Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
Update: He is still gaining. Also he started to call me on video when he's at work to show me his belly. I love it. I don't know his actual weight, we don't have a scale anymore, but I'm very happy with how he looks. I would like him even fatter. But I'm also worried for his health. He doesn't do any sport anymore and he drinks almost 2L of soda everyday. He doesn't have any health issues, but I can't stop thinking what if this lifestyle will affect his health long term.


Love impromptu belly pics and videos. Sometimes my partner will send me belly pics at work. Always a good time.

I would talk to your boyfriend about his soda consumption. I don't think I need to tell you why.
2 years

Vanilla dating

Hhhggg:
I think I relay depends on how strong you feeder/FA mix is.
Because there are a lot of fat girls that are confident and don’t mind packing on a coupel of pounds of relationship weight.
So if you are more of an FA that enjoys pampering your lady I guess u can get away with a vanilla dating.


But if you only get of by a girl that begs you I fatten her Immobilie with a funnel 24/7 there are very few that will be in to that as well.


That's a very good point.

I'm an FA before I am a feeder. So while I enjoy fattening up my partner, I don't need it to get off.

Meanwhile, I have seen some feeder who cannot deal if their partner isn't getting fatter - even if said partner is already fat.
2 years

Vanilla dating

Mrman1980uk:
To answer Munchies' question about what I mean by "vanilla dating" - I mean trying to find people for dating who aren't into this, whether through online dating apps or in person.

I am not sure exactly what Munchies meant by a relationship that does not "centre feedism" - any healthy relationship involves far more than just sexual aspects, obviously: one would have life goals, values, education, intellect, a sense of humour and other things in common, one would be able to communicate well; both partners would work together and be prepared to compromise for and be kind to the other, and both would enjoy shared activities as well as a healthy level of time alone. I certainly wouldn't want a relationship that is *only* about feedism - even in a relatively casual or short-term relationship, one would want to like the person and have things in common. One would want to find the person enjoyable company and be able to have good, engaging conversation about non-sexual topics.

But sexual attraction is a very important part of a relationship - and it's difficult for me really to take an interest in somebody knowing that she does not derive pleasure from the the things that I enjoy; and the idea of trying to find somebody who is not into this and trying to get her to do these things just for me when she does not enjoy them herself is just awful, partly because that's just an unkind thing to do, and partly because the eroticism is precisely in the shared pleasure - in the fact that the other person is genuinely deriving an erotic thrill from the same things as I am enjoying. The ultimate turn-off is somebody just going through the motions without actually enjoying it herself - and the thought of trying to encourage somebody to do something for my sexual pleasure that makes her genuinely uncomfortable is quite unbearable.

I understand that many people trying to meet people in this community find that lots of the people whom they encounter eventually confess that they are married. Obviously, non-consensual cheating on a spouse is not a nice thing to do - but the fact that there are so many married people here, looking for feedist encounters gives a good indication as to just how thoroughly unsatisfied many people with feedist tendencies are in relationships with people who do not share this preference - and those who are actually willing to cheat on a spouse and able to find somebody interested in them must be a small fraction of the total, so the number of people in sexually unsatisfactory relationships as a result of being with somebody who does not share preferences must be truly enormous. One can only imagine how trapped, frustrated and conflicted that those people must feel.

Perhaps it makes a difference quite what flavour of these preferences that one has. I am not, for example, interested in extreme weight gain or immobility (I do not mean to criticise those who do - it's just not my cup of tea). I'm more interested in moderate weight gain that is compatible with continuing to lead a full, active and independent life. But I'd really feel as though I'm missing out with someone who doesn't take some erotic joy in overindulgence and putting on weight (or, in due course, having put on weight - one cannot keep gaining forever) as a result. Having spoken to and been with people in that category, it's very hard to find a spark of joy in people who don't find pleasure in that, even if they are lovely in every other way.


Thanks for clarifying. As to your own question, you answered it yourself.

Glad to know you value people as people. Unfortunately, there are a sizable chunk of people on here who do not think like this. I have ... encountered some characters.

I think the most memorable one was the guy who have a mental health crisis because his non-feedist wife decided to lose weight. So while I would like to assume everyone is a decent human being, previous experience has taught me to clarify.
2 years

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Also, this is not your page. This is a public thread - emphasis on the word public.

You are free to say whatever you want within TOS, but you are not immune from criticism. It would be one thing if we had PMed you about this, but we did not. We kept everything public.

You, on the other hand, PMed us. That's private.
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Renaissancebxtch:
Because you're both slow and bothered and you clearly both need counseling don't trauma dump on my post I'm not here for it lmaooo and it's clearly not the place since I'm so abusive. Period point blank now say off my page


No one trauma dumped. We just called you out. Big difference.

Love the double down. It's a cute look for you.
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The whole thing is hilarious, really. As I've frequently mentioned in the forums, I am autistic and an abuse survivor. So there's something deliciously hilarious about because called slow for calling out abuse.
2 years

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Renaissancebxtch:
Honestly for those getting mad and upset it's a roleplay. Like I obviously stated what I wanted so that anyone who messages me is prepared.

Ace Of Spadez:
Instead of sending me a message calling me slow. I highly advise you say to me what u need to say to me on this forum.

Don’t let that keyboard make u feel emboldened.

I want to know why u messaged me with the subject calling me slow.

I would advise you don’t insult me before u encounter issues.


She sent me a message entitled slow too. I find it funny. Says a lot about her as a person.

Let's see here.

She makes a post about wanting to be in an abusive relationship as the abuser.

Two people call her out.

She insults them in private while publically saying "it's just an RP".

It's truly hilarious. Gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss.
2 years

Pics of guys

ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.


Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
2 years

Pics of guys

Ex Jock:
Yeah another thing, at least that I’ve found, is it takes awhile to gain so not going to look noticeably fatter if a frequent poster. But waiting between posts until you do can be boring or take awhile


That's a boring way to go about it.

You don't have to post just progress pics. If anything, it's good to have variety. Take a look at the female fetish models. They find ways to keep things interesting - even when they are maintaining or losing weight.
2 years

Vanilla dating

Mrman1980uk:
Who else finds that it's hard to be motivated with vanilla dating after speaking to or even meeting people here?


Very curious as to what you mean by vanilla dating. Do you mean dating a non-feedist? Or do you mean having a relationship that doesn't center feedism?

The former just requires good communication, an open mind on both ends, and a willingness to find the middle ground. I'd argue the second is just an aspect of healthy dating.

Or do you mean something else?
2 years