Nice!

Sweet! Enjoy

Watch you don't mix your causation and correlation....

But I have heard rumours of this issue from ffa.

Congrats

And yah, in reality diversity of food usually makes stuffing easier.

The garter belt and panties is obviously a bit of a twist. Did you two already have a cross dressing thing going on, or did he introduce this in the context of gaining?

More generally, a lot of guys are thrilled to be able to turn a woman on with something specific. I mean we go ga-ga for boobs or butts or whatever, women can distract us with a flash of cleavage, etc. On the other hand on the flip side it often seems to be some mysterious gestalt that makes a woman attracted to a guy, and we seldom have that ability to just do something and rivet our partner's attention.

So even if he isn't into in terms of being turned on by gaining, he could be into it in terms of the rush and turn on of being able to turn you on.

The only woman I seriously dated was the one I married, over twenty years ago. There were very, very, few fat girls in my environment when growing up, and I'd been a shy nerd so never asked out anyone of any size. My wife was pretty normal size when we met(size 11/13. Orth american) and I avoided hitting on her at first because I thought she was too thin.

But by then I'd matured enough to accept that I didn't have to wait for The One and could date casually, and probably should do so for some practice, and she seemed interested in me so I let things move along.

And we REALLY got along well, which made me worry about FA vs just getting along. Then I met her over size 26 mother and almost as far father, and discovered she was eating 1-2 meals a day while walking a couple of miles each way to Uni, plus working part time shelving books. And she LOVED food. I decided to gamble based on that evidence, and let loose my heart.

She was a size 16/18/when we got married four years later, peaked at barely squeezing into a size 20 a couple of years after that, and has been between a 14/16 and 18/20 ever since.

She is a foodie but nota fat lover, so that is a bit awkward with me being at heart an FA and mutual gainer, but overall it has worked out OK.

I got some flak from family and friends when she was fattening up, but I made it clear that she would be in my life, and if they wanted to be they should accept her as she is. My parents came to adore her, friends to tolerate, so again not perfect, but OK.

I've always thought around a size 22/would look perfect on her, but she's pretty awesome as she is, so I focus on what I've got, not what I don't.

It depends on how healthy you want your food choices to be. In terms of cheap, crappy calories, Pop-Tarts are pretty good. Cheap, easy to eat anywhere, and 200 calories each. Up here you can get a box of8 (1600 calories) for $2.50 sometimes, and $2.99 almost anywhere, which is hard to beat. But it is all sugar bad oils, so be a bit careful.

The really cheap ways are cooking your own. Pan fried potatoes, or rice with butter or oil, will both only run you a few bucks for all you can handle. Just not very exciting.

Quite right about no perfect solution, but that doesn't mean you can't maybe move things to a more comfortable place.

But mostly I'm posting to sympathize. I'm married to a somewhat fat foodie, who doesn't find fat erotic at all and isn't particularly fond of being fat (although at least not fussed about it enough to have ever gotten thin). Lots of stuff that would turn me on would at best leave her cold or at worst make her feel uneasy. Used to really bug me, but time and age have mellowed that significantly.

Good luck in navigating your situation.

On the bright side, you don't have to deal with stubble rasping between them. I'm getting used to the look of all the double chin I have, but if I don't shave well, especially on warm days, there is no getting used to the stubble irritation.

I don't know what he is of course, but I do all those things as a FA. And he k ows you have gotten fatter over the years. It seems likely to me.