Look up lucid dreaming. If you can get the knack of it, you can conjure up whatever you like.

I really don't get how describing the size of someone's belly as a percentage says anything useful.

Correct. The state of Washington.

I'll post updates when stuff happens.

An idea along these lines that I've had for a while is a button-popping/cloth-tearing/seam-splitting contest. Contestants all wear button-up shirts of about the same tightness. Then they eat until someone pops or rips something, then continue eating until maybe three more wardrobe failures occur.

I've always been a shy person. I don't want to scare her off.

I'm already beyond "being chubby". Last time I weighed myself, I was 327 pounds and I haven't gotten any smaller.

A wide variety is essential for me. I can't get properly stuffed otherwise. That's why I lament the lack of a good non-chinese buffet near me.

FWIW, I really don't have any other kinks except for liking big breasts and wanting my moobs to grow huge, like D-cups.

What are some good tips for introducing a significant other to the concept of feederism? Mine is pretty much ignorant of it, though she does know I want to get a lot fatter.