Do you like the belly of a bigger person or the all around figure of a bigger person?

Ssbbwari:
Me personally as someone who’s 600+ lbs, I’ve taken to slowly become more in love with different parts of my body, while I love the fact my belly hangs and has tons of cellulite I also really enjoy the inside of my thighs & the backs of my legs. The amount of rolls and crevices between the fat is my favorite part. The softness, jello like cute cups of fat are always expanding into bigger rolls the more I grow. I absolutely adore my back fat and side boob, it’s just like one gigantic piece of meat hanging off my body. Either way, I’ve learned to love all of me even the parts I wish were fatter.


For me, it's the all-around figure. I love my men quite large. Moobs, booty, thighs, fupa ... the list goes on. Also, the fingers of a very fat man are ... quite enjoyable.
2 years

Best restaurants for secretly feeding your date

ShyFeeder:
Regardless of if they enjoy eating without regard or not, secret feeding isn’t generally respected in this space, nor do I believe it should be. There are so many great opportunities to indulge food wise, but I think consent should always be the first line or you’re only going to make things muddier down the line when navigating sexual communication.


You are a kind and sweet soul, but that's not what they mean. In this situation, both you and your partner are aware of the situation and are consenting to it. The secret is public stuffing.

It's about exhibitionism.
2 years

Wg skincare

CuppaJoe:
Hi, All-

Wanted to get some advice regarding skin care and weight gain. Any of you who know me on here are aware that I recently have switched from feeder to feedee and I'm enjoying the recent extra pounds that have found their way on me.

I'm not asking any of you to be a doctor, and I'll absolutely go to a dermatologist if anything gets worrisome, but i have two quick questions regarding skin care and weight gain. If any of you had any experience or feedback, I'd be thankful:

1. I don't have any stretchmarks yet, but I've noticed little red bumps - almost like a weak version of a prickly heat rash - have shown up on my love handles. They don't hurt and don't itch - they wouldn't bother me at all except I've never had chub on my body and I'm not sure if this is normal. I'm guessing that it is the result of increased contact with my shirt fabric as I've gotten fatter, but I thought I'd see if any of you have had this experience.

2. I've noticed that cuts take longer to heal. I have a few cuts and scratches from lawn care and outside work that seem like they're taking longer to resolve.

I appreciate any input!


I always recommend lotion. Moisture is important - even more so while you are gaining.

1. This sounds like skin irritation. Wearing better-fitting clothes - especially moisture-wicking ones - will help.

2. You may want to see a doctor about that. Get some blood work done. Certain conditions like diabetes can make it harder to heal.
2 years

Otc meds for weight gain?

Larpus98:
It’s not over the counter but I’m on mood stabilizers and they cause very rapid weight gain.


As a general rule of thumb, please do not take prescription medications to gain weight. You may get fat, but you'll have other issues too.
2 years

Profile: no items found

LoraDayton:
I've noticed this happen to me as well but it's often when I see people in the chat. If that's the case, that their profile has been removed, then how would they have access to chat? Or when I am browsing profiles and can see them populate based on my search criteria?


I'm stabbing in the dark here, but I think they may have their profiles set to private.
2 years

Annoyed when people who aren't a romantic interest mention my weight.

BlackjackandBerries:
Such a complex topic for me and I am aware everyone feels different.

I feel aggravated, turned off, and annoyed when co workers, counselors, strangers, etc. Bring up my size or egg me on about me being fat. If I'm treating myself to second helpings and people comment on it, I am immediatley turned off.

Someone (kinda recently) pointed out the size of my belly asking if i was pregnant, and I was appalled and ashamed. I would think that is a normal thing to feel.

If a love interest or woman my age did or said these things to me though, I'd be red in the face, turned on, and trying to contain myself. Thats also normal I'm assuming.

I've gotten noticably chubby after previously being known by everyone as the "thin athletic muscley woman." But I am still under 200 lbs and considered tiny in the world of fat fetishism.

I'm still very active. But chubby. The scale says it. My clothes show it. People notice it. People comment on it. It's a fact now.

I wish that people would mind their own business and not comment on my body, nor perceive me, and just ignore me altogether and let me be fat in peace. But I really really want the exception of that to be cute women being the only ones to point out my body. Idk. I know I can't pick and choose and that it's unrealistic.

What I meant to ask in this post was, how do you cope with the frustration of strangers egging you on or intentionally being weird by commenting on your weight?

Or how do you "deal with it"? I've tried owning it, but then they just awkwardly keep going and it makes me uncomfortable because being fat in itself feels like an act of fetishism that I don't want strangers or co workers to participate in.

And this might sound weird but it's almost like they're invading my "personal fetish space"... even though it's just normal for society to just point a finger and go "FAT!".

Maybe I'm just making it weird. Idk.


I think it comes down to intent. Being fat is stigmatized. So, unless it was coming from someone who you knew found you attractive, you will assume negative connotations.

Super normal and natural.
2 years

Who are the doms and who are the subs?

CookNFeedin:
Every relationship I've ever had wanted me to be a dom, so that's what I've had to be, but if I'm being honest, I'd really just rather sub. Something about just being told what to do to pleasure the other person seems relaxing and I get a bit turned on with humiliation.


If you want that, you should talk to your partner about your needs. Take turns being the sub.
2 years

First stuffing

HeadMaster:
Captainbexx, tell us, how much you ate for Thanksgiving.


Sir ... OP is Australian.
2 years

Skin feels super soft and warm

Friendly Admirer:
I’ve been binging the last few days on heavy cream, canola oil, and ice cream. I noticed I finally grew my first fat roll on my tummy. It feels super soft and really warm. Is this a normal feeling to get when gaining? I love the smoothness of the skin


Super common. High fat diets do lead to excess seabum production as the body struggles to do something with all of the fat you'v3 consumed. And, expessially if your skin care game is weak, this will lead to softer skin. Be careful, though. If you do it for too long, you may get acne breakouts.

As for the warmth, it's a two fold thing. Fat is insulating, so any warmth you have will stay in you longer. The other reason is your body is working extremely hard to process all that fat you've been consuming.

It also seems like you are gaining subcutaneous fat (fat under the skin). As your body creates new fat cells, it also creates new capularies for the blood to reach it. That blood makes everything warm.
2 years

Feeder turned on by his own weight gain

Ohbig:
My husband and I have been enjoying my weight gain ever since we got married, but I believe he may be starting to enjoy getting fattened up as well.

After his second helping of Thanksgiving dinner, he was very full and went to lay down. I laid down next to him and started rubbing his belly, and he instantly got hard. This has become a common occurrence, and I’m wondering if my feeder hubby is starting to enjoy his own weight gain as well.


The feeder to feedee pipeline is *strong*. Talk to him about it. There may be mutual gaining in your future.
2 years