Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?

FatLime:
To me, sugar free sodas taste disgusting and the aftertaste is like someone died.

HappyBigBelly:
Sounds like preferences are changing on both sides and a change is needed?

Morbidly A Beast:
Let the man have a soda if that’s what he wants 😭

but I get it it’s not the best for you, juice isn’t that much better. Is diet soda an option?

NoMoYoYo:
I'll admit I haven't done much exercise at all since starting this gain. I go on short walks and took my kids swimming twice but thats about it. I haven't touched a weight or other strength training since the beginning of July.

LuvsChub04:
that my blood was like pancake batter due to high cholesterol n my triglycerides were way to high...yet my family is way worse then a doc

Morbidly A Beast:
Just keep it mind that some people are genetically predisposed to stuff like diabetes, high blood pressure, and bad cholesterol and weight gain can just act as a catalyst rather than the culprit.

ForeverFFA:
Very true, and while specific dietary choices play a role, I think each individual person needs to evaluate their unique risks when it comes to gaining. Some people simply are healthier at higher weights than others (and vice versa). Maybe this sounds too preachy, but I really hope that intentional weight gain is not a decision that anyone is taking lightly. At the same time, it makes me angry to hear how dehumanizing doctors can be about this stuff.

NoMoYoYo:
Today I tucked in my shirt. I was out and about just to try it to see how I felt. I was at the mall briefly, had lunch at Wendy's and then did groceries. It was definitely out of my comfort zone, but it was okay. I think it looked good. I will try it again soon. It was for sure easier to do in front of strangers. I'm not ready to do it at work yet.

Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more

Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.

In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.


The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.

The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.

The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.

It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.

NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.

Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.

NoMoYoYo:
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.

Munchies:
It's all about finding that balance. Eat the junk food, but don't give up the healthy food. Have you ever spoke to a person on an all junk food diet? They're not doing so hot.

They can't think straight. Their emotions are all over the place. They barely function and often abandon things that used to make them happy. And they often experience health issues at much lower weights. It's really sad to see when they have all these issues and they don't even weight 180 lbs.

NoMoYoYo:
I can understand that. I do eat a fairly balanced diet. Well maybe not totally balanced, but I do eat fruits and vegetables. Yesterday I had one of those bagged salads which was over 650 calories. When I'm in gaining I still have those, but I add a lot of junk. And to be honest I've had minimal issues at the doctors other than the normal needling about my weight...wonder what he would have said at my highest? My highest recorded there was about 15lbs less.

Mrman1980uk:
The most effective way - ultimately - of avoiding anything more than having your time wasted by scammers is never to send people money.

Bathisum:
This right here is the best advice for new people online.

Munchies:
It's good advice for anyone.

It doesn't happen to me often because I am a woman, but I do get the occasional request because I am a feeder. I won't say that you should never give someone money online. I met my partner here, and I buy him food from time to time. But I didn't do that until I'd known him for a while. Plus, he also buys me things.

That said, if you do decide to give someone money, you are taking a risk. And no matter how smart you are, you are not immune to scamming.

As a general guideline, don't give money to strangers, don't think with your crotch, and if it feels off, it probably is.

2seatsalways:
This right here.

Believe it or not there are legitimately feedees here. If you build a trust or a relationship absolutely go at your own risk.

However, anyone who asks me to feed them and I barely know them, usually won't be talking with me for long.

Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more

Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.

In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.


The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.

The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.

The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.

It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.

NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.

Munchies:
It's really hard to stop doing something you find extremely pleasurable. Some people can do it, but most can't. That's why it's better to wean yourself off of things.

NoMoYoYo:
Ain't that the truth. When I was eating healthy and lost weight I mostly stayed away from junk food because I know how pleasurable it can be. Along comes summer and a little bit turned into a little bit more which turned into a lot more. It's so addicting.

Ferro1986:
This is why it’s so hard to stop/slow down once you really lean into this. I’m rarely fully satisfied by a normal meal but rarely can truly give in. Add to the fact that getting stuffed is a sexual release for me, it’s truly an addiction to keep eating more and more

Munchies:
So true. If you need/want to slow down or stop the gain train, you can't do it cold turkey. You can try, but it won't end well.

In my experience, it's best to do a step-down method. It can take about a month. So if you have a weight limit, it's good to start when you are getting close.


The first week, my feedee isn't allowed to get stuffed. He can eat as much as he likes, but he can't stuff himself. Easier said than done depending on how much you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle.

The second week is about eating cleaner. You aren't worried about portion sizes at this point, but you are cutting out or reducing the trash you ate during your stuffing/gaining cycle. You should also make sure you are drinking plenty of water during this time too.

The third and fourth weeks should be dedicated to slowly reducing your portion sizes. If you've done everything correctly this part will not be as difficult.

It's also good to de-center feedism for your sexual release. Find additional ways to get off. That way, if and when you can't indulge yourself by stuffing your face, you can still get off.

NoMoYoYo:
This is where I struggle -trying to do it cold turkey. I will try this strategy...starting next week lol.