As a general rule of thumb, if you aren't enjoying yourself, don't do it.

I generally discourage rapid weight gain for two reasons: it's hard on the body, and sometimes, it's hard to make it stick.

For example, when I met my current partner, he was about 407. I fattened him up to about 500 lbs within a year. However, he couldn't handle the weight, and we stopped. Within 4 months, he was down to about 430. This is largely due to not stuffing him all the time.

So, do you want rapid gains that you may not be able to keep? Or do you want the pounds to stick?

I'm navel neutral. However, I love seeing how things change as people grow. So, seeing a navel deepen, widen, or even disappear as some gains is such a turn on.

It's possible, but if you are planning to get pregnant, I'd give yourself some more time to get there. If only so that you don't over tax your body. Getting fat is hard work. And getting fat fast is even harder.

My guy, gender expression is not the same thing as gender.

For example, if you are attracted to masculine men, you are not going to date a masculine woman. So, if he likes femininity on men, but isn't attracted to women, it makes no sense to date a woman.

This ☝️☝️☝️

I cannot overstate how important it is for every feedee to understand this. If you won't gain weight unless you have someone who is attracted to you for it, you are going to be miserable.

Feeders are nice, but don't just gain because we want you to. It's your body, and you have to live in it.

That's hardly messed up. And you're far from the only person who likes feminine curves on men.

Doesn't gotta be. Even a starter belly can shake like that.

Do you mean belly dancing?

Here is an example:

youtube.com/shorts/3-RlRmYshCQ

I experienced something like that but as a feeder.

Normally, my hard limit is whatever my partner's hard limit is. I'm a domme, a sadist, and enjoy extreme weight gain. But when you get a partner who loves it as intensely as you can give it? Really hard to say no.