question for all those who identify as feeders out there... do you think you're a born feeder?

the reason i ask is that, as i look back on past relationships, it would seem to me that not encouraging my partner to eat more and get fatter has been a real challenge for me.

it is not a problem when my partner is keen to gain because i am more than happy to help them! and typically those are the types of people i have been in relationships with.

however, i can think of two relationships in which my partner had a change of heart... in one case, a woman who had moved in with me was initally keen, growing from 180 lbs to 240 during our time together. she had a change of heart and decided she wanted to get back down to 200 lbs or less. while mentally i understood, and was supportive because i really cared for her, but for some reason i couldn't help myself! i could hardly prevent mysef from giving her larger portions than she wanted, encouraging her to have dessert, that sort of thing... when we broke up many months later she was at least 250 lbs.

another example was a relationship with a guy that i met at the gym. he was a cute chubby guy trying to lose weight. when we got together he started to gain, and was initially into it. then he wanted to spend more time with me at the gym so he could slim down... needless to say, he didn't lose any weight while we were together!

do any other feeders feel like feeding is such a strong impulse that they can't even control themselves?

one of my favorite things is snuggle in behind my naked, fat partner when they are laying on their side... spooning them and feeling my tight, lean form press into their soft flesh, reach around them with one arm, and massage and knead the yielding bulge of their lower belly... love it!

there is nothing more beautiful than seeing a big, jiggling belly that is bare for all to see! be pround and put your belly out there - if someone is staring, it's probably someone like me admiring your gorgeous gut!

i love the contrast as well... i like to stay strong and lean, while encouraging my partners to get soft and unfit, growing them as much as possible.

i love to feel their soft bodies envelope my small, tight form...

thought i was only interested in girls until i started to get to know a fat boy with beautiful big moobs. he let me feed him, grow him, and our we got to know each other better and better... since then i have considered myself bi. if you open yourself to the experience, it is amazing what can happen.

can anyone explain to me what dark web stories would be?

love handles are one of the best fat parts... i mean, there are lots, but love handles rock! i love how sensitive they are for some people who are gaining quickly - just brushing you hand over them lightly is enough to excite them sometimes. and when things really heat up, it is nice to use them for the purpose that has given them their name!

I love tying my lover's wrists behind their back, their ankles to the bed posts, and coercing them into eating more than they want as I feed them. Men or women. Poking their bellies, pinching their fat if they try to avoid what i am putting in their mouth. Teasing them with name calling and taunts, and stuffing them full until they simply can't take another bite.

Love seeing my partners growing, getting less fit and less able to so things on their own, getting slower and slower! Love stepping in, "Here, let me reach that for you - that belly seems to be in your way." Love hearing them grow out of breath so much more easily than in the past, and I love helping do chores and things for them, so they can concentrate on consuming more calories.

There have been some great parties in Toronto in the last few years... is it time to have another?

I haven't been to a meet-up since the Summer. Who is in for something? Reply here with your preferred night of the week.