Morbidly A Beast:
Yes, but I am almost gonna guarantee most fat guys would find more enjoyment from a hot Philly cheesesteak than sex, all I’m sayin

DollyXXDimples:
*dresses up as a Philly cheesesteak*

Ah, thats much better.

P.S. Not to braaag but... I know a very dreamy fat guy who would enjoy eating a Philly Cheesesteak while having sex with me.

Morbidly A Beast:
Yes, but I am almost gonna guarantee most fat guys would find more enjoyment from a hot Philly cheesesteak than sex, all I’m sayin

Munchies:
I agree with everything except for the last statement. That one is a matter of personal taste. Some people like it or love it. And others are ambivalent or hate it.

That said, to OP, it's a good idea to figure out if you want sex because you enjoy it or because you're if you want sex because you feel you're supposed to want it.

Morbidly A Beast:
While it’s true it’s a matter of personal taste i would say it’s not worth basing your entire value as a human person on having/getting or receiving/ able to have sex. Because it is a bit meh, tbh.

Sanderson1018:
What were the first steps you all took? I’ve made the decision to put on 10-15 lbs and see how I enjoy it. I’ve been into this fetish for so long but never considered gaining until recently. I’d like to see how it feels and looks on myself.

How did you all go about it? All in? Baby steps? I’m curious to hear all of your stories. I hope they can ease my nerves and help me find more confidence in this.

Munchies:
Trigger warning for toxic/abusive parenting and borderline ED


I started my gaining journey for two reason: spite and body dysmorphia.

I've been underweight during my childhood due to illness. It was hell. But what made it worse is that my mother would project her insecurities on me and try to make myself stay that was.

For context, I was 115 lbs and 5'6".

I tried to gain once. I put on 2 lbs and was finally in the healthy weight range. My mother flipped out on me and started talking a lot of craziness. She'd say things like I was fat and going to kill myself or that since we have "Asian bones" I couldn't go off of the BMI to say I was underweight.

To this day, I have no idea where she got the Asian bones thing. We are not Asian. We are mixed with some things, but we are predominately black. I asked her about it years later, but she doesn't remember due to head injuries she sustained later. I digress.

I lost the weight (it was muscle) to get her off my back, but I hated it. So one day, I decided to take control of my life and do what I want.

I was hard. Not only did my body work against me for years, my mother would hurl all kinds of abuse at me to make me lose the weight. Ironically, I'd look at myself and see a woman who was too thin instead of the bloated cow my mother insisted I was.

I've stopped gaining now that I am finally happy with what I see in the mirror. I'm no longer cold all the time, I can find clothes that fit, I don't get sick as much as I used to, and I'm far more confident these days.

Sanderson1018:
I’m really happy for you. That was a very emotional read and it wasn’t what I anticipating when I asked, but I appreciate you telling me. Learning about everyone’s experiences is so valuable and yours is an important reminder that everyone’s journeys are different and unique, not always in the happiest of ways. I’m glad you’ve come out so strong and happy in the end, and I hope that continues for you long into the future.

Morbidly A Beast:
Sex won’t make you happy. Being in a relationship won’t make you happy. Only you being content in yourself will make you happy, the other stuff comes after.

And also sex is gross, not worth.

Amars20:
Gosh tonight sounds spicy; you're a devil Celia. She's barely recognizable in that old photo! With that nipped-in waist and subtle bustline. Quite a contrast to her pose at the pub the other week; when you compare her to her old self you're spot on, those overflowing udders really are a standout feature, along with that burgeoning lower belly. What a result from all that discipline eh!

Celiamarie:
It was extremely fun ! We're just in from the pub, so will write it up properly soon, but suffice to say it was a most entertaining evening 😈

And isn't she coming along so well ?? I'd actually forgot how slender she was. Though it didn't last too long, as she tended to reward herself for hitting weight goals with treats 🤦‍♀️ !! But her new figure is just so lascivious... 🔥💯

Sanderson1018:
What were the first steps you all took? I’ve made the decision to put on 10-15 lbs and see how I enjoy it. I’ve been into this fetish for so long but never considered gaining until recently. I’d like to see how it feels and looks on myself.

How did you all go about it? All in? Baby steps? I’m curious to hear all of your stories. I hope they can ease my nerves and help me find more confidence in this.

Case:
(FYI I’m bad at grammar and punctuation sorry)I’ve been alone for my whole life which I’m at that point where I’ve given up cause at the size I’m at no matter how much a like it it just doesn’t work in any sexual way I can’t fuck anyone my fat pad covers up most my privates and I’ve heard people say they like it but that’s hard to believe cause people say they want someone as fat as me but they want to make someone as fat as me I’m already to fat for most people I’ve just given up hope of actually meeting someone and being happy with them doesn’t help I have terrible anxiety and bad at social cues

Hisplumpprincess:
My husband is a military officer. When I married him I was quite slim. But over time he encouraged me to enjoy my food and not diet. Gradually I became pudgy and plump and family started to notice. I was happy so I didn't care. Then I had a baby and continued gaining weight. My husband encourages it. He buys me double portions at fast food restaurants. Yesterday he baked me a pie. I lost weight and went down to 160 briefly and he told me I was losing too much weight. I gave up on dieting because I missed eating buckets of raw cookie dough and going to restaurants, and my weight began to climb again.

My worry is that he is a military officer. He's in good shape. And all the other officer's wives are slim. I'm the fattest one at all the meetings. I don't want him to change his mind and lose attraction to me or be disgusted by me. I don't know how a guy in such good shape could like a girl like me. I asked him the other day if he would tell me if I was too fat, and he said there is no such thing. He rubs my belly and puts his hand under it all the time. He strokes my chins and loves my huge breasts. H cup. He is very vanilla and I can't think of him as having a fetish, but he seems to love all the places I am "soft," as he calls it. He says he wants me to be soft for him.

Do you think I'm safe eating? Should I get bigger and test just how soft I can get? At 205 pounds I already feel breathless doing physical activity.

Also, does anyone want me to write a story about a military wife who gets fat while her husband is on deployment, and then has to show him her new body?

Munchies:
Most of the officer wives are slim? Mayne, what base are y'all stationed at? I grew up in a military family. In my experience, military wives tend to be full-figured - especially E-5 and above.

What's his MOS? How long have y'all been stationed at your current base? Trying to wrap my head around such an alien situation.

Hisplumpprincess:
We have been at our current base for a year. I am not sure what MOS is, but he's a Commander, and I kid you not. Every one of the officer's wives are slim except me. I completely stand out.

Munchies:


Now I know this whole story is cap.

If you were truly a military wife - no matter what branch - you'd know what an MOS is. I don't know how long you guys have been married, but it takes about 12 years to reach a Commander rank. And even if you've been married for about a year (since you guys have a child together) there ain't no way in the world he wouldn't have told you what his MOS was.

This is like marrying a doctor and not knowing if he is a cardiologist or an optometrist.

Hisplumpprincess:
It takes longer than 12 years to become a commander. And if you mean his job, I know what he does but his current position is very unique, and if I told you you could look up who he is. I don't want that. I don't want to give any more info on my husband.