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Leptine:
My weight isn't even if half yours. But in my country (family etc.) I heard comment about my weight: most of about health and fit.

I have in my family cousine who's now about 450 lbs (most of life +/- 170) and rest of family called him black sheep.

Now I'm closing 200 and trying to resist new comments. But I'm ONLY 198 šŸ˜£


For some people, comments are a turn-on, but everyone is different. If anyone, family included, makes comments that make you feel uncomfortable or disrespected, you always have the right to set your boundaries.

"I know you care about my health, but I'm not comfortable with comments about my body."

"I'm going to ask you to please refrain from commenting about my weight. Thanks in advance for understanding."

"I truly am thankful for your concern, but it hurts my feelings when you criticize my weight."

"I'm happy with myself as I am."

Your weight DOES NOT make you a "black sheep", and it never will, regardless of whether you decide to gain or lose. Ignore the critics and enjoy your journey!
1 year

"advanced" obesity classes?

I like this calculator recommended above. I knew I'd be at class VI (95th percentile), but it's still satisfying to see!
1 year

Comments

BigBallBellyGirl:
We're exactly the same weight! And I know what you mean about thinking people must be walking on eggshells. As a culture, we've stopped commenting on people's size, and that's a good thing, because most people refrain out of respect. Even when I gained 80 pounds in just over 2 months, no one but my partner said a word. A little disappointing! I put a lot of work into all that fat! Lol

Morbidly A Beast:
omg thatā€™s amazing weā€™re the same weight lol! Race to 500?! Haha.

I much preferred it when they mustā€™ve talked about it when I wasnā€™t around


Yes!! I have a feeling I'm a good bit shorter than you, but joining the 400 club was one of my best decisions ever. And I think we have similar daily appetites.

My aunt did make one remark Thursday when I was getting third servings of stuffing. She said, "Be careful. You might wanna slow down.' That's hilarious, in that the very next day, I finished a whole 9x13 pan on my own. šŸ¤£'
1 year

Ladies! what is your opinion on men that look pregnant? like a big ball belly

During my senior year in high school, I worked part time at a local diner. We had a regular who was a man in his late 30s or 40s. He was slim to average build, with an average (not chubby) face, and probably would have worn a size medium had it not been for an enormous belly that seemed to be rock hard and was perfectly basketball-shaped. I would have assumed he had a serious medical condition, except I saw his eating habits. Burgers, fries, onion rings, hash browns, always with a side of mayo and a side of ranch. I have a disproportionately big belly, but I also have a chubby face, double chin, and pillowy arms. A head and shoulders picture of this man would never in a million years suggest a big round gut below.
1 year

Thanksgiving

BigBallBellyGirl:
I am! I absolutely love holiday food. I pre-stuffed today to expand my belly as big as possible. Among my stuffings were four stacks of eight pancakes and two large pizzas. My partner and I began prepping for a Thanksgiving meal for six for us to share Friday, although he eats clean and doesn't overindulge. Tomorrow, I'll load up at my parents house and also snack some at home. Last year, I gained 9 lb over the 4-day Thanksgiving weekend. I plan to outdo that this year, and I can't stop thinking about apple pie, stuffing, and mashed potatoes for days.

Nycfa:
After reading many of your wonderful posts, it sounds like you feel a tremendous sense of accomplishment when you manage to consume what even you would consider a ridiculous amount of food. So, maybe use this weekend to dip your toe into the ā€œfantasyā€ you described in your post from the other day. Ask your partner to promise that at any time youā€™re awake, you will be eating. Ask him to promise to not give up if you say youā€™re stuffed. Not to stop if your belly hurts or if you canā€™t take a deep breath. Say you want to push your very limits. Be at the mercy of your belly. Dizzy from literally being able to feel your stomach stretching as you refuse to let your unrelenting over consumption abateā€¦ see if you can gain 20!! šŸ„°šŸ„°šŸ„°

BigBallBellyGirl:
I probably came as close as possible in real life to fulfilling my fantasy. I consumed around 30,000 calories Thursday but well over that on Friday. I'll be taking a bit of a break today, because I have a lot of bloating and swelling and my hands and feet, and I want to let my body recover. I haven't weighed yet, because I know I'm not going to get an accurate reading, but I can tell my gain will be significant, perhaps a record for me.

