Munchies:
The thing is, nothing is inherently dominant or submissive. It all comes down to how you frame things. Even being muscular isn't inherently dominant (e.g. servants).
Tentacles:
Being seen as a sign of power is also not always the same as being viewed positively. Satirical cartoons are a good example of this.
I was talking in the context of kink. In this specific situation, I'd assume everything is safe, sane, and consensual instead of being in an abusive situation.
If we are talking about outside of kinks and fetishes, there's a laundry list of example of people in all shapes and sizes abusing their authority or not being well liked.
2 years
The thing is, nothing is inherently dominant or submissive. It all comes down to how you frame things. Even being muscular isn't inherently dominant (e.g. servants).
2 years
I think it's great that there are plus-sized sororities. It's good that these women have their safe spaces. That being said, I think it's a bad idea to have a fetish-based sorority. The moment you make things sex-based, things get really messy really fast.
It doesn't matter what the fetish is. It will end poorly for everything - and probably turn into a brothel with the members being abused and trafficked.
2 years
Daddysfeeder15:
Give in, give up. Don’t exercise just be a fatty
I never fully understood this style of encouragement. Personally, I feel like getting fat should be a source of pleasure. This feels more like saying "You're fat because you don't have what it takes to be thin."
Not bashing people who are into this kind of degradation, but it feels weird springing it on a stranger who didn't consent to it.
2 years
Gainerfeedee:
So I know I've been having health issues related to my weight/diet/lifestyle, and decided to start light exercising again to mitigate my extremely sedentary lifestyle atm.
I'm looking for something like a treadmill or maybe a stationary bike for my apartment. I still want to keep gaining, so I'd like one that goes up to at least 400 lbs, preferably more but above that you get really expensive afaik.
Does anyone have any product recommendations?
Please don't comment that there are alternatives like gym memberships, walking/biking for free, light exercises to do without equipment. I do know that and I'm looking for something because I don't want to leave my apartment, I want something that will remind and motivate me to use it daily, among other reasons.
Take a look into resistance bands. They are cheap, easy to store and move, and you can do a lot of different exercises with the same bands. I like to use them when I am at my desk at work.
I'd also look into getting a no-frills fitness watch. I use this one:
www.fitbit.com/global/us/products/trackers/inspire2
2 years
Zibtronians:
Hey do any of you guys have any family members or friends who you might suspect of being a feedee or a feeder
Not gonna lie. I don't even want to think about my family members in any sexual capacity - not even vanilla sex.
2 years
Jiggle Junkie:
Inspired by some recent abuse reports (Thanks to FF community members who submit those!), i’m wondering about options for programming into the system the ability for a member to set up auto-blocks of other members based upon certain parameters.
One might be empty profiles. New members have those, but so do many scammers. Some members may want to block empty profiles automatically and preemptively.
Or maybe a member has no interest in chatting offline (or on FF maybe too), so might want to block any profiles with Kik or Snapchat. Legitimate members use those, but so do a majority of the serious scammers.
Just a few random ideas. I’ve not thought this through deeply yet, so please post other ideas and unintended consequences of my suggestions.
Honestly, it would just be easier not to limit blocking to 15 people for non-paying users. But the site owner has said he doesn't like the idea of users blocking huge swaths of people.
I'm sure there's a valid reason behind this thinking. After all, I'm sure nothing bad would happen with making it harder to avoid interacting with a user that you don't want to interact with. And I'm sure that he or someone on the admin staff would gladly clarify this line of thought.
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I’ve been putting off seeing the dermatologist, regular doc said too. I have really bad yeast stain things under my rolls and folds and pretty much anywhere my skin touches :/ I recommend it if you have the insurance for sure!
I'm a diabetic. When I was younger, I had trouble keeping my blood sugar in check. I'd get frequent yeast infections, and it was hell.
I'm sure I'm not saying anything you haven't already been told before, but please get yourself checked. Don't worry if your doctor tells you you need to lose weight. There is more to your health than the numbers on the scale. Don't ignore this.
2 years
BigBellyBurgerBoy1:
And the next thing you know you've gained 200+ pounds 😳
*glances at you*
2 years
Sl2010:
And then you turn the energy inwards and feed yourself. And then you can’t stop because it feels so damn good.
The feeder-to-feedee pipeline summed up in one post.
2 years