I don't think that everyone understands HAES. Basically, it is getting the doctor to treat your problems without blowing you off, and telling you to go on a diet and come back when you are thin. I know one woman who told her doctor that she wanted to be as healthy as she could at the size she was at. Feedees are quite different from most large size people, but make up a very tiny percentage. For most large size people, diets do more harm than they do good. The typical lose ten pounds and regain fifteen over and over again until someone is super size. The body tends to adjust its metabolism downward to accommodate reduction in food intake. There are no diseases that only large people get, so there is no reason a doctor should guarantee weight loss will automatically cure a problem.
7 years
Show him the obesity tables. Take him to a plus size clothing store.
7 years
Some people think that all they need to do is to convince their partners that they find fat attractive, and that will make everything OK. However, some people just don't like being fat, no matter who and how many find them attractive. Of course, not everyone who wants to be thin can be thin.
7 years
I'm totally confused. Who is she? Is she a feedee?
7 years
From my observations, threads sometimes get moved if they are posted in the wrong place. I am sure if you post something totally out of line, it will be deleted. If a thread is going down hill (turning into fighting and insults), the thread is locked, but not deleted. There are also some things that the regulars will not tolerate, and will state their opinions to the point that the original poster deletes his post. These are things like secret feeding, etc.
7 years
I'm the opposite. I love it when women plan to gain more weight, and buy clothes with extra room to gain.
7 years
LoopsnBloops:
So in highschool I was with a cute blond girl for a bit that had a gifted chest area. I didn't really get with her and years later got a text asking to meet up again. To my shock she had piled on about a hundred pounds. Her chest pillowing over her dress, hips bulging outwards and a belly that was quite clear. It's one of the hottest things that I've been through.
Don't leave us hanging. Did you get back with her? Did you tell her you like her new size?
7 years
Those tests out there are either click bait, or they are trying to get your personal information. If you want to know what kind of feeder or feedee someone is, just ask them.
7 years
If she does not want to gain, you should not be feeding her.
7 years
I love big or average. I'm not really into small ones, because the chest tends to look very "boyish." But there are a lot more things to judge BBWs on than just areolas.
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