June story club - feederism 101 by bellyempire

I will admit that I couldn't read it. This is a dense text block, and my eyes kept sliding off the page.

When you make a story, don't be afraid to use space. It allows your eyes to rest and better process whatever you see.

A general rule of thumb is to separate paragraphs with a line of space - much as I do in my response. The same thing goes with dialog. When another character starts talking - or the dialog ends - create a new line of space.

If a chapter has multiple scenes, I like to separate the scenes with a line break or multiple lines of space.
2 years

Trying to gain just in certain areas

Sjd8763:
Has anyone had any luck trying to gain more just in certain areas, instead of wherever the fat happens to go? I want my weight gain to start going more to my butt, hips and thighs instead of just to my belly. I've considered waist trainers but with as much belly as I already have, I kind of think that will just end up giving me a bigger lower paunch. A bigger apron belly doesn't sound terrible 😏 But I'd really like to direct things towards my behind if at all possible! Thanks for any suggestions!


Just as you cannot spot reduce, you cannot spot gain. You can build up the muscle there or get plastic surgery. However, there isn't a special diet to get a bigger lower half.
2 years

Contrast/size difference

Chipperpansy:
Lots of people find size differences between partners a bit weird, but I've found it to be appealing. I'd say it's psychological. As a very small person, fatter and taller people give me a sense of comfort and protection, plus it's hot thinking about how someone could easily overpower you. I'm sure at least some people relate (I'm new here, so I'm not sure what all people are into on this platform).


I am shorter, thinner, and more muscular than my partner. It's such a turn-on, and it makes me feel so powerful. Small domme/big sub dynamics are sexy to me.
2 years

What is the "delay" with hc

Anjou:
My fiancé wants to do a rapid gain before our wedding in October. He really had no health issues from his 50lb gain over a few weeks last fall he told me last night (which was confirmed by his annual checkup, but the wheezing and heavy breathing he did made me afraid af for him at the time he was drinking over a quart of cream a day)and seems to really becoming more of a gainer again(but with healthy food like nuts and whole grains) since I went on Wegoy after we got engaged in April and am really getting thin for the first in my life. And since we are both really getting turned on by the contrast, I might ok a rapid summer weight gain with heavy cream


Some advice from a feeder that's been there before more than once.

Make sure he's eating healthy overall.
Make sure he's getting exercise.
Treat this like a marathon and not a sprint. Take regular gaining breaks.

The most intense weight gain session I've done was a constant stuffing session for a month straight. He got fatter fast, but it was hard on his body. Rapid weight gain sessions work best is short spurts.
2 years

Fitting room experiences

RoundRosy:
Had to buy a top today that I tore when trying on
.. This only happened once before when I was like 14. Woman working the area said something to me like I should keep the top for when I lose a few pounds. And had a smirky smile as she said that. I quickly left and dropped the top in a collection bin. Then got McDonald’s in the way home
..


Wow. That was so rude of her. Hardly something anyone in customer service should be saying to a customer.

I'm sorry you went through that.
2 years

Feedism dirty talk?

S3ndh3lp:
What constitutes dirty talk to you in this fetish?


Teasing my partner about his weight and/or appetite

Comparing my smaller, fitter body to his much bigger 400+ one

Pointing out all of the changes I made to his body

Talking about our fantasies and how I plan to make them reality
2 years

At what point does a bbw becomes a ssbbw?


Munchies:
There's actually a lot more body diversity in male and female bodies. I'm not sure why so many people thing that men only gain one way or women only gain another when there's so much evidence to the contrary.

For example, I knew this guy at work that had the most exaggerated pear shape I ever saw. From his torso up, he looked like he was in the low 200s. But he looked twice as big from the ass down.

Curiousv:
"There are more right-handed people than left handed ones."
"No, you are wrong! There is so much evidence to the contrary! For example, I know this guy who is left-handed."


What an odd way to say you have poor reading comprehension and don't go outside.

But that's okay. I can explain better for you.

Nycfa:
I wasn’t saying that it’s an absolute but, as a generic observation, the female body generally seems to distribute gains more randomly than male bodies.

This is the crux of the disagreement.

Generally, men gain weight in their bellies while women gain weight in their hips, thighs, and butts. However, this isn't always the case. There are a number of contributing factors as to why someone gains a specific way: genetics, hormone levels, health conditions, diet, etc.

