Fantasy Feeder

Does this site make us gain more

It's definitely reinforcing my desire to gain more.

8 years

Any way to become comfortable with all of this?

I always had a self-image problem and fatphobia. Yet I always found other fat guys hot. I guess I was a FA without knowing it.

When I unintentionally gained weight due to slacking off exercise and letting my diet go, relatives would look at me and say "hey, what happened?", or "uh, you got tubby", or my brother calling me lard-butt, or some such insult.

It used to bother me, but over time I've just gotten comfortable with getting fat. I see too many goodlooking fat guys to think there's anything wrong with it. But I've never made it known that I am intentionally gaining. How and why I'm getting fat is my own affair. In response to those comments I'll just shrug and say "yeah well, y'know... " and change the subject or walk away. I don't owe anyone an explanation.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Difficulty accepting that i'm a feedee

Goldblubber:
...I've nevet felt better about myself since I started gaining.

Same here. I proudly walk around letting my gut stick out (I can't wait until it hangs over my belt), and wearing shirts that are getting snug and show off my belly. Though it took a while to come to grips with being fat and wanting to get fatter.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Ways to exercise/be active and still gain

As a fitness trainer said to me "you can out-eat your exercise". Gaining and losing is more about calories than activity. Eat more.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Lower sex drive from weight gain?

Maybe it's different for everyone. I'm getting more confident and feeling sexier as I get fatter.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Bmi. what's yours?

38. The calculator site says I am "at risk" for gaining more weight. I certainly hope so!

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Anyone else taking summer clothes out of storage and finding they don't fit?

It happens every year. My 17 and 17 1/2 , and XL shirts, and 42s shorts are snug. I'm ready for 18s and 44s. It makes me happy. Maybe next summer my pants will be 46s.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Feeling guilty.

I go through that. Currently I'm on a pretty steady plateau of liking my fat and wanting to get fatter. I think it hapens to very many people.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Should i just go for it and gain weight ? and look for sum advice

ribboydoom:
a part of wants to do it but a part of me stop's me so i want to hear from people that who were conflicted just like i am. And i want to know what it felt like when they did decided to pack on the pounds ?Advice on this will help me to make my decision on about gaining weight

I've been conflicted at times too. I think most people are. Try a test gain, you can always lose it if it's not for you.

I was always into dieting and exercising but now I love getting fat and have no intention of losing. Rather, I'm trying to gain a lot more.

I think you'll hear the same thing from a lot of people.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur

Should i just go for it and gain weight ? and look for sum advice

ribboydoom:
a part of wants to do it but a part of me stop's me so i want to hear from people that who were conflicted just like i am. And i want to know what it felt like when they did decided to pack on the pounds ?Advice on this will help me to make my decision on about gaining weight

Frogman:

The fatter you get, the fatter you get. You get hungrier because you need more calories just to sustain your weight. Fattening foods can become an addiction--which is part of the turn-on for me (lack of control)--but also probably not "the healthiest."

And I think also the fatter you get, the fatter you want to get. I know I do.

I love being fat, but there are rare times when I wish I could go back to being thin--which ain't gonna happen at this point.

Same here.

8 years

MarshmallowMinotaur