Slixxx666:
We chatted. Thank you all for the advice.

Primal23:
The saying goes "you can't out run your fork". Weight loss is like 80-90% what you eat and that last bit is exercise. Exercise overall is great and healthy, for the most part. So him getting more of it is a good thing. As you mentioned, unless he is doing intense long workouts there is most likely nothing to worry about. On the contrary, many people gain weight when they start working out. They over estimate how many calories they burn exercising. They then feel that can have an extra treat that blows away the calories they just burned and then some. Which your BF seems to have done.
Of course, supporting him in whatever path he chooses is the way to go. Does he know that you like that he gained weight? Honest communication is the best solution. Overall, I wouldn't worry to much. Weight loss takes time and a lot of work. Without some serious dietary changes I don't think the scale is gonna be going down for him. Quite the opposite actually lol. Take care!

Biffa:
Thanks for your response Yes, I support whatever he wants to do with his body and ultimately want him to be healthy, which I've told him. He does know about my preferences and has been ok with letting me encourage him to gain, within reason. Although he does get insecure from time to time, he doesn't seem interested in losing weight at this point.

GrafenbergsPunkt:
Why cant the stories be sorted by number of views? I remember that this was a feature some time ago, not to mention the number of views is listed in the story details so I cant imagine why it's excluded from the search parameters.
Also, being able to sort by story length/chapter count would be a nice bonus.

Similarly, in videos, being able to search by length would be nice. And related to the search by date- having a date, or at least month/year tagged in the video info would be much preferred to the "X months ago"

Natatat:
Does anyone else get uncomfortable when weight gain comes up in random conversation? Like when it starts to feel like hey here is stuff you write about and get off too right here randomly and now you have to pretend it doesn’t affect you? That keeps happening to me. Everytime I want to ask more questions but I get super uncomfortable and kinda agitated. It makes me feel like they know or I’m being made fun of. Like my neighbor I feel like has now randomly started playing with his belly in front of me just to mess with me. He actually does know. But honestly it just randomly comes up with people.

Admirer22:
I'm a 23 year old gay man and I've been in a lovely and healthy relationship with my boyfriend for almost 1 year.
He was a little bit chubby when we first met, around 88 kgs and 1,83 cm, and definitely pear-shaped with pretty wide thighs and a big butt (my ideal body type).

After just a few months of dating he started gaining more and more weight and now weighs around 110 kgs. He's not huge, but he's almost twice my size considered that I'm pretty short and very toned (1,72cm and 60 kgs). Most of that weight has gone to his thighs and butt, but he does have a nice belly too. He's very self conscious about his weight gain, but doesn't really mind it and doesn't want to loose it, or at least that's what it seems. He's always been very lazy when it comes to practicing sports and he's a food lover.

The thing is... he doesn't know that I have a huge kink for fat men and I don't know if I should tell him that I adore how chubby he's getting. I always tell him that I love him regardless of his weight, and that's true, but I do find him more physically attractive now that he has put on some extra weight. What should I do??

RobbyP:
Having a straight man's body and mind and leaning "dominant", I can only imagine, and will do so. Rather than say, "I want you to gain more weight.", it would probably be more pleasant and more open of you to say, "I'm really turned on by your weight gain."

TCC:
So I've recently been struggling with wanting to share some of my stories and interests with my beat friend who knows generally what I'm into. I struggle to be totally open. Part of it is because my friend is plus sized, and already playfully teases me like I'm into her, or some particularly "fat" things she does around me. I don't want things to be weird, but I do want the ability to talk about it.

I'd love to hear others' experience with people knowing how kinky they are.

Munchies:
How to live your best life at 400+ lbs.

Spoop Skerry:
Oh, that's pretty good too.
Just make sure you walk often enough to ensure you still can, and eat, and eat, and eat!

PapaBearsPower:
Well.

I think I've always liked men's burps . And honestly, I don't even know why. I wonder if you can explain why if you have the same kink.

Spoop Skerry:
So, current official classification of BMI dictates that the most obese people, class 3, have a BMI of 40 or higher. But some sources have added class 4 and 5, at 50 and 60 BMI.
So, what fat class are you in, and where do you want to be?
I'm solidly in the middle of class 4 obesity, myself.

Morbidly A Beast:
I had to take my shirt off in order for a doctor to get my blood pressure because the shirt was messing with the results, I got it off and she laughed at me and looked at my chest and she looked down at hers and she said i was “giving her a run for her money” meaning my moobs were bigger than her pretty large breasts on her skinny body. She asked some questions about my diet and how much exercise I get and if I had experienced any sudden changes in my body and when I said I had gained 100 pounds since august she audibility gasped and went on spiel about diet and exercise wanting to be fit etc then she asked if I was interested in seeing a dietician and I point blank said no so she went on this Lil thing about how I’m still young and that I am so handsome but my weight was jeprodizing it. I never felt so validated in my fatness and liberated for defending myself and offended at the same time. She tried to get me in for a sleep test but I was like nah. I really wanna shop around for fat accepting doctors if that’s a thing