or are pushed by someone else). If you just eat what you feel like your weight will stay about the same.

Letting Goer: You have a good appetite and simply allowing yourself to eat all you want is sufficient to gain.

Which type are you? And has anyone started out as a "Pusher" but later became a "Letting Goer"? Or vice versa?

Ha! Unfortunately, for some, stuffing like that is the best part of feedism.

I don't have any hard data, but it seems to me the ones who go out of control are those who stuff to the absolute maximum once a week or more. Even if they stop stuffing like that they keep gaining without trying.

I've noticed that some people gain by periodically stuffing themselves to the max. Others don't stuff but just snack constantly. Which do you do?

This is the logic of rapists and child molesters.

Anyone been on the fence about gaining and then somehow, suddenly realize that it was right for you? Did some event or thought push you into the fat side? Let's hear your story!

Have you read "Deciding to Get Fat"? askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/dtgf.html

Goal creep is definitely a thing. Many increase their goal before they even get there!

I agree with Conan. You've got to come clean. I think you know that; you may have come here looking for a loophole. But there really isn't one.