Round face

NoMoYoYo:
There's no doubt I eat salty foods. This weekend especially. Maybe that's all it is.

I should probably lay off salt a bit. I type as I'm sitting at Wendy's chowing down on just under 2000 calories. The Frosty I'm gonna grab on my way out will put me over 2000...and its not as salty lol


The best thing anyone can do is know what they eat - fetish or not. If you are eating fast food, you can find the details on the website.

Many people don't look at the nutritional labels on food because they don't feel a need to. Meanwhile, many feedists are afraid to look because they feel guilty for "ruining" their bodies.

Both views aren't wise. You wouldn't build a house without checking the materials. You should do the same with the food you eat.
2 years

Round face

NoMoYoYo:
On this weight gain journey the one thing I've noticed is how quickly my face has started to round.

When I weighed 258, I had a round face (thats my Irish genes). But it seems to be taking hold much quicker this time. This is on top of getting softer overall.

Is a fat, round face something to try to acquire? If not, is there a way to avoid it?

Munchies:
You'll gain where you gain. Nothing you can do about it. Some people get a fat face. Some people don't. It is what it is. If you don't like it, there are surgeries for that.

NoMoYoYo:
A fat face is definitely inevitable for me. It's just never shown up this quickly in previous gains. I think I'm eating even more calories than the last time I gained. I have been trying to gain slower, but I haven't had any luck so far. I'm sure that it's contributing to my softness/fat face.

I don't hate the round face. Like I said, its part of who I am. I don't think I'd get surgery for it. I just think that its a sign I'm gaining too fast. I hope that it doesn't scare me away from gaining even more.

Munchies:
Are you keeping a food journal? You should keep track of what you eat and make note of things. That way you can see where you need to make changes.

It's also possible that your metabolism is getting slower.

NoMoYoYo:
I haven't kept a food journal. I do keep a running tally on my phone's calculator of calories I consume every day. I've been hovering around 4500 calories a day. Friday I reached 5100. The changes I need to make are: Eat less hahaha.

My metabolism is most likely a factor too. Especially since in this gain I've been very sedentary. I'm hoping to start exercising a bit this week.


That's a good start. But remember, not all calories are created equal. If tracking calories is working for you, that's fine. But it's also good to be mindful of the foods you eat. For example, foods high in sodium can cause excess water retention. This would make you appear to be fatter than you are.
2 years

I want to gain but when i eat enough to get bigger i feel sick

Occamslaser:
Even sticking to around 4000 calories a day, Ill feel fine for the first few weeks of excess and then start to feel messed up. My appetites spotty, I start getting nauseous when I over eat, my sleep gets kinda messed up.
Anyone else experience this?


This is a very simple fix. Eat fewer calories.

The average person eats about 2,000 to 2,500 calories a day. You are trying to eat twice that. No wonder you are feeling ill.

Start with an amount you can comfortably consume, and slowly increase your intake over time. This is a marathon, not a race.
2 years

Feeling a tad invisible

ForeverFFA:
Does anyone else get at least mildly annoyed that people outside this community (in popular culture, opinion articles, and even some research papers) tend to implicitly and sometimes explicitly assume that FAs can only be male? And do people have any ideas about why that assumption is so strongly rooted?


It's very annoying. Every time I see an outsider talk about feedism, it's always "men getting off on fattening up women." The heteronormativity is strong.

In most media, men only want a fat woman because of control reasons. He's not attracted to her so much as he thinks a "lesser woman" is more willing to put up with his bullshit than a "conventional woman." Meanwhile, the media shows women going after fat men as gold diggers. After all, who'd want a fat man unless he was super rich or had some social capital?

The only exception to this thinking is if the people involved are a specific kind of POC, like a black person or Polynesian. The thinking there is, "Well, of course, they want a fatty. They're all lazy and gluttonous. It makes perfect sense." But that's less about kink and more about fatphobia having a strong racial component to it as well.


That said, I think the biggest reason why the media thinks the way it does hearkens back to an earlier time in the community. As bad as the female FA/feeder representation is now, it used to be a lot worse. The popular feedist spaces were male-dominated and adhered to very rigid gender roles. There wasn't even a lot of bhm content unless you went into gay spaces. There were some FFA/BHM spaces, but they were hardly as popular.

We as a community have done a piss poor job at improving the representation too. I remember coming across an interview earlier this year where a podcast interviewed a female feedee to get more insight into the community. And while it was an overall good interview, the feedee explicitly stated that men where feeders and women are feedees.
2 years

Round face

NoMoYoYo:
On this weight gain journey the one thing I've noticed is how quickly my face has started to round.

When I weighed 258, I had a round face (thats my Irish genes). But it seems to be taking hold much quicker this time. This is on top of getting softer overall.

Is a fat, round face something to try to acquire? If not, is there a way to avoid it?

Munchies:
You'll gain where you gain. Nothing you can do about it. Some people get a fat face. Some people don't. It is what it is. If you don't like it, there are surgeries for that.

