Zarathustra:
There's very low 'supply' of real, actual feeders, demand is disproportionately high. Seems like even being fed itself is a privilege a very few experience.

LydiaFatOttter:
Sadly it is worst male feedees and it sucks for them

Munchies:
As a female feeder, I struggle to have empathy for the male feedee plight - specifically the straight ones. From where I sit, it's a problem of their own making.

Don't get me wrong. There are some genuinely good dudes out there that are out here struggling. If you're one of those, I'm not talking about you.

I can't tell you just how many times a male feedee or mutual gainer has slid into my DMs and been horrible to me. They think they're entitled to my time, body, and mind. At best, they're so desperate that they come off as creepy and clingy. At worst, I get lock-you-up-in-my-basement vibes.

Sometimes, they even come out the gate with the crazy. It was at it's worst when I was new, but most people know better than to step to me like that. But I still get the creeps when I pop into chat. They don't even back off when I tell them I'm not interested or I have a feedee boyfriend. Lots of blatant requests to be my side hoe because they want a girl with a pulse to fatten them up.

I'm a special kind of crazy, so I can handle them just fine. But your average female feeder or FA is just going to leave. It's a snake eating it's tail. They are so desperate for female feeders that they chase off the female feeders that do so up.

It's sadder when they harass the gay ones. Like, my guy. She is a lesbian. You never had a chance, to begin with.

Now, I can't speak for the gay male feedees. Someone else will have to speak for them.

LydiaFatOttter:
Yeah, I don't hate the good ones, but they know who they are.

Men who don't understand the social order and just want to gain stuff.

They also don't understand how men and women select mates in other ways, and that girls don't want the things that dudes like.

Of course, doing this with other men works out fine, to be honest, even better in hetero relationships, as they are both fully eager whenever.

Straight men acting like gay men towards women means it just won't work.

I hate it, and what's worse, those people are the ones firing off the most DMs, PMs, and replies, as they can't find someone.

LydiaFatOttter:
but what i mean is ive been at 270lbs yet i keep getting bigger.

i dont think im losing muscle tho

Christina5464:
I've always had this kink, but what is confusing about it for me is I like my current slim body and I only want to gain weight when I get turned on. I have tried briefly experimenting but it never lasts because of the post nut clarity. Has anybody else felt similar. Even being on sites like this make me feel a little weird as I feel it is an odd kink to have.

LydiaFatOttter:
I've got more stretch marks, and I feel my tummy is getting bigger. I feel softer, but I've been at 275 for the last few months.

My scale doesn't go higher, but I look fatter when I look in the mirror.

Zarathustra:
There's very low 'supply' of real, actual feeders, demand is disproportionately high. Seems like even being fed itself is a privilege a very few experience.

LydiaFatOttter:
Sadly it is worst male feedees and it sucks for them

Ex Jock:
It def happens but it’s rare. It’s still a pretty taboo fetish to “normies” (for lack of a better word) and unless you live in a city or urban area it’s going to be tough. Combine that with the amount of blank/fake/catfish profiles on sites like these, that reduces the pool even more.

It’s tough but def not impossible

Honeywithuhhtummy:
Cuz having a feeder is just a fantasy 😭

Fatmanrocker:
I don’t think this idea will take off like you think it will and I’m not saying this to try and be mean but unless you’re willing to play the long game, (and I mean years apon years) this will not work out for you unless you’re the next MrBeast in terms of marketing lol

There are a few different ways you could make this work depending on your niche. But just doing challenge videos won’t be enough especially in the gaming scene. People will get bored with that real quick unless you’re constantly innovating. Not only that but you’d be competing against hundreds of thousands of other creators in that niche who are doing normal gaming content or other challenge style content it’s almost impossible, unless you have some value that is truly unique

You could try to go the ASMR/muckbag route there are tons of Youtubers, who have done that and are highly successful

you could try to do edutainment (educational entertainment style of content) kinda like matpat or (insert YouTuber here who does educational Contant) basically you could create educational videos about feedism to try and inform/enlighten people about this fetish maybe throw in there tips on gaining. But understand that you will get massive backlash not only from trolls and everything else, but also from other Youtubers and people will make videos of you ridiculing your ideals

You could also do cookbook reviews and mix that with the ASMR/muckbang niche you could show yourself cooking the food and all the delicious audio that comes from cooking the food after you’re done cooking the different foods, you can sit down and eat them and describe how they taste and which, foods you would recommend from the book and why. it doesn’t necessarily have to relate to feederism but it would help feeders and feedees and you never run out of content to make because there’s always new cookbooks coming out hell there’s 100s video game cookbooks you could try if you really want to be in the gaming niche

Thumbnails are only a 4th of the game. remember that YouTube is a search engine SEO really matters it goes thumbnails, title, description, tags in order of importance click bait thumbnails are NOT the key to success BUT they can help if your thumbnail does not represent what the video is in the first five seconds of the video you will have a massive drop off in viewer retention, which will then cause YouTube to stop pushing out your video. your main goal with each and every video should be to get 1% better at retaining your viewership not necessarily trying to get to 1 million if you become a master of retain in your audience, you can hit 1 million subscribers easily but if you focus on trying to get 1 million subscribers and not understand your viewers retention you will get nowhere fast

…. Sorry for the text dump. Lol just thought I would throw in some quick advice since were talking about YouTube stuff. I wish you the best of luck, no matter what you do and I agree with what munchies said. Lol also sorry if this doesn’t make much sense it’s extremely late where I am XD

MickRidem:
Interesting! I had no idea how all that worked. Learn something new every day! 😁 🐄 Thank you both!

Piggingout4eva:
I would be very happy being kept as a breeding cow for a master. Forced to eat and pump milk everyday.

MickRidem:
Reading this made me curious and it's an odd question but I'll throw it out there... Is there a market for that milk? Like, could you make a living providing that regularly?

It was a wild thought that popped into my head, being a cow for a living... for real.