Sjd8763:
Has anyone had any luck trying to gain more just in certain areas, instead of wherever the fat happens to go? I want my weight gain to start going more to my butt, hips and thighs instead of just to my belly. I've considered waist trainers but with as much belly as I already have, I kind of think that will just end up giving me a bigger lower paunch. A bigger apron belly doesn't sound terrible 😏 But I'd really like to direct things towards my behind if at all possible! Thanks for any suggestions!

Chipperpansy:
Lots of people find size differences between partners a bit weird, but I've found it to be appealing. I'd say it's psychological. As a very small person, fatter and taller people give me a sense of comfort and protection, plus it's hot thinking about how someone could easily overpower you. I'm sure at least some people relate (I'm new here, so I'm not sure what all people are into on this platform).

Anjou:
My fiancé wants to do a rapid gain before our wedding in October. He really had no health issues from his 50lb gain over a few weeks last fall he told me last night (which was confirmed by his annual checkup, but the wheezing and heavy breathing he did made me afraid af for him at the time he was drinking over a quart of cream a day)and seems to really becoming more of a gainer again(but with healthy food like nuts and whole grains) since I went on Wegoy after we got engaged in April and am really getting thin for the first in my life. And since we are both really getting turned on by the contrast, I might ok a rapid summer weight gain with heavy cream

RoundRosy:
Had to buy a top today that I tore when trying on….. This only happened once before when I was like 14. Woman working the area said something to me like I should keep the top for when I lose a few pounds. And had a smirky smile as she said that. I quickly left and dropped the top in a collection bin. Then got McDonald’s in the way home…..

S3ndh3lp:
What constitutes dirty talk to you in this fetish?

Munchies:
There's actually a lot more body diversity in male and female bodies. I'm not sure why so many people thing that men only gain one way or women only gain another when there's so much evidence to the contrary.

For example, I knew this guy at work that had the most exaggerated pear shape I ever saw. From his torso up, he looked like he was in the low 200s. But he looked twice as big from the ass down.

Curiousv:
"There are more right-handed people than left handed ones."
"No, you are wrong! There is so much evidence to the contrary! For example, I know this guy who is left-handed."

Anjou:
My fiancé can really handle the cream, and he can pack on easy 12lbs a week consuming it

ILuvChubbyChix:
12?!

Are you sure that's not fluid/water retention?

Can I also guess this means he probably works 100% remote?

Munchies:
Based on my interaction with a previous feedee, it's possible. However, you have to go balls to the walls hard to achieve that. We're talking an excess of 10k calories a day. We were horny and dumb.

It's not sustainable, and it can mess up your internals. I do not recommend it.

Anjou:
I am sure a fair amount was water. But yes he was hitting around 10,000 kcal a day when he was working from home.
And no it is not healthy, hence not done anymore. Ngl though…watching him gain that fast was the hottest thing I have ever witnessed.

Munchies:
Oh yeah, it was super hot. I'm into extreme weight gain, so seeing him blow up like mad was really arousing.

However, he was reckless with this health, and that's one of the many reasons he's no longer my feedee.

Nofbar:
How much and fast did he gain? What happened to make this stop?

Munchies:
In half a year, he'd gained about 100 lbs. He got obsessed with heavy cream shakes. He'd consume about 10k of the stuff daily at the bare minimum.

The problem is that he stopped eating solid foods. Everything was about getting as fat as fast as possible. And in his mind, drinking his calories made more sense than eating.

There was a noticeable behavior shift as well. When we first met, he was this funny, thoughtful nerd with many interests. He was doing well in life overall. But about two or three months into being like this, he left all his responsibilities to the wayside.

His cognitive skills nose-dived. He was making a lot of dumb decisions, and we got into a lot of arguments. If I had enough sense, I'd have dumped him at this time. But I felt responsible, so I stayed.

Unfortunately, he started pulling away from me and ignoring my requests for medical updates. I wanted to make sure he stayed relatively healthy. He wanted to keep getting fat. And I also suspect there was an element of shame too. Kept going on about how he didn't deserve me.

Eventually, I had to make peace that this was going nowhere good and ended the relationship. I don't know if he actually stopped.

DMVGrower:
Wow that is concerning, sort of sounds like he got caught up in the whole thing. I mean 100 lbs in half a year is astronomical.

Munchies:
You made a mistake when you shortened my response. You attributed my words to someone else.


Nofbar:
Whoops! Fixed.

Fattenssbbws:
I agree with your sentiments. I maintained an athletic build for years and always encouraged the women I was with to gain weight but I never really understood what they were going through. I decided at the beginning of last year that I was going to put on some weight just to see what it was like.

Originally it was going to be a one month gain. I weighed 165 at the time. Next thing I know, I'm going to my yearly physical at the beginning of September and I weighed 206. I lost some weight just by reforming to my normal eating habits and by December 2022 I was down to 195. I decided to start gaining again and I'm currently 207 but would like to hit at least 215 by the time I go in for my next physical at the beginning of September. I've noticed certain things I used to take for granted like tying my shoes is hard to do now. I do like the white stretch marks that I now have on my thighs, hips, and butt that were never there before but I'm disappointed I don't have any on my belly since that is what shows the greatest gain. I don't know how to get them because I've already gained rapidly. Also, my belly has softened from my original gain when it was much firmer but I'd like for my tummy to be more flabby and jelly-like if anyone has any suggestions on that.

I feel like I have a lot more empathy now though for BBWs than I had before my own gain.