Thanks !! LOLOL

Too much thats why I'm fat.
I have been told that LOLOL

Not sure why people think eating a certain food will make a person gain weight in a certain area.
It doesn't work that way sorry its up to the person's genetics where the fat will go.
The bike idea is worth a shot I suppose.
Will it work ? who knows?

When I started gaining a lot went to my hips,thighs and butt right off but most women on my fathers side of the family were fairly wide.
My mothers side were all busty.
So thats why I'm wide and have decent sized breasts.
Its all genetics.

Without a truly dedicated effort nothing changes.
Everyone is different so expecting concrete numbers or at what point something will happen is an un answerable question,

I agree I have been on several other size based sites over the last 15 years or so and always have stayed here while leaving the others.
Feabie was horrible and just a bunch of judgmental 18 year old kids.
I was on Feabie the first week it went online and left within the first month.
Too many cliques and was just like being in high school.
Dimensions is OK just not much traffic on it these days.
I never got into tumblr, instagram, Kik or any other social sites.

I was at Target shopping and I ran into a girl I knew from high school.
We were on the cheer squad and had a few classes together.
She looked really great and had her kids with her.
I was around 300 lbs at the time and yes it was awkward as all get out.
We spoke for a bit and I had to get in line to check out so we exchanged cell numbers.
As they walked away her smallest kid said Mommy that lady has a butt in the front.
Of course the kid had to say it loud enough so everybody in line could hear.
I was so embarrassed and wanted to cry.
The checkout guy made my day tho' when he said I think you are beautiful.
I guess he could tell I was embarrassed.

If you are into it who am I to judge?
I know there are lots of kinks and if they are something you indulge it have fun with it.

Humiliation is another thing I find strange but people can have whatever kink they want.
I have been humiliated in public for being fat so to me that hurts deeply.
For a loved one to tease and humiliate someone just seems cruel.

I could never have gone on a TV show at my heaviest.
I am sure they are paid to do so but there is no way I could do that.
Its way too personal.

You have no control where the weight will be distributed that is under control of genetics.
Yes Dr's can do fat distribution as Judge Dre said but that is only temporary at best.
Its really common with people that want to gain weight to think you get to pick where the fat accumulates but that is not the way it works.
I gained a lot in my ass and thighs which wasn't where I really wanted it but thats where it went when I first started gaining weight.
It took me years to gain so keep in mind its not easy to gain weight as you might think.
Everyone is different so there are no absolute answers.