Traveler:
as a man, i suffer from that. in men this is not really appreciated

SubbiChubbiCharli31:
Hey everyone, so the site is working but suddenly I can't chat, it's just a blank white page. Anyone know why? If you do, send me a letter or something lol

ILoveMath:
Has anyone ever met up with someone on here and either became irl friends or became a relationship?

Delta9:
Why is it that even with body positivity and size acceptance becoming mainstream that feedism is still seen as bad by most, even regular fat people who don't share the fetish?
My opinion:
1. Encouraging fat gain is seen as encouraging someone to be more unhealthy. Almost like saying, "I only love you because you're an alcoholic". Substance abuse being analogous to food abuse. And most people see alcoholism as very self destructive. And many people see size acceptance as promoting the person's psychological health by ignoring the cost to their physical health.
2. It's almost the opposite of body positivity/acceptance, because it's saying we want someone to change the way their body already is to please us. It would be one thing to say someone is fat and I love them or like their body that way, but saying someone is thin and to please me they need to change their body by becoming fat is obviously not acceptance. I think to people outside this community, it feels very much like using the other person by projecting our desires onto them and expecting it to manifest in a physical way. Taking control of the feedee's own body and body image away from them.

I think the biggest disconnect in all this is not understanding or believing why someone would want to be or change to become fat. But we know that people actively go on weight loss programs all the time. They want to change their bodies. And promoting that is totally fine (in the mainstream). Yet promoting or helping someone go the opposite direction (to get fat) is bad. So it's obvious that being a healthy happy thin person is still not seen as equal to being a healthy happy fat person.

Angy523:
Update:

- we started doing sport together (not much), but he also started drinking more soda because of the heat and he gained more weight

- I actually CAN'T believe I lived the day when he called me on video because he ate too much and he wanted me to see how he plays with his belly

- his mother saw him after a long time and he told him his belly got too big. He just said "very good". I really didn't expect that

JN_TumLover56:
Well I am a content creator myself. And if some people find out that I’m into plus size women then I might try to find a way to pretty much use my platform for saying that I am what I am attracted and find beauty towards.

But when it comes to the whole fetish thing it will more than likely ruin my reputation. Especially since the whole body positivity/liberation is no longer relevant than what it used to be, and there’s literally so much hatred (and health concern-like-talking-down) everywhere you go on social media when you find any content related to BoPo. So sadly I wouldn’t want to go through that hell of people accusing me of “destroying people’s lives/health”.

Unless if one day the modern or future culture finally gets some peace towards diversity and equality. I sadly don’t want to put myself in jeopardy when the online world (outside of this site) now thinks plus size is wrong.

Munchies:
Speaking as a marginalized person, I have more respect for outwardly bigoted individuals than people who make virtue signaling posts about how they would speak up for marginalized groups if it was safe to do so.

I'm not saying you have to be a vocal ally. I understand from personal experience how it can be hard - even scary. But it's pretty gross of you to think that saying people (not even just women) should be treated like people is too "controversial."

JN_TumLover56:
Yeah sorry if I came off a little bit blunt. Just one of those moments when I was typing what I was feeling. I do treat people regardless of size and shape with respect. It’s just sometimes the online world can be pretty harsh sometimes.

LoraDayton:
it may seem counterintuitive but a bit of food may help. I've had some incredible results when bloating with after after having some rice and steamed broccoli. it wasn't deliberate, I just got into... shenanigans not long after having dinner.

JN_TumLover56:
Well I am a content creator myself. And if some people find out that I’m into plus size women then I might try to find a way to pretty much use my platform for saying that I am what I am attracted and find beauty towards.

But when it comes to the whole fetish thing it will more than likely ruin my reputation. Especially since the whole body positivity/liberation is no longer relevant than what it used to be, and there’s literally so much hatred (and health concern-like-talking-down) everywhere you go on social media when you find any content related to BoPo. So sadly I wouldn’t want to go through that hell of people accusing me of “destroying people’s lives/health”.

Unless if one day the modern or future culture finally gets some peace towards diversity and equality. I sadly don’t want to put myself in jeopardy when the online world (outside of this site) now thinks plus size is wrong.

Letters And Numbers:
Hats

Munchies:
How does one outgrow a hat by being too fat? I've outgrown hats, but that's only due to my hair being big.



Letters And Numbers:
Hard work and dedication

Letters And Numbers:
Hats