Nycfa simply stated that fat women tend to have body diversity and fat men do not. I disagreed with him on that statement. I know that you're not into men, but if you scroll through the bhm side of the feedist community (or look at fat men in general) you'll see that this is the case.

But we are going off topic. This thread is all about determining the line between bbws and ssbbws.
2 years

What is the "delay" with hc

Anjou:
My fiancé can really handle the cream, and he can pack on easy 12lbs a week consuming it

ILuvChubbyChix:
12?!

Are you sure that's not fluid/water retention?

Can I also guess this means he probably works 100% remote?

Munchies:
Based on my interaction with a previous feedee, it's possible. However, you have to go balls to the walls hard to achieve that. We're talking an excess of 10k calories a day. We were horny and dumb.

It's not sustainable, and it can mess up your internals. I do not recommend it.

Anjou:
I am sure a fair amount was water. But yes he was hitting around 10,000 kcal a day when he was working from home.
And no it is not healthy, hence not done anymore. Ngl though
watching him gain that fast was the hottest thing I have ever witnessed.

Munchies:
Oh yeah, it was super hot. I'm into extreme weight gain, so seeing him blow up like mad was really arousing.

However, he was reckless with this health, and that's one of the many reasons he's no longer my feedee.

Nofbar:
How much and fast did he gain? What happened to make this stop?

Munchies:
In half a year, he'd gained about 100 lbs. He got obsessed with heavy cream shakes. He'd consume about 10k of the stuff daily at the bare minimum.

The problem is that he stopped eating solid foods. Everything was about getting as fat as fast as possible. And in his mind, drinking his calories made more sense than eating.

There was a noticeable behavior shift as well. When we first met, he was this funny, thoughtful nerd with many interests. He was doing well in life overall. But about two or three months into being like this, he left all his responsibilities to the wayside.

His cognitive skills nose-dived. He was making a lot of dumb decisions, and we got into a lot of arguments. If I had enough sense, I'd have dumped him at this time. But I felt responsible, so I stayed.

Unfortunately, he started pulling away from me and ignoring my requests for medical updates. I wanted to make sure he stayed relatively healthy. He wanted to keep getting fat. And I also suspect there was an element of shame too. Kept going on about how he didn't deserve me.

Eventually, I had to make peace that this was going nowhere good and ended the relationship. I don't know if he actually stopped.

DMVGrower:
Wow that is concerning, sort of sounds like he got caught up in the whole thing. I mean 100 lbs in half a year is astronomical.


Yeah, but what can you do?

Stuff like this is why I do what I do so much in this community.
2 years

What is the "delay" with hc


Munchies:
You made a mistake when you shortened my response. You attributed my words to someone else.


Nofbar:
Whoops! Fixed.

👍
2 years

Should we educate ourselves when it comes to a fetish?

Fattenssbbws:
I agree with your sentiments. I maintained an athletic build for years and always encouraged the women I was with to gain weight but I never really understood what they were going through. I decided at the beginning of last year that I was going to put on some weight just to see what it was like.

Originally it was going to be a one month gain. I weighed 165 at the time. Next thing I know, I'm going to my yearly physical at the beginning of September and I weighed 206. I lost some weight just by reforming to my normal eating habits and by December 2022 I was down to 195. I decided to start gaining again and I'm currently 207 but would like to hit at least 215 by the time I go in for my next physical at the beginning of September. I've noticed certain things I used to take for granted like tying my shoes is hard to do now. I do like the white stretch marks that I now have on my thighs, hips, and butt that were never there before but I'm disappointed I don't have any on my belly since that is what shows the greatest gain. I don't know how to get them because I've already gained rapidly. Also, my belly has softened from my original gain when it was much firmer but I'd like for my tummy to be more flabby and jelly-like if anyone has any suggestions on that.

I feel like I have a lot more empathy now though for BBWs than I had before my own gain.


I've spoken to a lot of (mostly female or AFAsmiley feedees. They mostly agree that fat feeder or mutual gainers tend to be far more empathetic than feeders that have always been thin or in shape.

This isn't to say thin/fit feeders can't be empathetic. But if you haven't experienced something, you owe it to yourself and your feedee to get educated. Most of the resources are free and require little to no prior experience to get started.
2 years