Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful

Munchies:
It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.

Hurgon:
Definitely.

It was often a sign of wealth too - access to more and better food, no need to do the physical labour, etc. I don't know whether this is still the case in some cultures and parts of the world. A lot of portraits from the eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries draw attention to the swell and straining buttons around the subject's paunch.

Tentacles:
I do wonder if some women see their hubbies having big paunch as complimentary to their cooking.


As a woman living in the American South, I can vouch for that being a thing.
2 years

Maxing out gaining for a few days

Ilikesushi:
I've got a few days free, so wanted to experiment and see how much I could gain within a short amount of time. Kind of like a challenge? If you could call it that. Was just wondering if anyone knew the best way to go about doing this?

Munchies:
What is your current capacity? Do you have any barriers that will make an all-day stuffing difficult? Any dietary restrictions?

Ilikesushi:
My current capacity is pretty normal (unfortunately). I can polish off a medium-sized, veggie pizza with some effort. It really depends on the kind of food. Instant ramen digests fast, so do drinks.

I feel lucky to say I have no dietary restrictions.

As for the difficulty bit, I'll be walking around a lot and I won't have an allotted time to eat, so I'll mostly be eating on-the-go. The times I can see myself actually being able to sit down for a meal are early morning or late evening.


Reading back on this, it doesn't look like my plans are in my favor. 😅


Don't binge on instant ramen or anything else that's high in sodium. You'll feel gross, bloated, and swollen if you do.

I don't think you'll be able to gain much (if at all) in these circumstances, but you can at least prevent weight loss.

Get you a large stash of snacks - anything you like - and eat them throughout the day. If you can stop for lunch, get something that is cheap and high in calories. Also, get a bunch of sports drinks to have while you are out.
2 years

Maxing out gaining for a few days

Ilikesushi:
I've got a few days free, so wanted to experiment and see how much I could gain within a short amount of time. Kind of like a challenge? If you could call it that. Was just wondering if anyone knew the best way to go about doing this?


What is your current capacity? Do you have any barriers that will make an all-day stuffing difficult? Any dietary restrictions?
2 years

Developing strong cravings

J8o8h8n:
I've noticed something that's happening after days of stuffing myself full of fast food. When I try to take a bit of a break from it, I get the strong urge to get some. Like today, on my drive home from work I was hungry, and it took an absurd amount of willpower to not take a detour to get more McDonald's. Honestly, I might go out in a few to get some lol.

Is this something else other people have dealt with before? I imagine this is how people end up not being able to stop gaining.


In fairness, you did go out of your way to develop a fast food addiction.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful

Munchies:
It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.

Hurgon:
Definitely.

It was often a sign of wealth too - access to more and better food, no need to do the physical labour, etc. I don't know whether this is still the case in some cultures and parts of the world. A lot of portraits from the eighteenth and early nineteenth centuries draw attention to the swell and straining buttons around the subject's paunch.


It's still a thing in some developing countries, but that's disappearing thanks to colonialism and westernization.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Strongerthanyou:
It's definitely a sign of submission in my eyes... Don't see how a round soft tire of around your waist can be perceived as powerful


It really depends. For some, being big means being powerful. They get to literally throw their weight around. Have you ever heard of squashing? It's a kink where someone bigger than you crushes you under their weight. You see it more on Dimensions than on FF.

Then you have dominant feedees with submissive feeders. The feeders wait on the feedee hand and foot while the feedee indulges as much as they want.
2 years

Big bellies a sign of power?

Breedingpig:
That said, I can't say I've ever thought of a large belly as a murder weapon. That's a new one for me.

Nofbar:
Well, there was that case a few years ago of the 1000+ pound woman who was pressured by her sister into taking the blame for a murder.


That's messed up.
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
As predicted and only took 4 minutes.

Munchies:
What can I say? You might be a middle-aged man, but you can still end up in a ditch.

Bisubpig:
the double-down... smiley

Munchies:
You confuse me, sir. I'm not even saying you shouldn't do the thing. I just said to be careful.

Is it wrong that I want people to live out their fetishes in a safe way?

Bisubpig:
I am being rude. It's just that I included a line in the post because certain people cannot help themselves. Let me ask you something. I've spent 4 years and about $840K on this project. Wouldn't you think that I would have put tons of my time and energy into that aspect of it? In the midst of all these months, wouldn't you guess that I had spent hours thinking of the worst case scenarios and how they could be mitigated (quite easily, by the way). And after all this time and effort, would your warning actually save the day in the event of a serial killer stalking horny fat guys on FF? I applaud you for wanting safety for other people. That cannot be achieved by stating the obvious. But really, its rude of me. I didn't mean to attack you.


As far as I can see, you are new to FF. There are some people who are like me - just wanting the best for people. But there are also a lot of other people on here that are predatory. A lot of these people are in your age range.

I've seen people interact with certain users and they run off the site - people of all genders. If you think that I am a nosy, busybody who needs to mind her business, then fine. You can think what you want. I simply don't want harm to befall you. This is my overall goal when interacting with most people on this site.

I'm a sadistic domme who survived an abusive upbringing. I've seen some things. I've been through some things. I don't want that for other people. I am always mindful of the power I have over my subs. But I have also spoken to a lot of other doms who do not have that mindfulness.

Besides, I doubt that you'd get shanked by a serial killer. My concern was with meeting up with a dom(me) feeder that will ... portray themselves as decent only for you to end up in an abusive situation. This is not a comment about you so much as it is a comment about some of the users on the site.

This is not an attack or judgment towards you. This is a mere heads-up.
2 years

Life on the farm

Bisubpig:
As predicted and only took 4 minutes.

Munchies:
What can I say? You might be a middle-aged man, but you can still end up in a ditch.

Bisubpig:
the double-down... smiley


You confuse me, sir. I'm not even saying you shouldn't do the thing. I just said to be careful.

Is it wrong that I want people to live out their fetishes in a safe way?
2 years