Friday, on our stuffing day, I had:

- 3 chocolate glazed donuts
- 12 eggs, scrambled with cheese and mushrooms
- 4 pieces of cheese toast
- 1 9x13 pan of stuffing
- 2 8x8 pans of mac and cheese
- 3 servings of whole cranberry sauce
- 1 9x13 pan of broccoli and cheese casserole
- 4 pounds of turkey with gravy
- 6 buttermilk biscuits
- 3 dinner rolls with heavy butter
- large serving of squash casserole
- large serving of wild mushroom rice
- large serving of roasted brussel sprouts
- 3 loaded baked potatoes
- 2 plates of corn casserole
- 1 apple pie
- 1/2 cherry pie with a pint of ice cream
- 1/2 pumpkin pie
- 1 gallon of milk
- 4 liters of orange soda
- 4 glasses of wine

My sweet partner has been waiting on me hand and foot, and even this morning, I'm still having issues with balance and getting from a sitting to a standing position. I'm excited for him to help measure me at the conclusion of the weekend to see how much "damage" I've done!

Munchies:
You really did outdo last year. That's super impressive.

How did it feel to eat about 60k cal? How did you train yourself to eat that much? I'm impressed you still wanted to eat after the first 30k calorie feast.

I remember the aftermath of MochiiBabii's 30k stuffing. She didn't eat much of anything for days after. And you were out here trying to outdo your first round. Mad respect.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Much appreciated!! That second day of stuffing would not have been possible without my partner, because I wouldn't have had the physical ability to serve myself, heat things, etc. If I had to pick one word to describe how it felt, it would probably be "extreme". There was a point at about 4pm, after eating since 9:00 a.m., that I felt nauseated and needed a two and a half hour break. I actually believed I was probably done for the day, but I surprised myself by picking back up again with gusto. The nausea didn't return, but I did start to sweat profusely that night, and that's when we stopped. Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY. Would I do 2 days in a row? Probably not. We originally we're going to go for a third day today, but that doesn't feel like a good idea or honestly, even physically possible, so I'm going to respect my body's signals and take it easy. I'm very, very bloated, and my body feels significantly heavier (because it is, by 29 pounds, from food and water weight). My balance is a bit off, but I've been trying to get some movement in this morning. I'm also not quite able to sit up properly and have to recline a bit so I can breathe. Would I recommend it to someone else into extreme stuffings? YES, but only someone with a lot of experience and a partner who respects their boundaries.

Nitchbigger:
29lbs of food in 2 days!!
Your belly must look like a fucking cartoon!


I'm sure it would look more profound if I wasn't already very obese, but both my partner and I can see a difference. Obviously, I'm bloated from the food and water retention, but I measure 10.5 inches bigger around today than I did Wednesday.
1 year

Thanksgiving

BigBallBellyGirl:
Much appreciated!! That second day of stuffing would not have been possible without my partner, because I wouldn't have had the physical ability to serve myself, heat things, etc. If I had to pick one word to describe how it felt, it would probably be "extreme". There was a point at about 4pm, after eating since 9:00 a.m., that I felt nauseated and needed a two and a half hour break. I actually believed I was probably done for the day, but I surprised myself by picking back up again with gusto. The nausea didn't return, but I did start to sweat profusely that night, and that's when we stopped. Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY. Would I do 2 days in a row? Probably not. We originally we're going to go for a third day today, but that doesn't feel like a good idea or honestly, even physically possible, so I'm going to respect my body's signals and take it easy. I'm very, very bloated, and my body feels significantly heavier (because it is, by 29 pounds, from food and water weight). My balance is a bit off, but I've been trying to get some movement in this morning. I'm also not quite able to sit up properly and have to recline a bit so I can breathe. Would I recommend it to someone else into extreme stuffings? YES, but only someone with a lot of experience and a partner who respects their boundaries.

Munchies:
Ngl, that's super hot. My feedee isn't able to do this, but maybe one day in the distant future.

The size of his belly would be enormous.

29 lbs of food is impressive. I wonder how much you'll weigh once you digest everything.