NoMoYoYo:
A fat face is definitely inevitable for me. It's just never shown up this quickly in previous gains. I think I'm eating even more calories than the last time I gained. I have been trying to gain slower, but I haven't had any luck so far. I'm sure that it's contributing to my softness/fat face.

I don't hate the round face. Like I said, its part of who I am. I don't think I'd get surgery for it. I just think that its a sign I'm gaining too fast. I hope that it doesn't scare me away from gaining even more.


Are you keeping a food journal? You should keep track of what you eat and make note of things. That way you can see where you need to make changes.

It's also possible that your metabolism is getting slower.
2 years

Round face

NoMoYoYo:
On this weight gain journey the one thing I've noticed is how quickly my face has started to round.

When I weighed 258, I had a round face (thats my Irish genes). But it seems to be taking hold much quicker this time. This is on top of getting softer overall.

Is a fat, round face something to try to acquire? If not, is there a way to avoid it?


You'll gain where you gain. Nothing you can do about it. Some people get a fat face. Some people don't. It is what it is. If you don't like it, there are surgeries for that.
2 years

Fantasies of female feeders

[quote]7ofclubs:
to all female feeders, share with us your fattening fantasies!

Since I have a feedee, I don't really have fantasies anymore. But there are some things I'd like to try at least once.

- My partner lays flat in a table with his limbs chained or tied to it. The table is about 4 feet high with a hole big enough for his belly to go though. Every day, I'll stuff and funnel feed him until his belly touches the floor.

- Fatten my partner up until his navel is about two fingers deep. Then I'll pound it with a strap and watch how it jiggles and shakes.

- Cover myself with food and have him lick me clean.

- Stuff him until he can hardly breathe. Then make him waddle about wearing a pregnancy belt.

- Have him eat 20k - 30k calories in a day.
2 years

Fantasies of female feeders

Pizzaboy:
Crickets chirping πŸ¦—

This site is over over saturated with men, & most of the woman..feeder accounts at least ... 67% of them are fake, paid to create, or unused/people really not into the community

Plus I think there's a shit ton of really smart & witty catfish on here


TopJimmy:
You Are 100% spot on


Female feeders don't stay here long. But everyone should know why at this point.
2 years

Are female feeders unicorns?

Shyfeedeeguy:
My guess: It’s like gamers. At least half of gamers are women, however due to how toxic male gamers can be many women gamers either play single player or don’t use a mic if playing online. I’m sure there’s probably far more feeders who are women than you realize, but most just lurk or aren’t active because of how terrible some men behave. Could also be messages that just say β€œhey” aren’t compelling enough to merit a reply. πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™‚οΈ

Jellyrolls:
Not wrong. As women who have to be on the look out in general in life for shady shit for our safety, we lurk from a distance. Vibrator, hot pix or stories, we got what we need for a good time. Not only that reason, but a lot of who we do find attractive aren't single or around us. OP is hot, but not around me. So that's a big issue. Plus those of us in the closet irl about feeling this way. A lot of girls are also very demisexual, meaning needing that emotional connection before a sexual one. Which is pretty hard over a website


If you want to be a visible female feeder online, you also have to be a special kind of crazy. It's the only way you can have peace.

You get harrassed by the male feedees, and the male feeders try to convert you into their feedee. I've seen a handful of female feeders since I've joined the site. The majority leave after a month or two just to escape the crazy.

And the lesbians have it worse than have heterosexual feeders. I've heard some stories where guys think that they can turn a lesbian straight if he woos her enough. It's just sad.
2 years

Conditioned to associate sex with food?

Munchies:
... But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
...But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. πŸ–πŸ†πŸ€£πŸ”₯

Munchies:
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.

MickRidem:
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I don't want to be seriously caught getting horny *every time* I eat, there are many situations, including at work, where this would not be ideal. LOL! If I could keep it to stuffing (and tbh that may have already started) and a specific food, that's more manageable and realistic for me. I still want a LITTLE control. 🀣 But yes, the game went very well. I'll have to have a chat with him soon about this kind of training. πŸ”₯

Munchies:
My partner doesn't get horny every time he eats. I'd say 99% of the time, eating doesn't arouse him. It's the other way around. He gets horny, and then he gets hungry.

Think of it like this. If you see a sex toy, most people will not get horny. But if you see a sex toy in the context of sex, you get horny.

These days, the link isn't as strong as it was. He is capable of getting horny without the desire to stuff his face. But it's better when he's stuffed.

MickRidem:
Discussed it with my guy, he came home with donuts. πŸ©πŸ€£πŸ–

Today was Training Day 1, and that was... nooooot horrible.

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Munchies:
I have all the best ideas.

Some advice. If/when the time comes that you want to stop, just have him give you mind-blowing orgasms without involving feedism. If you can achieve sexual satisfaction without it, the link will weaken.

MickRidem:
I know that there will be many mind-blowing orgasms between training sessions, so we'll see how that balances out. πŸ˜πŸ‘

(I can't have donuts *every* time, gotta keep tabs on my blood sugar for a bit... dangit.)


Doesn't gotta be donuts. Any food will do.
2 years