Kitsune:
On an old account, I created a thread about finding the original photo of a magazine photo. Which consists of a famous BHM celebrity in a suggestive pose. It isn't lost media per say. However, the existing copy so far is a low quality phone capture found on Pinterest.
As of now, I think I found the lead to the photo. A few days back I was curiously looking up magazines of said celebrity and there was similar photos in a magazine. Which I think is where my holy grail came from since the style is pretty similar.
Now, enough with my rambling and onto the topic. I was wondering what is considered necroposting? I know it is frowned upon here to revive dead posts. I thought of bringing back my old post about the aforementioned findings and personally to me I think it should be ok because I am the original poster. Afterall, I've seen this happen in the Lost Media Wiki where people who find new leads update their threads.
It makes me ask a question. What is considered old? When is the discussion officially over?
There doesn't seem to be a dead-set rule regarding necroposting. But then again I have never read the TOS. If there isn't a rule, I hope it get implemented that way we won't make any mistakes. Maybe users can share a link to their previous blog in their new post that way people can get the context.
Also I think there should be a pinned thread about the rules of necroposting. Just make sure the tone is friendly for us ND folks.
FF Team:
In my opinion, posting on an old thread means you might miss the full context due to deleted posts from inactive accounts, which can take away some of the nuance. I don’t necessarily frown upon it, and it’s not technically against the website rules, but since there’s no limit to posting on forums, why not just start a new thread? You can always link to an older thread and reference it if you think it’s relevant using the forums bbcode.
c00kie
FF Team
My thoughts exactly. Sure, it's not hurting anyone, but why do it at all?
I saw at least 4 threads that a mod locked for necro posting on account of people replying to personal ads ages after OP deleted their account.
2 months
Kitsune:
I tried looking for options on Reddit. Most responses says therapists would rather talk than write or text since it isn't deemed as professional. I wish us patients can write first that way we can get comfortable once we feel read to see eachother face to face.
Enas:
I would only advice you to prepare before hand, meaning, dont wait for the session to think about your thoughts, do that in your free time & write down stuff! Then give that to the therapists! It will be very helpfull i think!
Kitsune:
Thanks for the idea. I hope it all goes well once I find my therapist.
I am still hurt by Ditzy's comment. I have been SA'd as a kid/teen and abused. Bullied a lot at school as well. Yet I never say people won't survive what I went through. Why the hell would anyone want to go through with that? Don't get me wrong I do feel bad for her but it's like she's implying our lives aren't as flawed and we live in perfect worlds. Just rubbed me the wrong way. I am already in a abusive relationship with my dad. If only I had the courage to tell her that
Hun, you are spiralling. Breathe for a moment.
Do you have any coping mechanisms or ways to self soothe?
2 months
HappyBigBelly:
Like most encouragers here, I love seeing people’s pics from before they got fat, and then admiring their progress. I have to say I’m in awe of mine and my wife’s gain through the years.
I was quite the skinny guy until my 30s and had no belly at all. My ball belly grew during that time to what it is today. I’m in amazement how it’s gone from visible ribs to a big ball of visceral fat :-)
My wife was quite petite when she was a preteen. Then genetics and her first two pregnancies came and her weight blew up immensely. She’s always loved showing off her shoulders, even way back when. One pic has her wearing a strapless halter with these cute little bony shoulders back then. Literally gained about 150 pounds by the time she was 22 and went from just having large breasts to having a humongous belly and soft, luscious arms and legs :-) Neither of us looks like the same person in our befores and afters :-)
Anyone else look someone completely different in their afters?
I used to be a gainer. I went from having supermodel proportions to being thick, muscular, and curvy. I'm very proud of what I achieved.
I also enjoy my partner's before and after.
Mind you, he was always a big guy. But he is a lot jigglier than he used to be. I love his rolls and stretch marks.
2 months
Kitsune:
I hate myself. I am an evil person.
Enas:
Why do you hate yourself?
And what do you think an evil person is?
Kitsune:
Because I misunderstood the post and I think I was being selfish. Even though I was just depressed and I myself have an abusive dad. I am afraid Ditzy was making it seem like I was a wealthy person when everyday I have to work at a physical job while everyone hates me and make not as much money. Now I am planning to run away to Seattle and live with my dad's relatives that way I can risk having a happy life. I even thought of doing self harm days ago when I got in trouble in the office for falling asleep at work. I didn't have the courage to tell them my troubled life at home. I wish I was a famous animator and fullfill my dreams. That's what preventing me from killing myself.
As for why I think I am an evil person. I have mentally hurt people in the past and I have got into arguments online. I am terminally ill because I don't have many friends and I am all alone. I rarely go out. The internet is my only escape.
I fail to see how any of this makes you evil. If anything, these are your abusers' words in your ear.
2 months
Blue Gaia:
I was just wondering how many fit and petite women on this website love fat men. I’m one of them. What are your fantasies about it?
I'm fit, but not petit. I do love me a fat man.
I don't have fantasies with them on account of I do them in real life.
2 months
Ditzy:
In my case having a husband that controlled everything in your life from what time you got up in the morning to the time you went to bed is enough to make spite a very strong thing.
I was his "trophy wife".
I had to dress to the nines any time I went out with him and even if I went to the grocery.
If I failed to do exactly as he ordered he would slap me around and call me horrible names.
I doubt any of you ladies here would put up with that.
My spite was not really self harm to me but to his ego.
I knew it was temporary.
Eh, what do I know? I've never been in an abusive relationship. My mom raised me in one, but I handled it by holding a steak knife to his throat.
That said, I was talking more about OP, who has since deleted her post.
2 months
I will forever be fascinated by the people who self-harm out of spite or fetish.
2 months
Stefan:
So i have a fantasy about feeding and fattening up dom feeder girl and turning tables. So the feeder becomes feedee. Something about the "battle" and "struggle" around who is going to be feedee and fattening up the person who wants to fattens you is so hot to me. And the idea of dom feeder resisting but secretly liking being fatten up and forced to grow bigger. Definitely would love to do it some day especially with skinny/chubby girl.
I have personally experienced many men who wish to do this. Unfortunately for them, I do not share their kinks and am far more dominant than they could ever be.
That said, I do enjoy putting a "dom" feeder in their place. This either ends in them fleeing in terror or turning into submissive pigs.
It's not the same thing as what you are talking about, as I only do that in response to disrespect.
2 months
Morbidly A Beast:
That was a wild thread and rereading it a year later it’s just as wild.
Back to obscurity you go, mister
I am many things, but I am
not the one.
2 months
Piggyobese:
Eating without control
Wooloo7:
Sounds like you have experience, any tips on losing control?
Don't do it. Eating without control is very different from having a big appetite or being gluttonous.
Eating without control means having a food addiction. It destroys your life. You developed a love-hate relationship with food. You love how you feel when you eat, but when you are done, you hate everything about yourself.
There are better ways to gain weight.
2 months