I'm interested to see that as well. I've eaten very lightly today... Soup and yogurt... Just because I was still completely beyond capacity. I feel less pressure inside, but I think I still look just as bloated. I also got a couple of belly massages out of it too, Which is very nice when you're super sensitive from being overstuffed and distended.
1 year

Thanksgiving

BigBallBellyGirl:
I am! I absolutely love holiday food. I pre-stuffed today to expand my belly as big as possible. Among my stuffings were four stacks of eight pancakes and two large pizzas. My partner and I began prepping for a Thanksgiving meal for six for us to share Friday, although he eats clean and doesn't overindulge. Tomorrow, I'll load up at my parents house and also snack some at home. Last year, I gained 9 lb over the 4-day Thanksgiving weekend. I plan to outdo that this year, and I can't stop thinking about apple pie, stuffing, and mashed potatoes for days.

Nycfa:
After reading many of your wonderful posts, it sounds like you feel a tremendous sense of accomplishment when you manage to consume what even you would consider a ridiculous amount of food. So, maybe use this weekend to dip your toe into the ā€œfantasyā€ you described in your post from the other day. Ask your partner to promise that at any time youā€™re awake, you will be eating. Ask him to promise to not give up if you say youā€™re stuffed. Not to stop if your belly hurts or if you canā€™t take a deep breath. Say you want to push your very limits. Be at the mercy of your belly. Dizzy from literally being able to feel your stomach stretching as you refuse to let your unrelenting over consumption abateā€¦ see if you can gain 20!! šŸ„°šŸ„°šŸ„°

BigBallBellyGirl:
I probably came as close as possible in real life to fulfilling my fantasy. I consumed around 30,000 calories Thursday but well over that on Friday. I'll be taking a bit of a break today, because I have a lot of bloating and swelling and my hands and feet, and I want to let my body recover. I haven't weighed yet, because I know I'm not going to get an accurate reading, but I can tell my gain will be significant, perhaps a record for me.

Friday, on our stuffing day, I had:

- 3 chocolate glazed donuts
- 12 eggs, scrambled with cheese and mushrooms
- 4 pieces of cheese toast
- 1 9x13 pan of stuffing
- 2 8x8 pans of mac and cheese
- 3 servings of whole cranberry sauce
- 1 9x13 pan of broccoli and cheese casserole
- 4 pounds of turkey with gravy
- 6 buttermilk biscuits
- 3 dinner rolls with heavy butter
- large serving of squash casserole
- large serving of wild mushroom rice
- large serving of roasted brussel sprouts
- 3 loaded baked potatoes
- 2 plates of corn casserole
- 1 apple pie
- 1/2 cherry pie with a pint of ice cream
- 1/2 pumpkin pie
- 1 gallon of milk
- 4 liters of orange soda
- 4 glasses of wine

My sweet partner has been waiting on me hand and foot, and even this morning, I'm still having issues with balance and getting from a sitting to a standing position. I'm excited for him to help measure me at the conclusion of the weekend to see how much "damage" I've done!

Munchies:
You really did outdo last year. That's super impressive.

How did it feel to eat about 60k cal? How did you train yourself to eat that much? I'm impressed you still wanted to eat after the first 30k calorie feast.

I remember the aftermath of MochiiBabii's 30k stuffing. She didn't eat much of anything for days after. And you were out here trying to outdo your first round. Mad respect.


Much appreciated!! That second day of stuffing would not have been possible without my partner, because I wouldn't have had the physical ability to serve myself, heat things, etc. If I had to pick one word to describe how it felt, it would probably be "extreme". There was a point at about 4pm, after eating since 9:00 a.m., that I felt nauseated and needed a two and a half hour break. I actually believed I was probably done for the day, but I surprised myself by picking back up again with gusto. The nausea didn't return, but I did start to sweat profusely that night, and that's when we stopped. Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY. Would I do 2 days in a row? Probably not. We originally we're going to go for a third day today, but that doesn't feel like a good idea or honestly, even physically possible, so I'm going to respect my body's signals and take it easy. I'm very, very bloated, and my body feels significantly heavier (because it is, by 29 pounds, from food and water weight). My balance is a bit off, but I've been trying to get some movement in this morning. I'm also not quite able to sit up properly and have to recline a bit so I can breathe. Would I recommend it to someone else into extreme stuffings? YES, but only someone with a lot of experience and a partner who respects their boundaries.
1 year

Thanksgiving

BigBallBellyGirl:
I am! I absolutely love holiday food. I pre-stuffed today to expand my belly as big as possible. Among my stuffings were four stacks of eight pancakes and two large pizzas. My partner and I began prepping for a Thanksgiving meal for six for us to share Friday, although he eats clean and doesn't overindulge. Tomorrow, I'll load up at my parents house and also snack some at home. Last year, I gained 9 lb over the 4-day Thanksgiving weekend. I plan to outdo that this year, and I can't stop thinking about apple pie, stuffing, and mashed potatoes for days.

