Can you think of any more? Which one are you?
1. Careful planner -- you decide on how much you want to gain, gain that much and stop.
2. Stage by stage -- you gain a certain amount and then re-evaluate, possibly stopping, possibly gaining more.
3. Letting go -- you focus on eating all you want and gaining all you want don't think much about weight limits unless it becomes an issue.
4. Max -- you try to get as big as possible.
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Some Tormented FA:
I have no idea what to take away from these articles :/
I'm plowing through them now. Good job, Becomingoverweight!
6 years
A common myth is that fat people are miserable. Obviously, many aren't! Many are quite happy about being fat.
My question for fat people on here: Do you ever feel social pressure to SAY you're miserable about being fat? Details please!
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SahX:
We don't have to dictate them what to do with their own fattening experiences.
I absolutely agree. Just trying to establish best practices.
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Ffox:
Thank you I just wish there were more socially positive terms for women that are plus size. Lol thats like another 90 pounds lol
What's wrong with "curvy"?
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I think for some, unrestrained eating and gaining is a crucial part of this fetish. Weight limits can undermine that.
Limits often don't work anyway. Say you weigh 130 pounds and your limit is 180. When you get to 180 you'll know much more about being 180 than you did before and will have a better idea if it's a good place to stop or not.
I'm not saying you should never stop, just don't stop until you want to.
Anyone agree? Or not?
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And once you get to 241 pounds, 90% of women would consider you a BBW.
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Jays841:
What happens when you pass the wall test and realize people think your without doubt a fat person now. I don�t pass yet but am definitely getting close if i gain more in the next month or 2. I just dont know what to do about growing out of my clothes which i already am doing and hearing everyone talk about how much weight I�ve put on. But i want to be fat so badly cause its what i think about everyday. But then after I continue to put weight on i feel so good but also scared
Well if you're getting fat even though you're scared it just means you're brave enough and strong enough to do what you love in spite of social taboos. You should be proud of that! And don't take any shit. If you take shit from people they'll think you must deserve it and they'll give you even more.
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Ffox:
I am 5ft 5 and I wanted to know at my height when I would be considered a BBW?. Im like 150ish now. Just wondering trying to look online didn't help me at all. I have no clue of my clothing size I just know that it's over size 14.
To answer this question: According to my study, when you get to 175 pounds, a slight majority of women would consider you a "BBW".
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