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Renaissancebxtch:
Because you're both slow and bothered and you clearly both need counseling don't trauma dump on my post I'm not here for it lmaooo and it's clearly not the place since I'm so abusive. Period point blank now say off my page


No one trauma dumped. We just called you out. Big difference.

Love the double down. It's a cute look for you.
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The whole thing is hilarious, really. As I've frequently mentioned in the forums, I am autistic and an abuse survivor. So there's something deliciously hilarious about because called slow for calling out abuse.
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Renaissancebxtch:
Honestly for those getting mad and upset it's a roleplay. Like I obviously stated what I wanted so that anyone who messages me is prepared.

Ace Of Spadez:
Instead of sending me a message calling me slow. I highly advise you say to me what u need to say to me on this forum.

Don’t let that keyboard make u feel emboldened.

I want to know why u messaged me with the subject calling me slow.

I would advise you don’t insult me before u encounter issues.


She sent me a message entitled slow too. I find it funny. Says a lot about her as a person.

Let's see here.

She makes a post about wanting to be in an abusive relationship as the abuser.

Two people call her out.

She insults them in private while publically saying "it's just an RP".

It's truly hilarious. Gaslight, gatekeep, girlboss.
2 years

Pics of guys

ForeverFFA:
I've personally always wished there was more content where guys were trying to look good - i.e., well-trimmed facial hair and nice clothing. Not really a fan of the sweatpants/couch potato look, although I totally understand that some people are.

There's fashion blogs out there that are specifically designed for big guys.


Yeah, there are a lot of guys who look like they rolled out of bed or crawled under a bridge. Unkempt beards, hair not combed, dressing like it's laundry day. Not saying you need to look like a fashion model, but it would be nice to put some effort into things.
2 years

Pics of guys

Ex Jock:
Yeah another thing, at least that I’ve found, is it takes awhile to gain so not going to look noticeably fatter if a frequent poster. But waiting between posts until you do can be boring or take awhile


That's a boring way to go about it.

You don't have to post just progress pics. If anything, it's good to have variety. Take a look at the female fetish models. They find ways to keep things interesting - even when they are maintaining or losing weight.
2 years

Vanilla dating

Mrman1980uk:
Who else finds that it's hard to be motivated with vanilla dating after speaking to or even meeting people here?


Very curious as to what you mean by vanilla dating. Do you mean dating a non-feedist? Or do you mean having a relationship that doesn't center feedism?

The former just requires good communication, an open mind on both ends, and a willingness to find the middle ground. I'd argue the second is just an aspect of healthy dating.

Or do you mean something else?
2 years

Feeling groggy

NYCBellyBlimp:
Apple/Orange Juice/Gatorade does it 4 me. Kickstart is good too, though I wouldn't drink it everyday as it's less effective as an energy drink over time.


The power of the sugar high. Never underestimate it.
2 years

Gaining and lifting

Ex Jock:
Yeah only a matter of time and consistency is key. But dang if it isn’t fun and satisfying growing and seeing progress. Never thought I’d ‘let myself go’ like this let alone want even more and more


There's a euphoria you feel when you finally embrace the thing you've long denied yourself.

It feels good.
2 years

Conditioned to associate sex with food?

Munchies:
... But they say that you can make anything a habit within 21 days. So there's that.

MickRidem:
...But if in some way, doing even more intense training than I could realistically do, it's awesome to see that a month is *possible* to achieve results.

If I ever did this, I would track it and keep a record. Pavlov training is just SO COOL. 🐖🍆🤣🔥

Munchies:
You could eat every time you masturbate. Or you can tell your husband what you want and see what he comes up with. Considering how the game went, I think he'd be on board.

MickRidem:
🤔🤔🤔
I don't want to be seriously caught getting horny *every time* I eat, there are many situations, including at work, where this would not be ideal. LOL! If I could keep it to stuffing (and tbh that may have already started) and a specific food, that's more manageable and realistic for me. I still want a LITTLE control. 🤣 But yes, the game went very well. I'll have to have a chat with him soon about this kind of training. 🔥


My partner doesn't get horny every time he eats. I'd say 99% of the time, eating doesn't arouse him. It's the other way around. He gets horny, and then he gets hungry.

Think of it like this. If you see a sex toy, most people will not get horny. But if you see a sex toy in the context of sex, you get horny.

These days, the link isn't as strong as it was. He is capable of getting horny without the desire to stuff his face. But it's better when he's stuffed.
2 years

Gaining and lifting

Super sexy.

MickRidem:
Dear GODS if I could snap my fingers and be this...

Munchies:
All in good time, Mick. All in good time.

MickRidem:
🐖🏋‍♂️ I know this *logically*...
Lift big, eat big. Sigh... 🤣

I AM already much bigger than in 2019, so I have to keep that in mind. 👍


Progress!
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