Nycfa:
After reading many of your wonderful posts, it sounds like you feel a tremendous sense of accomplishment when you manage to consume what even you would consider a ridiculous amount of food. So, maybe use this weekend to dip your toe into the ā€œfantasyā€ you described in your post from the other day. Ask your partner to promise that at any time youā€™re awake, you will be eating. Ask him to promise to not give up if you say youā€™re stuffed. Not to stop if your belly hurts or if you canā€™t take a deep breath. Say you want to push your very limits. Be at the mercy of your belly. Dizzy from literally being able to feel your stomach stretching as you refuse to let your unrelenting over consumption abateā€¦ see if you can gain 20!! šŸ„°šŸ„°šŸ„°


I probably came as close as possible in real life to fulfilling my fantasy. I consumed around 30,000 calories Thursday but well over that on Friday. I'll be taking a bit of a break today, because I have a lot of bloating and swelling and my hands and feet, and I want to let my body recover. I haven't weighed yet, because I know I'm not going to get an accurate reading, but I can tell my gain will be significant, perhaps a record for me.

Friday, on our stuffing day, I had:

- 3 chocolate glazed donuts
- 12 eggs, scrambled with cheese and mushrooms
- 4 pieces of cheese toast
- 1 9x13 pan of stuffing
- 2 8x8 pans of mac and cheese
- 3 servings of whole cranberry sauce
- 1 9x13 pan of broccoli and cheese casserole
- 4 pounds of turkey with gravy
- 6 buttermilk biscuits
- 3 dinner rolls with heavy butter
- large serving of squash casserole
- large serving of wild mushroom rice
- large serving of roasted brussel sprouts
- 3 loaded baked potatoes
- 2 plates of corn casserole
- 1 apple pie
- 1/2 cherry pie with a pint of ice cream
- 1/2 pumpkin pie
- 1 gallon of milk
- 4 liters of orange soda
- 4 glasses of wine

My sweet partner has been waiting on me hand and foot, and even this morning, I'm still having issues with balance and getting from a sitting to a standing position. I'm excited for him to help measure me at the conclusion of the weekend to see how much "damage" I've done!
1 year

Thanksgiving

I am! I absolutely love holiday food. I pre-stuffed today to expand my belly as big as possible. Among my stuffings were four stacks of eight pancakes and two large pizzas. My partner and I began prepping for a Thanksgiving meal for six for us to share Friday, although he eats clean and doesn't overindulge. Tomorrow, I'll load up at my parents house and also snack some at home. Last year, I gained 9 lb over the 4-day Thanksgiving weekend. I plan to outdo that this year, and I can't stop thinking about apple pie, stuffing, and mashed potatoes for days.
1 year

Comments

BigBallBellyGirl:
How did you feel about those comments? I'm a bit envious. I've always been fat, so I'm pretty sure my family low-key anticipates more weight gain each year. Although I'm my biggest ever by a good bit, and I've packed it on this year. I'd love to hear some comments or, at the very least, see some surprised looks.

Morbidly A Beast:
The comments made me feel like the fatty I am now, thereā€™s no question that Iā€™m fat Iā€™m 445 I know to some extent Iā€™m gaining weight but you donā€™t really notice it in the day to day it takes someone who hasnā€™t seen you in a while to notice, it in a weird way was affirming to some extent like itā€™s undeniable even to outsiders Iā€™m a fatty.. I guess a lot of people are walking around on egg shells with regard to my weight or something, itā€™s only been people I know really well who have made comments like this. The first two def through me off guard and left me speechless but the last comment my dad made about not eating all the green bean casserole stuck like thatā€™s something Iā€™d do now lol


We're exactly the same weight! And I know what you mean about thinking people must be walking on eggshells. As a culture, we've stopped commenting on people's size, and that's a good thing, because most people refrain out of respect. Even when I gained 80 pounds in just over 2 months, no one but my partner said a word. A little disappointing! I put a lot of work into all that fat! Lol
1 year