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Clayton442:
Have a few people message, someone by the name of enjoying summer very active then deleted there account, idk I’d they where a scammer or what but watch out didn’t realize how many fake people there where


That's pretty much everywhere. That said, what did this user do that came off as a scam? Deleting accounts are super common on here - even if the user has been active previously. So that in and of itself isn't proof of a scam.
2 years

Gaining with no appetite and no heavy cream

Ullthrox:
I've gained 24lbs so far, but I've hit a big plateau. How should I gain with little to no appetite and heavy cream?

I eat until I'm full before sleeping and I eat inconsistently already, which I assume is how I managed to gain 24lbs. But I don't think that'd work anymore if I want to gain past my current weight (no change in weight for 4 months).

I also can't digest a huge amount of food at once and have been skinny my whole life until now.

Munchies:
Your profile says you're 21. If you've been skinny all of your life, this means you have a high metabolism.

The good news is that this slows with age. I had a similar issue. I didn't make any significant gains until I was 23/24.

You can lower your metabolism naturally, but be advised that this may come back to bite you as you get older.

Ullthrox:
How do I lower my metabolism? I've been trying to gain for nearly 2 years now so I'm 100% sure I won't regret it. I'd normally be more cautious but I've been liking my 24lb gain for 4 months now. I've maintained my weight (although unintentionally) and have given plenty of thought about it.


Here are some ways to safely lower your metabolism:
www.maxhealthcare.in/blogs/7-ways-slow-down-your-metabolism

Also, don't be afraid to take a break from actively gaining. Sometimes stressing about gaining makes it harder for gainer. Sometimes, when you take a break and focus on just enjoying yourself, you end up accidentally gaining.
2 years

Gaining with no appetite and no heavy cream

Ullthrox:
I've gained 24lbs so far, but I've hit a big plateau. How should I gain with little to no appetite and heavy cream?

I eat until I'm full before sleeping and I eat inconsistently already, which I assume is how I managed to gain 24lbs. But I don't think that'd work anymore if I want to gain past my current weight (no change in weight for 4 months).

I also can't digest a huge amount of food at once and have been skinny my whole life until now.


Your profile says you're 21. If you've been skinny all of your life, this means you have a high metabolism.

The good news is that this slows with age. I had a similar issue. I didn't make any significant gains until I was 23/24.

You can lower your metabolism naturally, but be advised that this may come back to bite you as you get older.
2 years

Struggling with regular eating

Daw185:
Hi,

I have been strugling with my regular meals during a day. Since I am not used to eat breakfast, the very First meal that I have is around noon. During the morning Im not even hungry. Second meal of the day is around 6PM and then maybe a dinner around 9 PM or anything.

I have problems with my appetite but i would like to change it and add a little bit of weight as well. Do you have any tips how to increase appetite or rules to set daily meals routine? Really appreciate any answer.


If you are having trouble forcing yourself to eat, you might have better luck drinking your calories.

Don't go the traditional weight gain shake route. Those are empty calories, and you might be missing vast swaths of nutrition in your diet. Look into smoothies or health/meal replacement shakes if possible. Not sure what's available in your country. A dietician might be able to recommend something, or you can go to your local store.

Other little things add up. Switch from skim milk to whole milk, drink more juice, etc. Stay hydrated, but don't just drink plain water.

Also, what kinds of foods do you usually eat? Are you open to snacks?
2 years

Gaining fat and working out

Cvee1121:
@muchies - totally hear you. it is possible to grow certain parts of your body (within reason) through exercise. the problem is when you google its a lot about trimming fat and building muscle. so i am trying to approach it from a feedist angle (building muscle but also gaining fat) im just wondering if anyone has done anything like that before


It's not feedism. It's science.
2 years

Gaining fat and working out

Cvee1121:
Hi everyone! Just wondering if anyone has experience with gaining but also working out both for men and women?

I've been gaining the last bit but still want to maintain my chest and arms- really just grow the belly. Anyone have any good suggestions routines foods etc.?

For women - I started seeing this girl and told her about feederism. She's not a feedee but maybe could be open in the future. we've talked about gaining and I'm curious has anyone had success both gaining fat while also growing their ass/ hips or even breasts through some exercise in conjunction with stuffing/ gaining?

look forward to all of your replies!


Just as you cannot spot reduce, you cannot spot gain. The closest option is to body sculpt by building up the muscle in the area of course or undergoing surgery.

Yes, certain diets may encourage subcutaneous or visceral fat, but only just. The main factors genetics and hormone levels play a much bigger role than anything you might do externally.

If you have any fat relatives, you can use them to get a general idea about what your gains will be, but even then that isn't always set in stone. You might get the body of your dreams, or you might end up with something different.
2 years

Has anyone really met their better half here?

Dragon6366:
Hahaha, I meant I was no lucky. "No chance" was a French confusion since I also speak French and it means "no luck".


Mr. Worldwide

But I am still curious as to your approach. Forgive me if I come across as nosy, but sometimes guys can "scaring the maidens" energy without even realizing it.
2 years

Has anyone really met their better half here?

Dragon6366:
I’m also looking for my better half on this website. For now, I had no chance.


It's not impossible to find a quality partner here. After all, my partner found me. I'm curious about your approach since you say you've had no chance.
2 years

Reset button

Chubster87:
🙈 and I was sitting here drinking heavy cream when I read your reply...😅maybe its time to slow down for a week or two..thanks


Doctors advise gaining about 1 or 2 lbs (approximately 0.5 kg and 1 kg, respectively) weekly. If you keep gaining at this rate for an entire year, you gain about 52 to 104 lbs (23.5 - 47 kg) in a year.

You've been gaining about 10 lbs a month for two months. That's about double the rate doctors recommend. Plus, let's not forget the bigger you get, the more calories it takes to grow. So, realistically speaking, it's impossible for you to gain large amounts of weight consistently for an extended period of time without making yourself sick.

You need to take breaks and need more than a week to recover. I'd also recommend you reassess your weight gain strategy. If you keep doing things this way, you will make yourself too sick to gain much more than you've already gained.
2 years

Fattening boyfriend

Angy523:
I just realised this is kinda addictive. I said last year I want him to be 220-230, now he is really close to that and he bought some new clothes, a size bigger than he used to wear last year, but the only thing I can think of is him outgrowing his new clothes... It seems like I will always want him fatter


It's so gratifying to see your feedee get larger under your care. Still, it is extremely important to have clear boundaries with these things. Talk to your boyfriend to see if he is okay with getting bigger. Maybe he's okay with you actively fattening him up, or he'd be happier just letting nature take his course.

If he decides he wants to maintain or lose weight, just get him clothes that are a bit too small and have him parade about for you in them. This way, everything is happy.
2 years