I haven't fit in it for a while now.
I do start it up every week or two my neighbor drives it when he needs it to haul something for his wood shop.

There is a pic of me in my Xterra in my pics section.
I don't remember what my weight was but it was getting to be a tight fit.

I have a 2004 Nissan Xterra and at 425 lbs in was hard to get in and out of.
I had a 2009 Mustang as well and it had plenty of belly room but at that weight my hips rubbed the door and the console.
I have a Jeep Wrangler as a daily driver now and at 360 ish it has plenty of belly room and hip room.

Hard to say everyone is different.

You betcha'

Exactly

Lora Dayton is right too.

its up to us to watch for the signs of what kind of guy he is too.
I have dated guys like that and its easy to spot if you know what to look for.
If they never ask you to do something with his group of friends thats a big sign.

In my time on this earth I have learned guys like that are more worried about themselves and how others view them so they don't want to be seen with a fat girl.
Your feelings don't really matter with those guys.
I would stay away from those guys.
There are plenty of hot guys out there so don't waste your time with someone that doesn't really care about you.

I lost a lot then a couple of years later regained.
The thing I noticed about the regained weight it was a lot flabbier and soft.
I always had a beach ball kind of belly in the past but as I re gained I noticed a double belly was starting so I ended up with a bit of a fat lower belly apron.
Since then my belly has gotten larger and flabbier.

You need to make up your mind what you want and go from there.
If you want to be fat then be fat if not don't be and lose weight.
Weigh the the pros and cons of each and make up your mind.
It really is as simple as that you just need to make the decision.
Ask your S/O what are her thoughts on the subject.

I do hope you find someone and so sorry your husband passed.
I was just starting to get into gaining so that made things harder somewhat so I just didn't mention my desire to gain to guys I dated.